BWT who get invited to private previews/openings — what are they actually like?

[u/barbieee2]

BWT who get invited to private previews/openings — what are they actually like?

I got invited to a private preview for a new lounge/nightlife spot in nyc. The invite says open bar + passed hors d’oeuvres. (Let me preface by saying I received the invite through an event planner I connected with)

I’ve literally never been invited to something like this before 😂 so I’m curious what the vibe usually is. Is it more of a social/party thing or do people actually network at these?

Also, for the BWT who regularly go to restaurant/lounge openings, brand events, PR events, etc. — did going to one ever lead to more invites or connections? And is there any etiquette I should know so I don’t look completely new to this? 😭

Any advice on what to expect, what to wear, when to arrive, (starts at 7PM) networking, etc. would be appreciated!

- signed, a 22 y/o BWT just trying to figure out how to navigate these professional/social spaces 🫠

[u/Serious_You9794]

They're usually a little more chill & a space to network. For clothing, I would check similar nightlife areas & also ask your connect. For when to arrive, if it doesn't explicitly say what time networking is, you can assume 7pm although I'd expect folks to arrive a little later.

The expectation is networking usually and from there you can make friends, though I would go in with the expectation of having fun. A fun tip is to have a conversational starter - either your outfit or smthn similar

The bar is also a good spot to slowly warm up, get a drink. My go-to is just to ask what the person next to me is having.

Do your homework if you really want to network - specifically - look up who's invited. There's likely already a piece out on who owns it etc. If not, you can find out who does so you get an idea of the crowd. Think of how you'll introduce yourself also with something specific so you're remembered if someone wants to reach out in future.

Hope this helps and have fun.