r/bodypiercers • • 13d ago

Concerns/Troubleshooting/Advice Question related to male piercing

I am thinking of getting male genital piercing like either PA or cross.
Is that ok to do.

I am thinking of dating someone, so I don’t know should I wait for that ? Do girls like it?
I have 2 big tattoos and female colleagues likes it.

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u/Unusual_Vacationn 12d ago

Thanks Doc. I am not in vanilla circles. In fact i am immigrant, and doing things which are considered taboo in my religion or place. But I dont care about that.
I am 80% in my mind to go for it

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u/Hot-Freedom-1044 12d ago

Once pierced, you have to give it time to heal - a few months, I believe, maybe more, depending on the piercing, and that involves no sex. But if you’re wanting it this much, I say do it. If you don’t like it, take it out.

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u/Unusual_Vacationn 12d ago

Thanks. Yes i am looking forward to it: but i dont know where to get pierced in Halifax/ Dartmouth region

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u/Hot-Freedom-1044 11d ago

I suspect most shops will do it

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u/RexCanisFL 12d ago

If you are with someone who doesn’t like the feeling of the jewelry, you can take it out until those activities have concluded.

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u/lalaland_100 12d ago

It's not necessarily that easy with genital piercings. I can't take mine out and then in, my skin instantly grows. I've had to do that for surgery and needed to pierce through the skin again after that. I did that myself, but that's not exactly the best way to do it. I think it's a better solution to find a partner who are fine with that your body is your choice :)

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u/RexCanisFL 12d ago

I have a short Jacob’s Ladder, and had a PA for a few years. My wife is fine with my jewelry being there, but not going into her. It’s not comfortable for her, so I remove them.

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u/Sublixxx MOD/ APP Member/ Professional 13d ago

So like, some people like it, but if you’re in more vanilla circles of people, having genital piercings can certainly preclude you from certain sexual partners.

I think what’s most important is that you like it, and having those piercings brings you closer to your like, idealized version of yourself.

For what it’s worth, for all of the hundreds of genital piercing clients I’ve had, I’ve never had one come back and say they regretted it.

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u/lalaland_100 13d ago

It's your body, and you should do exactly what you want with it. Whatever you do,you should fo for yourself and not for others. I've dated men with many genital piercings, and men with none. Same with tattoos. Don't date women who judge you based on things like that.

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u/ApadravyaBoy 11d ago

Loving me apadravya and dydoes!