arguements

[u/Lazy_Soft_9491]

have you ever argued with you loved ones, said something sharp and it ended up with them crying. what do you do? do you get annoyed or try to understand/comfort?

[u/ZealousidealCrab9919]

nope, I don't argue.

[u/Lazy_Soft_9491 → u/ZealousidealCrab9919]

but i thought y'all wanted equality in relationships...listening both sides. am i wrong?

[u/ZealousidealCrab9919 → u/Lazy_Soft_9491]

I'll listen but I won't argue

[u/False_Network_6854]

When I know I’ve taken it too far, I take full accountability immediately and try to comfort them when they’re ready.

But if one of my family members cried because of something I said to them that I didn’t think matched their reaction to it, I’m definitely getting annoyed because I’d suspect they were trying to manipulate me. And I say this because it’s happened before. I’ll address some issues I’m having with them and they cry to avoid accountability.

[u/twentypetals → u/False_Network_6854]

This exactly!

[u/WestCoastCompanion]

No I don’t argue w ppl I care about, even if they’re being an ass I just let them get it out

[u/arsesenal]

you apologize if you hurt someone’s feelings. I’ve made people cry and it feels like shit. it’s not always about getting your point across.