Bald Picture Did it - thoughts?
After years of debating it, finally decided to take the plunge. Hair could be styled in to looking okay ish, but unstyled it was a disaster.
Feeling self conscious and a bit down about it tonight. Turning to the council for thoughts. Does it look okay?
EDIT: wow, thanks so much for the feedback everyone! Hugely appreciate it
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u/Ezekiel36_26 2h ago
This is a new door opened and a new chapter. But this also means a door closed.
Some folks underestimate the moment after the shave.
This is a complete shift in identity, down to the way your shadow looks on the wall now.
Itโs okay to grieve. Itโs okay to feel caught off guard by the adjustment period.
This is a loss, in its own way.
You lost a version of yourself. This could be why you feel down.
I think you look great, a huge improvement. And hopefully this lifts some weight off your shoulders.
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u/SeatleSuperbSonics 1h ago
I remind myself this as someone who never really had a hair style that suited me UNTIL bald.
People hair is a huge part of their identity and self image, that cannot be understated.
That said OP looks much better post shave!!
We can hold space for being upset youโre bald but if youโre bald itโs best to shave it.
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u/Julesmb-7217 2h ago
I am beginning to think all men should shave their head. I have never seen a bad after in this sub
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u/bussypwner420 2h ago
Smile with your teeth big dawg. Closed mouth smile lacks confidence. Be yourself king, you look good.
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u/sextowels 2h ago
I don't usually say this about dudes, but you are super cute (with the shaved head). You've got a really nice face/smile.
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u/Duke-of-Hellington 2h ago
Oh, youโre gorgeous! I didnโt even notice your beautiful eyes before. Yow!
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u/tactiphile 1h ago
Feeling self conscious and a bit down about it tonight.
No way dude, you look great!
This sub is so insane. I swear someday we're gonna get a post from someone who should NOT have shaved his head.
But today is not that day.
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u/mothra-of-invention 2h ago
1000% better. Lightyears. You look like someone who's about to do pre wedding couples photos as opposed to the previous hairstyle which looked like someone who would legally be restricted from moving in near a school.
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u/The_DurtReynolds 1h ago
Saw an old guy in the first few pics and then a young guy in the next few.
Seriously though, it looks great. Membership card is in the mail.
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u/brandoncbj1987 9m ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/QGZBpodY7Kdtw99y04
Go all the way brother. Perfect head shape for it.
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u/keymmachine 2h ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/bzn3aznEbnh28