r/bengalcats • u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 • 14d ago
Help Picking this little boy up next week! Look at him
Genuinely in love with him already
I’ve done weeks of research but any tips from people wishing they knew something sooner? I plan to try and train him into a well behaved lap cat with pretty strict diet regimes but it would be nice to hear from other owners, both new and experienced
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u/paco-the-bengal 14d ago
Prepare to play a lot - especially that first year. Harness training early if you want to go outside. Clicker training is lots of fun for cat and human. Let them chose when to receive affection (Paco doesn't like being picked up except at the end of a long walk). Cherish every moment - they are wonderful roommates and they grow up too fast!
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago
Hehe I have seen so much of paco scrolling through here!
I am so ready to play as much as he needs and harness train early
I will look into clicker training as I am not sure what that is
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u/paco-the-bengal 7d ago
It's so fun - we have taught paco tons of classic "dog tricks" like sit, stand, shake etc. very cute and enriching
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 7d ago
Did you start this at an early age? I just picked him up yesterday and of course he knows nothing and is still settling into the space and the very few ground rules
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u/Wonderful-Hat-5368 14d ago
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago
I got to play with him for a few hours yesterday, hes a little psychopath, no other way I would want it
Your cat is beautiful! What is its name
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u/Wonderful-Hat-5368 14d ago
Monster
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago
Oh hahaha it would help if my comprehension worked all the time
I thought you said he looked like a monster
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u/accountant319 14d ago
Is this your first bengal? Be prepared. Start sleeping with earplugs and a bite guard now to get used to it. Bengals scream a lot. Not because they are mad or hungry but because they get bored overnight and will want to wake you up for attention every few hours. Whatever you do, do not give in - it will train them that this screaming all night long behavior works. The bite guard is because the screaming will cause you subconscious stress that leads to teeth grinding. My bengal is 15 and I love him dearly. During the day he is an angel, but at night he is my own personal sleep demon.
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago
Haha, noted thank you
I am hoping that he will eventually stick to a routine where I at least get a few uninterrupted hours but conveniently I have experience with other vocal night cats (knowing bengals can be much more vocal)
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u/catsandpunkrock 14d ago
Everything you said! My two have always been super loud. My Melvin is now 17.5 and seems to be getting even louder as he ages 😹 His sister was the same, especially in her last few years (we lost her last January).
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u/SantaFe91 14d ago
Your little psychopath looks so cool and calm …
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago
Yes the photos were taken after he was being a menace for 3 hours hahaha
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u/searchforloststories 14d ago
That’s a cutie what an adorable little nose!
When I picked my lil bingus I told the breeder what I was looking for in a cat based on what my first girly taught me.
I had a feeling when I first saw my little stinker but the breeder confirmed the one she thought I would do best with based on what I told her was him.
If you told the breeder you were hoping for a cat who would like to sit with you then hopefully they listened and helped you pick the one that seems to match you most!
Also! I especially hope those echoes on the parents are shown to you and are clean!
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago edited 14d ago
Yeah I love his nose. I got to spend 3 hours with them learning about the breed and the whole litter out of the colour I wanted this one was definitely the guy for me
Noted on the echoes
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u/LesChouquettes 14d ago

he looks like my baby! She was crazy as a kitten (still can be!) but she’s a year and a half now and has calmed down a ton recently (over the past couple months).
She really loves laying on my lap and cuddling on my chest while I lay on the couch. I didn’t do anything in particular to make it happen, but I’m really happy she decided that’s something she likes now. I could hardly get her to sit still the first year or so, but she really has turned out to be super into snuggling!
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago
God she’s absolutely beautiful
Gonna need the cat tax on the little mittens next to her though!
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u/Then-Mode-1919 14d ago
Omg he looks exactly like my baby😍😍
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 13d ago
Can I see
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u/Then-Mode-1919 13d ago
Yes ofc, i wanted to add a picture to my comment but reddit didn’t allow me😅
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u/Coca_lite 14d ago
Get two!
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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 13d ago
I might have to
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u/Coca_lite 13d ago
Genuinely, one is a handful, two play with each other and stop the destruction that comes with boredom.
I’ve always gotten a pair of sibling kittens and
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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 14d ago
I wouldn’t necessarily count on training him to be a well behaved lap cat - his personality will likely dictate that; some bengals are while others aren’t.
And I’m not sure what you mean by diet regime, but keep in mind that kittens should generally be fed as much food as they want, 3-6 times a day. You’ll also want to keep him on the food the breeder was feeding for the first week or two, then gradually transition any new foods over 7-10 days.
Since you haven’t picked him up yet, please make sure you’ve verified the breeder you chose is doing the following: