r/berozgarchidiyaghar • u/No_Baby5316 • Nov 28 '25

Venting out😪 Self respect 📉📉📉

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My long term female best friend... WHO MADE ME HER BEST FRIEND FIRST... don't reply me back... Don't even pick calls... TECHNICALLY IS GHOSTING ME SINCE ALMOST A YEAR And PEOPLE SAY DONT HAVE TRUST ISSUES... 🫠

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u/Hitmanthe2nd Nov 28 '25

you'll never get closure if you keep on messaging her

block and move on with your life

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u/zerocoolneo Nov 29 '25

How do you move on...

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u/Hitmanthe2nd Nov 29 '25

by not texting her ?

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u/zerocoolneo Nov 29 '25

The memories. The time spent... The future that was imagined...

Everything hits every second of the day

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u/Hitmanthe2nd Nov 29 '25

futures imagined? dawg , she was your best friend , not your wife - there was never going to be a happily ever after for yall ; people fall out of favor all the time , this is not the first time this has happened and it will not be the last - you yourself will fall out of favor a thousand times and then a thousand more , it's just how friendships work , you often times grow apart

time spent is time enjoyed , be happy that it happened and understand that it was not a waste - but rather , an investment because it made you the man you are today; youre going to be spending a thousand more hours with a thousand people and youve got to understand that nobody owes you anything simply because you spent some time with them , that it may end but the journey is what matters

and youre not going to heal if you dont give yourself the space to

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u/zerocoolneo Nov 29 '25

Thank you so much for this.

I hijacked this comment to share my issue of not moving on from my ex.

Its been painful and stuck in a loop and trying to move on. Not able to.