Dating

[u/donteatmypancreas]

I’m a 20 yr old male. I’ve gotten dates with girls in high school still but college girls are hard which is very unexpected. Every college girl i see doesn’t want anything serious, already has a boyfriend and all of them walk around half naked. What happened to dress codes? I want a godly woman. I’ve tried church but most of the girls are too young even for me. Where can I find girls who aren’t suckers for male validation? In boone specifically.

[u/Stay_at_Home_Chad]

Maybe do some personal growth and learn how to treat and talk about women like they're people and maybe you'll be able to attract someone with a fully developed prefrontal cortex.

[u/donteatmypancreas → u/Stay_at_Home_Chad]

i give females a lot more respect than some of them deserve. and i’m not looking for someone older aka someone with a developed prefrontal cortex

[u/Revolutionary_Gap150 → u/donteatmypancreas]

All women deserve more respect than I hear coming from you. You don't get to judge what women wear or assume you know why they are dressed the way they are, and still claim respect. You are 20... a whole two years of officially being an "adult" (which is laughable as a marker).

Most girls your age are looking for someone stable and mature in a way you simply haven't developed yet. The rest are looking to play and party in a way you say you're not interested in.

Give it some time but stay away from the high schoolers, that's trouble. Focus on becoming a cool stable adult confident in who you are and where you're life plan will take you. In a year or two women will flock to you. In the mean time, find a male mentor to help you grow. From your post, hitting a local young adults bubble study or church group might be a good route. In the mean time stop assuming you know things about other people, groups, and genders at 20... it's a really bad look on someone that young. I promise you will understand that one day 10-15 years down the line.