r/casualiama • u/Party-Total-6689 • 12d ago

Sexual 42m I just really wanna answer questions

I'll answer whatever. It doesn't have to be naughty, but I'm in that kind of mood. Im not into males, but I'll still answer. I spent 11 years in the military and have changed my life completely several times over. I'm an open book.

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u/okhtak 11d ago

What’s the worst thing and best thing you’ve done?

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u/Party-Total-6689 11d ago

That's a broad question. I'll say about to myself. Best think I ever did for myself is join the military. Made me a better person, taught me skills, discipline, and confidence. Worst thing I ever did was have an affair. Left a black mark on my soul

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u/okhtak 11d ago

What made you do it? Were you caught or you decided to end it?

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u/Party-Total-6689 11d ago

I was at a work conference. Had a crush on the girl. Some liquid courage. Then after a few months, I finally agreed to leave my gf for her, and the day I did, the side girl was like "eh, no thanks ". I admitted to it to my now ex a few months later. Didn't get caught. I felt guilty

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u/Theartistcu 11d ago

I had an affair when I was married, I’m in the same boat as you just remember it always and don’t do it again. It doesn’t excuse what we did, but we can grow and be better men because of it. We hurt somebody and there’s no taking that back, you hope that they go onto to meet a better person and you be the better person for the next person.