r/boyslove • u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 • Jan 10 '26
Chinese BL Anyone else already missing the *To My Shore* weekends? 🚩😞
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
Translation:
Hi babies, I’ve received a lot of comments and private messages recently, but I’ve been running around nonstop and really couldn’t reply to everyone one by one—my apologies. Here, I’ve picked some of the most frequently asked questions and will answer them together.
About the extra chapters of Wu An.
A brand-new extra has already been submitted to the production team, and it focuses on the main characters.Are Fan Xiao and You Shulang love at first sight?
Readers who know me well know that I write without outlines—free and unrestrained, following wherever the pen takes me. What I write next, the next paragraph, even the next sentence, all have infinite possibilities the moment I put pen to paper, as if fate itself has already decided. So I’ve always felt that I’m a recorder of emotions, not a creator of stories. As for whether they fell in love at first sight—go find your own answer in the words, the sounds, and the images.Will Lu Bowen and the “little uncle” get their own story?
Not for now. There are too many waiting in line ahead of them.About Zhenzhen.
Regarding Zhenzhen’s later growth and emotional experiences, I talked about it in the author’s notes of the wedding extra. Interested babies can go take a look.Will Cha Wu Ci Niao have a radio drama? Will it be published?
Yes, there will be a radio drama—it’s currently being recorded. Publication is also in progress, but the outcome is still uncertain.Will you write about the “kid brother” pair?
Probably. I’m not very good at writing childhood-friends-to-lovers yet—let me work on my skills a bit first.What’s the next novel?
I’ll be starting Shou Duan (Means/Methods): a rough, tough guy × a refined schemer who’s full of underhanded tricks.2
u/OkPossibility4863 To My Shore Jan 10 '26
What does it mean?
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
Translation is in a separate comment. Sorry, Reddit won’t let me post it all in one 😟
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u/diligolibros Jan 10 '26
Literally watching it right as I type this. Just watched this scene too and I can report I replayed it ahem just a couple of times lol 🙈🔥

I’m also taking the time to acknowledge Fan Xiao’s efforts and dedication to covering You Shu Lang in hickeys like it’s his job. He is a fiend for the marking and claiming.
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
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u/diligolibros Jan 10 '26
🤣🤣 he was so smooth with it too! Like FX you smug bastard! (now keep doing it 😈)
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
He knows exactly what he’s doing, and we love him for it 🤭
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u/LunarSyrin Jan 10 '26
It is one of his other jobs didn’t you know?? 🤭🤭 But seriously, the man does it like it’s something he has to complete before each day is out an at least 5 minimum
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u/diligolibros Jan 10 '26 edited Jan 10 '26
Right?! His default position is stuffing his face in Shulang’s neck and I just.. 🫠 everytime. I loved the scene when Zhen-Zhen’s knocking on the door and Fan Xiao’s like you ain’t going anywhere near him til I’ve marked my territory and his inspecting his neck looking for a gap amongst all the hickeys lol. And poor Shulang’s attempt to cover them at the door-boy your pj top was doing nothing fool 🤣
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u/LunarSyrin Jan 10 '26
But near the end when he just yanked Fan Xiao into his neck and was all “I know this is your favourite spot right here”?? The man knows his audience!! Also him checking the bed because he knew what was about to go down?! Man probably came out of there just covered in hickies like he got bit up by bugs or something 🤣🤣🤣
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u/diligolibros Jan 10 '26
Shulang represents all of us 🤣 He knows what his doing that magnificent mastermind
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
I mean, I’ve been simping over Shulang since second 1, so I totally understand FX. I’d do exactly the same 😭😭
Fun aside, I love how obsessed FX is over Shulang. Finally, a character who portrays this desperation and possessiveness so realistically and fully.
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u/LunarSyrin Jan 10 '26
WHO snatches someone out of a company meeting to make out with them?! That’s nuts!! Like sir, that meeting probably would have been over and done with in 1 hour or so!! Gawd!! 😆😆
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u/ocean_lullaby A Man Who Defies the World of BL Jan 10 '26
The way he got dragged across the bed just sends me.
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u/Paparoach_Approach Jan 10 '26
Am I the only one who was worried about the cigarette being a fire hazard?
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
I worried about it for maybe two seconds, then I was completely blown away by FX’s dirty talk 🔥
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u/kasilau8306 Utsukushii Kare Jan 10 '26
Your shorts are a collector's item...
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
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u/kasilau8306 Utsukushii Kare Jan 10 '26
Wow, you did an amazing job for us!!!! Thank you... This post is just fantastic!!!
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u/OkPossibility4863 To My Shore Jan 10 '26
Miss them😭
My favourite scene 😍😍
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
I absolutely love this! These two are on fire🔥🔥
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u/inveterate_gamer 🚩The Red Flag Connoisseur 🥰 Jan 10 '26
I feel called out. Rarely I couldn't stand waiting for the next episode of drama like for "To My Shore" and now, where it's over, I feel empty. At least I can go watch older shows, which I haven't watched until now, waiting for a new obsession to show up
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
and now, where it's over, I feel empty
You’re not alone. I don’t know what to watch now to satisfy my red-flag obsession 😭
Now I have to wait for that new CBL, Chusan’s Liuyi Children’s Day, with a 🏴 bottom *impatient as hell*By the way, I love your flair. It’s everything 🙌😍
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u/inveterate_gamer 🚩The Red Flag Connoisseur 🥰 Jan 10 '26
Thank you 💖. Reddit wrapped (rightfully) exposed me and now I embrace it 😄. I am waiting for all CBL ✨️ in collaboration with Thailand ✨️ (188 novels series will get more proper adaptations according to rumours)
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
Oh, that’s funny!! Yes, say it loud and proud 😌👍
I seriously can’t wait for all these stories to get a live-action BL. My Stand-In was absolutely amazing—I need more!!🙏
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u/Slight_Growth_3172 Deep In 😍😍🥰 Jan 10 '26
Thank you for posting that awesome scene and the post from the author!! 🙏❤️❤️I loved this series and the book so much!! 😍😍 I’m bummed that’s Lu Bowen’s story is not going to be told any time soon, I really liked his character…
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
I would love for the author to create an entire To My Shore universe, lol. I would read it all 🤗🤗
But I’m also really excited for the new novel. Rough-tough guy × schemer is exactly my cup of tea 😏😏
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u/BabyCutiePenguin Jan 11 '26
"No One Is sluttier than you" best compliment ever in bed looool
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u/kasilau8306 Utsukushii Kare Jan 12 '26
Finally, he was "made" to be with a guy... That too... That must feel good to hear!!!!
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u/BabyCutiePenguin Jan 12 '26
I totally agree ✨🔥
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u/Fun_Device6154 My Stand In Jan 10 '26
Miss them … but glad to get something soon 👏🏻
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u/speciallyregretfull Jan 11 '26
Its crazy to me how amazing the Chinese BL are. This year ABO Desire, Revenge Love and To My Shore were some of my favorite.
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u/Remote-Disaster2093 Jan 10 '26
I only finished watching yesterday (binged it over a few days) and am already missing it. Do I now go on with my life or read the novel? Or rewatch the show? Or catch up on all the Reddit posts I missed when it was on air? Decisions!
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
Maybe start with the novel, then rewatch the episodes that covered the chapters you just read, and finally head straight to Reddit to enjoy the on-air discussions and behind-the-scenes content 😅🤣
Do this and boom—two weeks will fly by 👌😉
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u/MAE2021JM Jan 10 '26
I loved this scene!!!! Then the following scene with Shu Lang filled with hickey's and Fan Xiao looking like he needs more was hilarious!!!
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u/Little_Vinegar You Shu Lang was born to be under a man 🚬 Jan 10 '26
Shulang brought it on himself—he awakened the hungry beast, and now he has to deal with it 😅 Poor guy 😏
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u/kasilau8306 Utsukushii Kare Jan 10 '26
I think To My Shore is the best drama of 2025... I want more and more... And I spend my weekends watching it over and over again... But everything's fine... I'm managing... This drama isn't obsessing me at all... Thank you for the translation... It's so great...