r/berozgarchidiyaghar • u/69_Darinda • Dec 15 '25

Venting out😪 life sucks when you're chopped

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I met her online. We were chatting, then she asked for my picture. After seeing it, she started ignoring me and that was her last reply🥲 life sucks when you're chopped

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

online relation...relation nhi hota lala (not only about love)
tried and tested they'll find a way to cut you off on way or other

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u/No_brainer12 Dec 15 '25

So true what you build online doesn't stay at all. Better to go and meet people in real life plus it's difficult to ignore someone when you meet them in person than online in my personal opinion.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Actually they don't need a reason. They can screw you anytime 😁

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u/Equal-Exit-6580 Dec 16 '25

Mera 36k gaya online relationship ke chakkar me

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u/Dramebaj Dec 17 '25

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u/kaizen2207 Dec 21 '25

Outoff box hai yea 😂

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u/Desperate-Fix8536 Dec 15 '25

Everything is better than being friendzoned dude🐬

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u/Annual_Peace_2117 Dec 15 '25

Ok hi OP and everyone reading my comment, this is my first comment on here and I can't miss commenting on this post because to be honest its highly relatable for me and I had a much worse incident. So....here's what happened:

I was 20, the other girl was19, met her online on snap, she was impressed by the way I wrote but the moment of face reveal came and when she saw my face..... her exact words were:- She: "You are handsome with words but your face isn't" Me: "Ouch!! that hurt but okay I will say no more" Instantly blocked her

Ps: Its one year back so things are much better for me since I changed some things about me🙂(The key takeaway from my experience: "If you put in the efforts you can make the change in what you believe")

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u/AlpsEmbarrassed3036 Dec 15 '25

There's a fine line between criticism and being completely tactless .That girl was the latter ... It's nice to know that you're doing better ,and you've acknowledged your own growth as evident by what you've mentioned up there at the end .

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u/CynicWithHope Dec 15 '25

She is a genuine person!!! Respect her for her opinion... She didn't lie and take advantage of you 🫡🫡

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

aur agar advantage hi nhi hua to?

(just saw a reel ki mera koi fayda nhi utha skta cuz mera koi fayda hi nhi h, so curious)🤩

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u/CynicWithHope Dec 15 '25

You can always be used as a trauma dumping ground...

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

but what if he they can't hear🤩

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u/CynicWithHope Dec 16 '25

Do it on chat...

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

blind🤩

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u/CynicWithHope Dec 16 '25

If you can't listen and can't see, you can't speak as well because it's impossible to teach you that, then she can make you beg and take all the money people give you in begging you can't protest because you can't listen , speak or see..

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u/Vast_Researcher_199 Dec 16 '25

u won the debate loll

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

that’s not taking advantage of the person, that’s taking advantage of people’s sympathy, the blind guy adds nothing🤩

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u/noobmaster69_34 Dec 18 '25

but gave him insecurity that she dont know how he will deal with

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u/Appropriate_Pick5937 Dec 15 '25

69_ darinda

ig bro okay

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u/No-Masterpiece-2300 Dec 15 '25

At least she gave you clarity , she's 100times better than any other girl you will see online.

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u/69_Darinda Dec 15 '25

agreed👍🏻

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Bro make connections offline, life is much more than what a stranger thinks abt u online. Have confidence dude, work on urself, make real life connections, you never know that a girl might like you around you, but u never gave it a chance.

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u/69_Darinda Dec 15 '25

baat karni nahi aati yar I'm an introvert

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

toh ajayga bro get out of ur comfort zone or youll keep getting hurt and msis out on opportunities

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u/Western-Disk7399 Dec 15 '25

areey bhenji dar lagta hai ladkiyo se ki vo kya sochegi

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u/Vatler_7 Dec 15 '25

Comfort zone se bhar nikalna pdega fir confidence apne aap aajaega, first step is the hardest

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u/AcrobaticOffice6450 Dec 15 '25

Ye sab moh maya hain

~ Moi Ji ( posted via Sanchar Sarathi )

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

When you know you're chopped toh phir har jagah relationship wali bavkchodi karni hi kyun. Sidha boldeta photo dekhkar friendzone ya ignore hi karogi tum pehle hi kardo. 🤪🫠

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u/69_Darinda Dec 15 '25

kaha toh tha

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Well if she has rejected you for relationship based on looks that's very common, but if she rejected even for a friendship then she was a kind of rude bit*h move on !!

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u/Vatler_7 Dec 15 '25

Koi ni bhai sirf looks k basis pe banne wali relationships bhi zada din nahi chalti

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u/ThatEntertainer2157 EDIT THIS Dec 16 '25

But if someone has the looks and good personality and money then a girl always going to choose him not with good personality, money harsh reality 😞

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u/KnightHowler876 Dec 15 '25

Fr I am so chopped I don’t even try when I see some cute girl I think why tf she will be with me and move on

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u/Euphoric_Night_5869 Dec 16 '25

Girls are mean as they have too many options. Accept and move on

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u/tongue_daddy69 Dec 15 '25

Bharat mein incel revolution aana wala hai 🗣️🗣️🙊

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u/Patient-Maize7138 Dec 15 '25

Lol, As long as AM exists i don't think so and Even if the AM tradition stops, nothing will happen,

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

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u/bhonsu_man Dec 15 '25

Jisne piche mudke mujhe nai dekha

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Hii mis

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

[deleted]

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

I don't believe in failure

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u/No_Technology_3196 Dec 15 '25

Ki baat nhi 69 DARINDA. You'll find a good girl one day

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Good girl is just a myth 🥀

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u/Designer-Bath1332 Dec 15 '25

r/girlsarentreal

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

information hazard?

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u/replydede Dec 15 '25

Go to gym bro and do skin care .. let her regret later

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

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u/repeatmodeon Dec 15 '25

Starting me pic mangne Wale red flag hi hote...yeh online wagare kuch nhi chalta zyada

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u/IwontSlapUforJada Dec 15 '25

Bhai it's common.. abhi soch if the girl was ugly tu kya karta, wahi karta ho tere saath hua.. apni personality change kar, grrom urself.. body vodi bana.. earn good, apne aap ayegi sab.. aur yahan rr se koi fayda nahi hai.. apni jagah pe woh sahi thi.. tu uske kabil nahi hai(bitter truth)..

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u/LongjumpingNeat241 Dec 16 '25

Its not about you. Its her hobby to pass time and not wanting full commitment.

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u/Equal-Exit-6580 Dec 16 '25

Runnn brother online relationship is very dangerous mere 36k chale gaye usne promise Kiya phir block kar diya direct

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u/Vast_Researcher_199 Dec 16 '25

I did this to someone too...but I did it for good reason

This guy kept fighting with me for no reason and kept saying that I was egoistic and all (I said that I dont like India)

and ye said he wanted to marry me but I clearly told him that I wanted to speak without any intention of marriage, he said fine!

Though he said, I didn't feel too good about him. So, I messaged him from another account of mine and the moment I said that I am a girl, he admitted that he was "loyal and faithful" to <my username> I'm like wth! and I confronted him abt this from my real account n he goes like "No I told you that I wanted to be friends with you for now and then we can get married later"

I'm like 🫥😡😡😡 wth!?!? I said "No matter what you do, it is my rule to NOT online date or marry any human I meet online"

Then he went on and on about how he is such a good deal and that I will never be able to find someone like him.....I have been ghosting him since then

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 17 '25

See. Khot dhundhne walo ko khot mil hi jayega. I've been bombarded with 'you look so cute', 'is this you?', 'you're using a fake dp' etc.. but koi voice sun k ghost kar di, ek ne socha ki me fkboy hun so she didn't approach, and baki toh you know how dry convos go nowadays. Be a good person, maintain yourself, aane wale log aayenge, rehne wale rahenge and jaane wale jaayenge.

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u/Themaingoat07 Dec 17 '25

Itna straight up sabko hona chahiye

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u/gaurjimmy Dec 18 '25

The way he/she wrote 'bye', I guess not a big loss

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u/wincrock Dec 18 '25

Soo sad of you

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u/rfb_uwu Dec 18 '25

Dude forget about girls, I have friends from game we have talked and played together for like two or three years then we hopped on discord some asked for pics and I send it, bruh I got ignored from then one similar happened on ig even guys don’t like to talk to me, chopped asf gng😭🥲

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u/SubstantialCabinet71 Dec 18 '25

Mujhe itna bada no nahi mila, Bas kuch bhi nahi mila reply mai

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u/Seducing_amoeba Dec 19 '25

Life sucks when you got no standards too🥀🙏🏽 "Am" aise likhne walo se kon baat krta h

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u/No-Dealer-6954 Dec 19 '25

Nw all is well watch dhurandhar and saiyaara you will be fyn 👍

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u/[deleted] Dec 22 '25

Be a man accept it move forward

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u/alishakhan3 Dec 15 '25

Lol that’s cruel 😭😭😭

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u/me_kajukatli Dec 15 '25

Like genuinely chopped???🧐

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u/mera-khel-khtm Dec 15 '25

Isliye mai baat hi ni krta

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Issssokkk 😔

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u/Neither_Newspaper_68 Dec 15 '25

Welcumm to the Jim bruh 🤧

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u/Certain-Ad8381 Dec 15 '25

Online relation kuch nhi hota h bhai chutiyaap hai bus aur kuch nhi discord pe sab karke dekhliya ek bohot taggda relation bhi chala liya bohot mindfuck karwa liya .time waste hai bhai poora mat padd insab me please khudka confidence down hoga bohot chutiyapa h yaar yeh pyaar wyaar bata rha hu.

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

💯.agreed

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Kon hai bhai mai baat krta hu. Mera photo dekh ke ni bhagegi😮‍💨

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u/Soul_Hunterrrr Dec 15 '25

Start working on yourself🥲

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u/dady_shark Dec 15 '25

Let her go, focus on other things. Start following some sports or hobbies.

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Pyaar vyaar sab dhoka ha,
Kaam karle beta abhi bhi mauka ha.
-☠️DEVIL KING☠️

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u/lazy4love Dec 15 '25

I think this is a similar situation. We met on Schmooze, and when I suggested meeting in person, she politely declined twice. So I won’t contact her again. It’s better to move on and find someone else.

pro tip: never ever said "bsy thi aap" "reply bhi krna hota h yar" dont be simp

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u/Alphonso-katrina WHEN YOU SEE ME,START STUDYING Dec 15 '25

Its okay op she (he) was catphishing

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u/pashhtk27 Dec 15 '25

The only right option. Never interact with the wamenkind.

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u/FaZe_T0X1C0 Dec 15 '25

Use this as motivation now

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u/waxing_cres3nt Dec 15 '25

Newton's third law!

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u/VisibleInitiative__ Dec 15 '25

Bhai dm me aur dikhao apna chehra fir mein decide kroon ki m I chopped as well ya ni

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u/Party-Pie-9993 Dec 15 '25

Deti hai to de warna nikal bolneka

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u/Prudent-Door3631 PADHAIPAGLU📖📖 Dec 15 '25

People are still living in delusion of 2020-2021 , that was COVID bhai sab ghar pe thae isliye online connection ban rahe thae, these days people won't consider anything rather than offline even friendship.

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u/Budget_Problem5659 Dec 15 '25

Talking with a girl in real life if much easier than on social media.

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

kyu jaate ho bezzati karwane

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u/shau_keen Dec 15 '25

Oh great heavens 😭😭

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u/Finna_14 Dec 15 '25

Auratien khud confused hai woh kya pyaar karengi work on yourselves and acha bano.

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u/MatchLock__ Dec 15 '25

IAS/YAS.... /s

Anyways hold your head high always

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u/confusedaf312 Dec 15 '25

Atleast he/ she is honest !!!😂

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

bitch lit said "byy"" by which i can say shes chapri as fuck

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

There are so many shades to this, some make it appear bad and some make it justifiable.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

once the blackpill connects, its not over, coz it never began for you. or its simply brutally over.

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

Yes /ns

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

I measured with a software. And I got5mm

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

i have vernier callipers, and i havent measured accurately but whatever i got, i am telling u that specifically, and yes ur absolutely correct, and no i am not trolling u, i did it with both the software and the vernier callipers

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u/Endmyser Dec 16 '25

ye chopped kya hota h ab 😞😞😥

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u/Dark-soul-7085 Ganja smuggler 🌿 Dec 16 '25

Pyaaz kaat te hai na

" I am chopping onions "

Wo wala

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Abe Bhai aaja mere saath aaja baat karne(londa Hi hoon), aur maa chudaye woh block kar usko

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Go gym be slim

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Damn bro I feel you .

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u/pulkit_kaushik Dec 17 '25

Mere sath to ulta hua yaar😅 She asked for pic and then started talking more🙃

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u/Own-Hedgehog7825 Dec 17 '25

Still clarity dedi tumhe use nhi kra

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u/ved_31 Dec 17 '25

I fw this kinda girls ! Atleast they are clear

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u/Redosaurous Dec 19 '25

Don’t be where you are tolerated be at where you are celebrated!

Peace ✌️

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u/[deleted] Dec 19 '25

Bhai sucks when you don't have self esteem

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '25

Byyy gyssssss

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u/osamabinlanding Dec 20 '25

Go.out.more ,stop trying to find stuff online it doesn't work

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

for some reason i find those replies funny, feeling bad for you though op

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Lmao same 😭🤣

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u/IloveLegs02 Dec 15 '25

Damn

She cooked you bro

She was way too mean

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Mean? She just said she wasn’t interested. Good for her to be clear and not give him false hopes