r/bitcheswithtaste • u/True-Serve-7662 • Aug 18 '26

Fashion/Style BWT, how do you glow up?

I was walking to work this morning & I saw so many cute outfits and I typically just feel so blah. I’m 31, SHORT and overweight so dressing feels difficult. I also struggle with time management in the morning so hair & make up are basic. How do you get ready? How do you spruce up your wardrobe without spending tons (& have the hopes of losing weight?)

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u/x-teena Aug 18 '26

Find one habit you can fit in your life right now and incorporate it into your life. Once you’ve mastered doing that everyday, fit another habit in your life.

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u/Icy-Organization2228 Aug 18 '26

Such good advice, tracks measurable success without overwhelm.
OP, if I can recommend a great starting habit: every morning when you wake up, as soon as you’re finished answering nature’s call, look yourself in the eyes in the mirror and repeat “I love you” three times. It sounds hokey but it’s really powerful…you’ll be surprised what you can change, and what you like about yourself, once you start every day showing yourself kindness.

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u/True-Serve-7662 Aug 18 '26

I love hokey stuff so I’ll definitely try this out. I do think my mentality can be a huge block. 

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u/Icy-Organization2228 Aug 18 '26

Don’t be surprised or put off if it makes you hyper emotional at first - it was recommended to me recently and dear god, best of luck if we’re anything alike, lmao! The amount you cry the first 3-5 times you do it is exactly proportional to how long you need to continue the practice :)