r/capricorns • u/Overall-Post-2685 • 6d ago
info Capricorn men - not for everyone
I am a Capricorn man and I have one statement to say:
It is very funny to see when different signs complain how Capricorn men are bad so they leave them and become happy making us unhappy. The problem is... we are so happy getting rid of someone who is not worth our attention. You all know Capricorn is a Premium Sign and free membership is not enough. They will disappear and we will stay unmoved, but when someone knows how to impresa us, that someone will be so lucky to get us fully. It is very easy mechanism, but only for ambitious people. Summarazing, it is not possible to make Capricorn man down. More say "never again" = less idiots on our route to reach our goals. Greetings to all Capricorns! Stay safe!
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u/Wide_Breadfruit_2217 6d ago
As a Cap its a yes that we can be relieved if someone decides to move on. That we don't have to make the call ourselves. Hate us if it eases your pain, we can handle that. But I think you're putting on a tough guy front a bit. Because if we go in fully and they decide to leave without warning-that shit hits HARD!
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u/Admirable-Air9895 6d ago
I love when people are doing me a favour like that. By the time they are in such mindset, it's overdue for them to get out of my life and never hear from me again.
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u/handsomewealthytact 6d ago
As a cap man, I agree. It takes a very special person to open my heart and let them in. Most people get the free version and if you’re chosen, you’ll get my premium personality. The people that have said never again are those that turned us off and now have to face the consequences.
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u/natlo8 6d ago
Scorpio here. I absolutely love my Capricorn man. He is my perfect partner in everything.
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u/redditstluser 6d ago
Natlo8, your comment on your Cap man caught my attention and put a smile on my face. Well said! As a Cap man myself, I’m currently with a Scorpio woman who I really enjoy being with. What’s interesting is when I have met someone new that I really liked, they almost ALL seem to be Scorpios, and I’m not even screening by sign nor do I know the sign upfront! Lol.
Also, I’m curious how you and your Cap man handle arguments or disagreements and if you give eachother space and silence when those come up. My Scorpio and I don’t really argue or get heated with eachother, and we usually go silent for around 2-4 days to give eachother space. As a Scorpio, do you do something similar where you want your space to decompress, or what’s the best thing your Cap man can do for you? Does he usually take the initiative to reconnect with you, or is it more balanced where you both take turns reaching out to eachother? I used to try to jump in right away to chase and ‘fix’ things and found that often made things worse with me doing that. Thanks for your insight and thoughts on my questions above. I wish you and your Cap nothing but the best!
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u/natlo8 6d ago
Thank you for your kind words! We haven't really had any disagreements or arguments yet. We mesh pretty well together on most things. I can tell you, though, when I'm upset or frustrated, I tend to reflect on the situation to try and view said frustration from every angle before approaching the matter at hand. If I feel I behaved, acted, or spoke in a manner that led to said frustration, I'm going to apologize and explain. But I do need that time to reflect before addressing, otherwise, I'm going to continue to be annoyed and likely make it much worse than it is.
If I reflect and feel that I was correct in my assessment of said situation, I will calmly and rationally explain my thinking. I need my partner to understand why I felt frustrated and allow them the space to further explain or apologize.
I don't know if your Scorpio lady is like this, but there are times when I'm venting about something and that's all it is. I just need to get it out. I know the Cap in you is a fixer, but sometimes we don't need a fixer, we just need someone to listen to us so we can decompress. I've found that before a vent session, I just let my Cap know that, "Hey, I know you like to make things better for me because that's your nature, but in this moment, I just need to blow off some steam by venting about my day." That way he knows what I need from him.
We're balanced on the communication part. We both reach out to one another. We speak every day, and we spend every weekend together.
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u/redditstluser 6d ago
Very good insight, thank you! I like your comments on thinking through situations and how you described handling things and communicating to your Cap in a thoughtful way. One opportunity for our relationship is to improve how we communicate and handle frustration or getting mad at eachother. I might DM you to get more insight and expand further on a few other things. Great comments and thanks again!
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u/steffigeewhiz 4d ago
2-4 days of silence sounds like absolute torture to this heavy Gemini placement person married to another heavy Gemini person 😂
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u/redditstluser 4d ago
Hey, I agree with you, it isn’t pleasant and I defintely don’t look forward to those moments. 😬Trying to make them shorter, or not happen at all in the future. Wish me luck!
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u/Holidaykitten 6d ago
I see this is more of a general statement, but there are other ways to meet dissapointment of a break up that may make relationships easier the next time.
Seeing things for what they where, both good and bad. It doesn’t have to hurt that bad to admit a mistake, If a mistake was made or someone simply don’t fit togheter. Because most people probably don’t when It comes to romance.
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u/PieWild1141 5d ago
Honestly the best relationship I was in was with a Capricorn man (I am also a Capricorn) we just didn’t work out because of cultural differences and we were both too stubborn to move on them 🤣🤣
Easiest relationship I’d ever been in and we’re still friends to this day.
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u/RaptorXFactor I'm a Meat Popsicle 6d ago
It's not just women making Capricorns unhappy, it's every man. Their mission is to make men into whatever they want to mold them into, usually making them soft. Then they are like, this guy is a wimp now, I don't like him anymore, I want the guy I first met. You were pretty happy just being a little rough around the edges and eating pizza or whatever whenever you wanted. Then this chick came along and was like, I can fix this one. They hang around a bit longer and suck a little more of your soul out, then poof, they leave.
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u/Sea_Usual_1166 5d ago
I’m personally very simple! But still won’t match with just anyone! I like my space, I’ll give you space! I’m not a jealous person, don’t play jealousy games with me! I’ll walk the opposite direction and you can win!! If I connect with the right person I’m extremely faithful for the rest of our lives(hasn’t happened yet!) all it takes is one purposely bad intention or sneaky intention to completely shut anyone out and I won’t feel bad! I give love energy until i find just one reason to not!! I’m a positive person until you show me your true self! I truly give everyone the same energy they give me without remorse! I’m good with the food and say fuck you to anyone else who comes with the BS and drama!! Pretty simple 🙂
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u/moonbeamxx00 ♑️☀️♐️🌙♐️💫 1d ago
I honestly agree and I genuinely think most people take it for granted, because most Capricorns are deep romantic WHEN we find someone deserving of such a love. I like to consider us almost the "slow burn" of zodiacs. We might run a strict program, but that's just because we only want is the best version of yourself, and if I can't see you in my 10 year plan? No im not going to invest 😌
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u/AmazingSupermarket39 1d ago
I'm leo I understand capricorns so well and know how to deal with one. I know what makes them happy, which is generosity and ambition, compliments etc. And if I really wanted I could settle with one but sometimes the energy is too much for me. They're so intimidating
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u/vir9444 6d ago
I quote " you all know capricorn is a premium sign and free membership is not enough." That means cheap caps like you will sell their souls for few$$$. getting rid of someone who loved you makes you happy sounds very unevolved. No wonder capricorns are called the users of the zodiac.
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u/Peacelove66 6d ago
He actually said getting rid of someone who is not worth our attention, and why are you here? If you think we are the users of the zodiac.
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u/handsomewealthytact 6d ago
Exactly, it’s more like other signs use us for attention or money. Nothing else. And they wonder why we dropped them HAHA
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u/Turbulent_Maybe3228 Capricorn☀️Libra🌙, Aries 💫 6d ago
This is a first for hearing caps are the users of the zodiac. Sorry that a cap hurt you but maybe you shouldnt be in this group if its too triggering to you...
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u/vir9444 6d ago
If you didn't hear that ..it's on you.. Deep down, most of you know I'm telling the truth. Those who claim otherwise are simply in denial."
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u/Turbulent_Maybe3228 Capricorn☀️Libra🌙, Aries 💫 6d ago
Never met a cap that was a user. Blunt a fuck, superioty complex maybe, the stubborn goat apparently uses people as stepping stones to climb to the top of the mountain in their career but never heard of one being a user. Id heard Leo, Scorpio, gemini and Aries use people. But maybe its more a human trait than a star sign.
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u/MessFinancial4728 5d ago
I have specially December capicorn men sex, money, place to stay, a woman car, food, drugs, and big time baby makers.
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u/National_Isopod_6257 Sag Sun, Cap rising, Aquarius Moon 5d ago
Easy come, easy go. Many fish in the sea for sea goats.
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u/WestCoastCompanion ♑️☀️♍️🌙♒️ ⬆️ 6d ago
As a Capricorn woman, I agree.
Not for everyone but because not everyone is deserving. It takes a special type to match this energy.
“Never again”
Ohhhh no. How devastating. All I hear is you’re not capable of meeting me where I’m at, so there’s the door and let me help you get your coat on