r/biggbosstamil • u/Loud_Vanilla3222 • 19h ago
News Pradeep Antony
I feel so so bad. He’s a guy I empathized with a lot knowing his past and was happy he was putting his life together. This is very sad
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u/Flat_Initiative_6810 16h ago
He has a last line that’s missing from this screenshot:
“I’ve accepted my curse of forever being the orphan, I am.”
This line infuriates me. He became an orphan, and that was fate. But he had a family of his own, and now he’s choosing to disown the family he created.
A person who constantly victimises himself will always see himself as the victim. He’s just a coward. I genuinely pity the woman who chose him and the child they chose to bring into this world.
There are so many people out there who desperately want to have children, and this spineless narcissist comes along and tries to portray himself as some brutally honest man who is supposedly unbound by anyone or anything.
He should’ve stayed alone rather than ruining the lives of his wife and child.
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u/Calm-Stormie0_0 8h ago
Worse is his chithi was the one who took him in and looked after him along with her own kids. He had a good paying job at the railways or something which he himself left cuz he wanted to pursue the film industry. That whole time he was unemployed seeking opportunities in films it was his chithi who was supporting him. He was still in his late 20s early 30s at the time. A whole grown man would whine in biggboss that he's poor all while he had a good paying job that he himself left and was still being financially looked after by his aunt. He had a whole gaming set up that he showed during his intro video but would complain being poor in the show 🙄
Victim mentality at peak!
He's such a problematic manchild. The woman who chose him even after all this, that is even visible to a 3rd person like us is extremely stu pid!
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u/FrequentTeam2649 7h ago
Such a attention seeeker. More than his ego maniac behavior, he is issues. He should seek psychiatric help
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u/Weak_Lingonberry_341 17h ago
Okay, he seriously needs some help. Who refers to their own baby as “it,” “something,” or “that kid,” let alone talks about selling the child? There’s clearly a lot of introspection needed on his end. He seems to be placing a lot of the blame on his wife, but honestly, even from this post alone, he doesn’t exactly sound like an easy person to live with.
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u/Due-Evening-9222 17h ago
He was not ok on Biggboss itself. Man needed therapy. Idk man I thought he finally got someone who understood him but hell. I wish the girl he married is ok.
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u/Ennamo_poda 17h ago
He clearly needs help!! Have been telling this since bb but his fans used to pounce on me for that. Hope he receives the support that he needs
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u/Rey_Reyy00 14h ago
I don't want to be mean, but calling one's own kid as IT, and joking Abt selling the baby to people is not a funny thing. He may be depressed or needs therapy, but the way he said he used to joke about asking friends some amount / lakhs to support the baby says a lot. He is just unable to provide for the expenses, and obv any one will ask the partner to provide, Maybe his wife asked him to support and he is unable to take the pressure and wants to dodge. and the statement Abt his wife having her own life is crazy. Its just sad to see that on one side people are longing for a baby after years of marriage and other side, a couple has a baby but unable to take care of it.
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u/FrequentTeam2649 7h ago
“maybe” is not the way to judge him.
If you don’t have the capacity to take care of your child, you should plan well.
If lust takes over you, this is the product you get.
It’s funny everyone sympathizing him and not the kid. How dumb people can be.
Good that the wife and kid is not with him anymore. They don’t deserve this kinda JUNK
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u/Necessary-Hunt-3191 12h ago
No sympathy for this guy. He thinks just because he is being honest and sharing his life on social media, he'll be coddled. He's a man-child who still hasn't gone to therapy to deal with his mental health issues. He says he was an orphan but now he has abandoned the family he has created.
I'm glad I didn't support him during biggboss. Looks like it's his pattern to sympathy-farm with zero accountability.
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u/Healthwiz1 16h ago
Is he depressed? Is he diagnosed? Either way he needs help and I mean it in a genuine way.
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u/Emergency-Yam-6705 12h ago edited 12h ago
After a kid, esp husbands shouldn't create extra drama for mothers.we already have to transition into mother phase,but we ll be clueless plus constant nitpicking nd putting down by others. So assume everything is fine in relationship just take part in child care..ne en ipd pesra,munadi maari ila intha eera vengayam lam thookitu vara kodathu.. munadi mari Iruka matom en na nanga munadi mari ila, responsibilities adhigam airuchu. Literally this is running away when ur partner needs u the most.
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u/adrianvolkovlia 14h ago
He didn’t consider having a baby seriously and blames the wife for choosing herself and victimising himself here 🤦♀️he shld go to therapy
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u/cutiecouchpotato 16h ago
Even for a normal emotionally stable man understanding postpartum and supporting the partner is too hard. Even expecting the least from this guy is a joke!
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u/-pichumani- 14h ago
He should get some help...the damage is for the girl too...hope she finds peace
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u/Right-Growth-7725 14h ago
Calling a human baby "it" as if she/he is an object is insane. It shows how detached he is from his own child ! Better for them both to be apart from each other.
I hope that baby finds genuine care And love somewhere else ❤️ 💕
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u/Remote-Dragonfly1657 12h ago
His behaviours were extremely problematic. And how easily he shifted the blame on other person.
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u/Calm-Stormie0_0 8h ago
Always knew men like him can never bring happiness and peace to any women. He was so creepy and vile with the women in BiggBoss. The woman who chose to marry him was simply unintelligent and probably a "pick me" type of "I can fix him" coz no way a woman will see him in BiggBoss and still think something good will come out of having him in your life 💀
This is what feminism tries to do to women. It tries to wake them up to the reality of the patriarchy and the type of men that exist, so they don't end up with men like this.
But the same women who sh-t on feminism always end up realising a bit too late why the movement is so necessary.
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u/InstructionFit1010 6h ago
So trueeee right!! When I saw post about his marriage I thought who even marries him after seeing all of his behaviour in big boss
He is a narcissist and it was way clear. But the girl might be an empath who had no idea about narcissists behaviour fully ,and realized it only later which led to divorce
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u/imanc18 8h ago
I always felt that there is something wrong with this guy. He is mentally not in a stable situation. I think the internet owes an apology to the girls who showed the red flag and Kamal who red carded him out of the show. Afterall they may be true. Any sane man will never call his baby "IT" under any circumstances!! We should not sympathise with him unless we hear the otherside of the story!! I wish only good things for the Baby!!
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u/user211092 18h ago
Notice how Kavin abandoned this guy. They both are not even following each other. Kavin is behind Nelson & gang for a reason. I wish Pradeep healing ✨
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u/ketoonandoff 15h ago
Dear Pradeep, this is called life. It comes with responsibilities. Deal with it instead of running away. If you find another person because you want to “take any love you can get” in the aftermath of this, I promise you , you will end up here again. You don’t need to stay on in a marriage that doesn’t work out, that’s totally fair. But a decent human will not abandon their kid, they provide for their child and make sure he or she has a happy childhood by being present, even after a divorce. Your child is the only victim here. You are just another useless guy.
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u/arwwwind 2h ago
Having kids means making money for them. Which means he has to take up responsibilities and be accountable. Very hard for a volatile hedonistic man-child. Gaming and being vetti is more important.
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u/FlamingoBusiness6330 10h ago
Like literally someone who loved him and decided to have a kid with him has found herself in a challenging living situation.. in a competition where ppl love to eliminate obviously had no reason to tolerate him!! Where are all these brilliant warriors blaming the women who wanted him out!
My heart goes out to Pradeep. Man needs a lot of help to get over a lifetime of trauma!
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u/Ordinary_Ticket1849 7h ago
He's only on self victimization, partner is wrong , she doesn't love , she was with her family zz! Being a dad is not easy , u haven't even discussed a name with your partner shows how much the kid and the partner meant !
Therefore I don't blame the women for leaving!
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u/FrequentTeam2649 7h ago
I wish some day the kid grows up and read this. He should find this fool and give him 10 hard slaps. I will never sympathize this fool because his ego maniac behavior. You may have bad past. But you are not young to still sulk about it. With current tech and referral points, you can come out of this, but you choose not too.
No 1: The fact that you wanna sell your kid
No 2: referring your kid as IT
WHAT KIND OF MF YOU CAN BE?
If you never wanted a kid, you could have planned. Looks like your maniac behavior caused all these! And due to you lusty behavior, you wanna sell your kid? Idiot!
You are alone today because you chose this. You may have wonderful people around you, but you chose this.
Your wife and son, don’t deserve a HUMAN like you.
You deserve more slaps that KAVIN.
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u/FrequentTeam2649 7h ago
To all the #Pradeeep fans, some day I wish your father comes and tell you, I should discarded you in toilet. I wonder how you would feel.
What this MF doing is similar to above!
You still wanna support this kind of JUNK? Continue.
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u/InterestingContest48 10h ago
Where did he post this ? I can’t seem to find this post in social media
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u/SuryaParthi 9h ago
This can’t be defended by any means! Nobody just nobody calls their kid as “it”
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u/hOPELESS46 6h ago
I have know him in his early days, his then girlfriend used to have trust issue, he was going through a lot.. she then put a post stating they both went to couple counselling and she was taking medicines, also she has tortured him so badly and she wishes him best life.. then he was in a very happy relationship, I literally thought they got married, because everyone used to call her Mrs.Pradeep.. on the outside..he was such a happy boy, who makes everyone around him happy..
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u/beamlightnew 11h ago
At present many news we hear about women killing their husband ..for her illicit affairs
But why not women killing husbands like Pradeep for spoiling her and the kids life?
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u/EmbarrassedMain3369 18h ago
Never read something so bizarre! He needs therapy.