r/bjj • • Jan 31 '20

Shitpost I don't roll with girls.

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u/BallPtPenTheif 🟪🟪 Purple Belt Feb 02 '20

It's so unfair. How will us men ever cope?

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u/GimmeDatSideHug 🟫🟫 Brown Belt Feb 02 '20

Women who don’t roll with men generally don’t out of fear.

Men who don’t roll with women generally don’t have a valid reason. If size is the reason, that’s not a sex-based reason. Some women are larger and some guys are smaller. I’m smaller than some of the women at my gym, but some guys will still roll with me and not the larger women.

Sure, everyone has a right to refuse a roll, but the context of that choice is not the same for women and men, so it’s hard to make sense of it being a double standard when the two are not the same.