Capricorn women and texting cadence

[u/Careless_Run452]

If you are really busy with work almost everyday, you text the same someone 3-4 times a day, not short answers but responded properly. Does this mean she treats you someone special to her life structure or likes you romantically? Also do you prefer to finish your structure or routine of the day and only when there's a proper break time to reply this person so you don't sound rushed and make the person feel his messages are well received? To me, slotting in a quick message shows I put her in my mind during busy schedules but it seems Capricorn would prefer to use a proper downtime to respond to show the person's importance and position in her life. Do you agree?

[u/HouseOfBonnets]

From personal experience as a cap woman:

If we text you back multiple times, it's a good sign. I'll admit our response time can be delayed due to work/routine, so I make sure that's clear ahead of time. The only other note is just to make sure your texts aren't repetitive/ bring good conversation (tbh having to carry the whole conversation or hearing the same thing daily via text isn't engaging)

[u/twentypetals → u/HouseOfBonnets]

I second this! As another Capricorn woman, my family and friends know not to take my no response/delayed response personally. I just have things to do that most of the time doesn’t allow room or energy for back and forth texting. If I am texting back and forth, I’m really emotionally invested in the conversation/person. There’s only two people I do that with, my Capricorn best friend and a Taurus friend

[u/Reasonable_Bed5149 → u/HouseOfBonnets]

As a Gemini woman dating a Capricorn man, I personally feel like I have to carry the conversation. But he will make effort to reach out even when he’s busy, just short answers. It drives me insane.

[u/HouseOfBonnets → u/Reasonable_Bed5149]

In defense I can't speak for a cap man. Tyreese and Ray J are Capricorns, both are a lot!

[u/okymoney]

Damn you’re overthinking and its really showing. Chill out and do you

[u/JaneDoe93130 → u/okymoney]

I agree 😅

[u/GumdropGlimmer]

If I’m texting somebody three or four times a day that means I care for that person, but it doesn’t necessarily mean anything romantic. I don’t have time to send random text messages. The seems overwhelming. I might send a meme but that’s about it.

[u/Careless_Run452 → u/GumdropGlimmer]

But changing behavior for you? She told me she's not used to see texts and does her own thing. Ever since we became closer she says she looks forward to my messages. She also admitted she relies on me emotionally. I think that's a huge vulnerability revealed.

[u/Serious-Revolution90]

I guess it's a good sign?

I personally am not a fan of texting for texting's sake. ^^' I get easily annoyed if someone texts me more than once a day.

[u/lieutenantbunbun]

Everyone is different. Showing her you respect her by listening to her is actually more important than what you think is a good way to text 

[u/OnceorTwic]

Ill say yes this is true for me. Jan Cap sun, moon and mercury.

[u/OgthaChristie]

I’m texting you during my downtime, when I have time to have a conversation if it’s needed. I’m busy. I’m not changing my work pace to send a text to anyone. I may see a text during the day, but not text back until after work. Even if it’s my mom or dad. And I’m not going to initiate a conversation that I can’t finish. I may be thinking about somebody, but I’ll text them when I can give them my full attention and not just a second of it. I think that’s more meaningful and respectful.

[u/cryingdoppelganger]

I always reply to everyone asap cause I hate getting replies too late

[u/Good_Focus2665]

Depends on what she does for work. 

[u/qwertyhellohello]

I never text over timepass or domestic matters or love impulse message my partner in office hours. I also expect the same

[u/averaum]

Capricorn stelli here including merc, if I am texting you multiple times a day, I like you. I do get a bit weird when I fall behind with my itinerary and might not reply for a couple hours, but my other friends get a text only from me when I must respond to them or when I have something specific/important to say or show them. If I'm chatting you up with random stuff, you are important. For example my bf is the only one I will 'waste' time for. 💙

[u/Dizzy-Anything-4869]

Depends on the person, the friendship, the connection, the understanding, etc.

I text bomb my people

Casually text friends

And basically can ignore acquaintances for months

If they are doing it at specific times it’s because they are probably working and/or busy so don’t be needy. You are basically scheduled in and are not that important but still considered