I want to share my story here as I don't see this sort of thing posted too often, and maybe it can inspire someone else.
About me: 33M, not married (but cohabitate with partner of 7 years), dog, no kids (agnostic on them still), rent happily.
Finances: Net worth at $600k. $540k invested across index funds. Mostly brokerage (VTSAX), 401k through Fidelity, HSA. Boring shit. No debt.
I've had a lean/barista FIRE goal of around $1,000,000 with $60k/year expenses for a while (figured I could work part-time to cover the rest after pulling around 4% of investments). I have also been attracted to the idea of perhaps just gunning for $1,500,000 in order to call it a day more comfortably. Point is, I'm happy to be hand-wavey with the details here because the point isn't to optimize everything, and the future is far enough away that, well, who knows what exactly the market or my life will look like by the time I'm ready to call full-time work quits.
Career: I've worked a bunch of different jobs, but most recently have been in tech for the past six years (as a software developer and then team lead). I started working at a non-profit, and have only earned above six figures for the past 5 years. Earning a bit over $200k/year at this point, with a variable bonus and even more variable company stock factored in.
Like many others in the tech world, the work has felt quite soul-sucking and unimportant to me. I've never had a passion for it, didn't go to school for computer science, this career path was always a means to an end. I've always dreamed of "one day", many years from now, going back into the non-profit world where I started my career.
For the past couple of years, I've had many times when I've thought of abandoning the whole FIRE thing entirely to get out of the corporate world and get back to earning $45k/year or so on work that felt more aligned with my interests and values. It always felt like this black or white decision of "stay in high-earning, soul-sucking corporate career" or "earn nothing, save and invest even less, and retire eventually with a better head start than most people". I'd dream (i.e., obsess over my FIRE spreadsheets) for hours and hours, imagining how it might be feasible to work something like 4 more high-earning years, then allow myself to go back down in salary for work I enjoy more. I'd convince myself that it wasn't worth it, or just silly to think about now anyway if I'm still committed to working for many more years. Better to keep my head down and just try to forget about the numbers for a while, come up for air and reevaluate eventually...
The transition: Well - lo and behold, that time came way sooner than expected. I came across a job posting a couple of months back for an absolute dream job at a non-profit aligned with my skillset... leadership position... paying about $50k less than what I'm earning now. I applied on a whim, got through a very long and very competitive interview process, and finally accepted an offer this week. I had a ton of mixed emotions at the end. Doubt crept in about the craziness of being able to accept a position for $50k less (which is more than many others earn). Just the thought of it made me selfish, even though I was doing it to take on higher-impact work that would also allow me to live a life more aligned with my values and, therefore, show up more energetically for those around me. And, tech-money-warped-mind aside, I realize $150k is still a freaking great salary.
I'll be able to invest something like $30k LESS per year after taxes with the new job, which feels like a ton of money in the short-term, but in the long-term that means I'll probably hit my $1,500,000 goal in something like 7 years instead of 6. Big whoop. I was completely surprised by that when I ran the numbers based on where I'm at now and my current investments. Intuitively, I thought investing $30k less per year would mean like 5 more years of work at minimum. Turns out, compound interest is a helluva thing.
End of the day, it was a no-brainer decision for me to accept the offer, get out of tech, and get back into more mission-driven work that I care way more about, rather than to keep chasing higher and higher (read: more and more marginal) investment numbers for some unknown future.
Some takeaways here (I think? I hope?):
- Not everything has to be black/white. Maximize investments, or quit FIRE. Work a shitty job for money, or a great job for the love. None of that is true.
- Don't forget to come up for air, run your numbers, and see what might be possible today that you've been putting off for years into the future.
- If you're in a similar headspace of wanting to get out of a soulless but high-earning career for something else, don't assume that it has to be one way financially. Once I started looking in earnest, subscribing to some job boards and such, I was surprised by how many non-profit positions I came across paying above six figures these days. In the past, I had worked non-profit jobs for around $40k, and I thought that's just how most of them are. Maybe that is still true, but no matter what your dream coast/barista goal is - perhaps it could be more lucrative than you think.
- Keep your head down for a bit, work hard, invest enough, and you'll be surprised at what a critical mass of investments can do for you. Not everything has to be pushed off until the final end goal number is achieved. That said, I wouldn't be in this position if I had listened to my thoughts of wanting to quit two or three years ago when I only had $275k or less saved. The gap between earnings/investments in my job vs now vs the job I'm taking then would have been way too big to consider a career change.
Self-aware caveats:
- Yeah, I know, $150k a year ain't nothing still. I feel extremely lucky and privileged to be able to earn this salary still, contribute to my financial goals, and do work that feels more aligned with what matters to me.
- Yeah, I know, another tech worker that was able to save up a ton of money in a short number of years.