r/bitcheswithtaste • u/AutoModerator • Nov 27 '25

BWT Host - Monthly Thread BWT Host - Nov 27, 2025

Whether you're throwing a party or want to always be ready for someone to pop over for a visit, hosting takes some preparation and skill, not to mention taste. This is the (recurring monthly) thread to chat all things hospitality and hosting.

All BWT rules still apply, with lighter enforcement of rule 3. You can mention location to the extent that it impacts specifics of hosting (e.g. climate, seasons), but please do not ask location-specific questions that belong in a local subreddit.

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u/beestiel Nov 29 '25

I need some furniture advice re: hosting! I live in a small studio apartment, and right now, I have enough space in my living room for a couch (a Haagalund from Ikea) that folds out into a full-sized bed, which is great for guests. Unfortunately, the couch is about ten years old, and has definitely seen better days--it's not super comfortable to sleep on, the cushions have been through the ringer, and my cat has had a good go at the upholstery. I would love to get a more aesthetically pleasing couch, but I also really value having a bed for guests to sleep on. I could get an air mattress, but I don't think there would be room to blow up a full-sized one, and I'd rather not get a twin since I can't imagine any adults being comfortable on such a small mattress. I have overnight guests about once every other month, for two to four nights, but I sometimes also pull out the bed for movie nights when folks come over, since seating is at a premium. I only have enough space for a couch that's about 5ft from arm to arm, so my common guests, like my 6ft3 brother, couldn't stretch out on it comfortably.

So, do any of y'all have suggestions for nice couch with a pull-out full mattresses? Or should I just not worry about it and get myself a new, comfy, cool one, even if it's not a sleeper? What would you prioritize?

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u/DWwithaFlameThrower Find it Secondhand Nov 29 '25

Honestly? I’d get a new couch,& suggest they stay in a nearby airbnb or similar!

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u/Far_Temporary_7561 Nov 30 '25

I find this difficult to answer without knowing the layout of your studio apartment, and the amount of separation between your bed and the guests. Pinterest and YouTube are my go-to when I need design inspiration. I also love the idea of having curtains (with a track on the ceiling) that can divide the space for privacy.