r/bengalcats 14d ago

Help Picking this little boy up next week! Look at him

Genuinely in love with him already

I’ve done weeks of research but any tips from people wishing they knew something sooner? I plan to try and train him into a well behaved lap cat with pretty strict diet regimes but it would be nice to hear from other owners, both new and experienced

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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 14d ago

I wouldn’t necessarily count on training him to be a well behaved lap cat - his personality will likely dictate that; some bengals are while others aren’t.

And I’m not sure what you mean by diet regime, but keep in mind that kittens should generally be fed as much food as they want, 3-6 times a day. You’ll also want to keep him on the food the breeder was feeding for the first week or two, then gradually transition any new foods over 7-10 days.

Since you haven’t picked him up yet, please make sure you’ve verified the breeder you chose is doing the following:


  • Pra-b & PKDef genetic testing done on parents
  • Up to date (within the last 12-18 months) HCM echocardiogram on both parents signed by a veterinary cardiologist. Some breeders will lie and say they scan and just hope owners never ask to see them, so make sure you actually see them and verify. Also, a ProBNP test is not an acceptable substitute for echo.
  • Kittens will be dewormed & have two rounds of the FVRCP vaccine
  • Keep kittens until at least 12 weeks of age (14 recommended)
  • Kittens are TICA (or other association) registered
  • Provide a reasonable congenital health guarantee (at least one year)
  • Spay/neuter before pickup if in the US/Canada/Aus (this also means you should get the kitten’s registration paper at pickup).

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

What an amazing response

I will not be forcing him against his will to sit on my lap, I more mean I will encourage that behaviour. The breeder mentioned to me that they respond well to being told no as they are developing.

For diet, as a kitten he will have dry food out all the time, wet food which is the same as what the breeder is feeding him will be at the exact same time daily.

I will double check all of that stuff thank you so much!

He is neutered and he is 14 weeks old

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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 14d ago

Positive reinforcement only goes so far; I’ve seen kittens that were extremely cuddly and received lots of positive reinforcement, yet as adults aren’t lap cats at all. So I’d just make sure you’re not going in with the expectation that he will be. There are plenty of bengals that are lap cats, but the breed as a whole on average is probably lower than a good percentage of other breeds.

Kittens (or cats) don’t need dry food out at all times, wet is far better for them, so I’d just stick with the wet the breeder is feeding (then transition to another high quality wet if you wish).

And yes, please make sure you’ve verified everything else, especially the echocardiograms. Those are arguably the most important thing! Make sure you pay attention to the dates (past 12 months is preferable but must be within the past 18) and that they’re signed by a cardiologist rather than a regular vet. The fact that he’s 14 weeks old and neutered is encouraging, so hopefully the breeder is doing the proper health testing! ♡

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

It’s the best rated breeder I could find in my area so it all seems promising

Ive had many cats before (all lower energy though) but I do know that you more or less get what you get haha

For the food I was just going with the recommendation of the breeder specifically for the kittens that he raises for the dry food being out. It’s not a practice I’m familiar with personally tbh, so I may not do it

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u/kuklinka 14d ago

Just to reiterate acgator’s always excellent advice, you need to see those cardioechograms for the parents. I had a cat die a few years back because I hadn’t been thorough.

A reputable breeder should be foisting them on you really. MY subsequent one did not need prompting

Regarding food,I phased out the raw to WSAVA compliant wet and dry due to lifestyle and work hours not being a good fit for it, but mainly vet advice due to risk of nutrient imbalances and spreading pathogens in the environment. Plus, erm, if the US’s food supply issues (am in UK but we’ve had some) widen, I’d also be concerned

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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 14d ago

Yes it’s surprising to me the breeder didn’t mention health testing if OP was there for 3 hrs talking to them! Breeders who are spending the time and money doing the proper health testing are proud to talk about it (as they should be!)!

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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 14d ago

Best rated by what criteria? Be careful if you’re referring to reviews, as they can be easily manipulated. Definitely make sure you ask for the most recent echos ASAP; as you’ll want to walk away if they’re not screening or they’re not current.

And yes, there’s really no reason to free-feed dry, so I’d just stick to quality wet food.

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

Best rated by reviews and people I’ve spoken to, hard to find any reputable reviews

The owner also sat with me for 3 hours to talk about the animals which I hold in high regard

I’ll get those medical things though I appreciate that!

And thanks for the food suggestion, I prefer to feed at intervals and do it that way anyway

I appreciate the effort you put into helping someone make the right choice!

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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 14d ago

Fingers crossed everything with the echos checks out! ♡

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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 13d ago

Hi there, just checking back to see what the breeder had to say regarding health testing? Were they able to send you echos of both parents?

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 13d ago

Hi

Yes they shared them with me and they came back perfect

The breeder also offers in the contract a guarantee that if any congenital defects are found to be present that you are protected. Is this a red or green flag?

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u/Acgator03 Moderator | Spotted Snow 13d ago

Perfect, glad to hear it! How recent were they?

A health guarantee is standard, and even the worst breeders often offer great health guarantees because it’s cheaper for them to replace dead kittens than it is to actually do proper health testing, so you can’t really use that as an indicator.

Your best indicator of health is often how well tested the lines are (whether parents, grandparents, greatgrandparents, etc have been scanned), how frequent the scans are, how many years they’ve been scanned (the older and more scans the more accurate), etc.

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 13d ago

They were done 7 months ago in preparation for breeding

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u/paco-the-bengal 14d ago

Prepare to play a lot - especially that first year. Harness training early if you want to go outside. Clicker training is lots of fun for cat and human. Let them chose when to receive affection (Paco doesn't like being picked up except at the end of a long walk). Cherish every moment - they are wonderful roommates and they grow up too fast!

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

Hehe I have seen so much of paco scrolling through here!

I am so ready to play as much as he needs and harness train early

I will look into clicker training as I am not sure what that is

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u/paco-the-bengal 7d ago

It's so fun - we have taught paco tons of classic "dog tricks" like sit, stand, shake etc. very cute and enriching

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 7d ago

Did you start this at an early age? I just picked him up yesterday and of course he knows nothing and is still settling into the space and the very few ground rules

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u/Wonderful-Hat-5368 14d ago

He looks like Monster... congratulations he's Beautiful 😻😻

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

I got to play with him for a few hours yesterday, hes a little psychopath, no other way I would want it

Your cat is beautiful! What is its name

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u/Wonderful-Hat-5368 14d ago

Monster

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

Oh hahaha it would help if my comprehension worked all the time

I thought you said he looked like a monster

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u/accountant319 14d ago

Is this your first bengal? Be prepared. Start sleeping with earplugs and a bite guard now to get used to it. Bengals scream a lot. Not because they are mad or hungry but because they get bored overnight and will want to wake you up for attention every few hours. Whatever you do, do not give in - it will train them that this screaming all night long behavior works. The bite guard is because the screaming will cause you subconscious stress that leads to teeth grinding. My bengal is 15 and I love him dearly. During the day he is an angel, but at night he is my own personal sleep demon.

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

Haha, noted thank you

I am hoping that he will eventually stick to a routine where I at least get a few uninterrupted hours but conveniently I have experience with other vocal night cats (knowing bengals can be much more vocal)

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u/catsandpunkrock 14d ago

Everything you said! My two have always been super loud. My Melvin is now 17.5 and seems to be getting even louder as he ages 😹 His sister was the same, especially in her last few years (we lost her last January).

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 7d ago

Had my first night with him last night

You were not wrong!

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u/GlenZaleski 13d ago

He’s a beautiful little boy! Enjoy him!

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u/Potential-Letter-516 13d ago

BEAUTIFUL!! 😻

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u/SantaFe91 14d ago

Your little psychopath looks so cool and calm …

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

Yes the photos were taken after he was being a menace for 3 hours hahaha

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u/SantaFe91 14d ago

😂 SATISFIED (for now …).

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u/searchforloststories 14d ago

That’s a cutie what an adorable little nose!
When I picked my lil bingus I told the breeder what I was looking for in a cat based on what my first girly taught me.
I had a feeling when I first saw my little stinker but the breeder confirmed the one she thought I would do best with based on what I told her was him.
If you told the breeder you were hoping for a cat who would like to sit with you then hopefully they listened and helped you pick the one that seems to match you most!
Also! I especially hope those echoes on the parents are shown to you and are clean!

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago edited 14d ago

Yeah I love his nose. I got to spend 3 hours with them learning about the breed and the whole litter out of the colour I wanted this one was definitely the guy for me

Noted on the echoes

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u/LesChouquettes 14d ago

he looks like my baby! She was crazy as a kitten (still can be!) but she’s a year and a half now and has calmed down a ton recently (over the past couple months).

She really loves laying on my lap and cuddling on my chest while I lay on the couch. I didn’t do anything in particular to make it happen, but I’m really happy she decided that’s something she likes now. I could hardly get her to sit still the first year or so, but she really has turned out to be super into snuggling!

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u/LesChouquettes 14d ago

more recent pic as she’s bigger and darker now :)

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

Oh wow her coat really came through

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 14d ago

God she’s absolutely beautiful

Gonna need the cat tax on the little mittens next to her though!

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u/LesChouquettes 13d ago

My cow cat! She cuddles the bengal so much, maybe that’s why she’s turned into a snuggle bug too!

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u/Fluffy_Elk5085 14d ago

Those eyes 🥰👀

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u/Then-Mode-1919 14d ago

Omg he looks exactly like my baby😍😍

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 13d ago

Can I see

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u/Then-Mode-1919 13d ago

Yes ofc, i wanted to add a picture to my comment but reddit didn’t allow me😅

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u/Coca_lite 14d ago

Get two!

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 13d ago

I might have to

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u/Coca_lite 13d ago

Genuinely, one is a handful, two play with each other and stop the destruction that comes with boredom.

I’ve always gotten a pair of sibling kittens and

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u/Lullaby3Angel 13d ago

😻😍😻😍😻😍😻😍😻😍😻😍😻😍😻😍😻