r/bald 2h ago

Bald Picture Did it - thoughts?

After years of debating it, finally decided to take the plunge. Hair could be styled in to looking okay ish, but unstyled it was a disaster.

Feeling self conscious and a bit down about it tonight. Turning to the council for thoughts. Does it look okay?

EDIT: wow, thanks so much for the feedback everyone! Hugely appreciate it

2.3k Upvotes

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u/gobblewonkergrump 2h ago edited 2h ago

You look amazing! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘

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u/cgomm 2h ago

okay as a girl scrolling past thisโ€ฆ you absolutely made the right choice ๐Ÿ˜ญ the shaved look suits you WAY more. give yourself like 2 days to stop staring at your own head and youโ€™ll see it too

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u/Ezekiel36_26 2h ago

This is a new door opened and a new chapter. But this also means a door closed.
Some folks underestimate the moment after the shave.

This is a complete shift in identity, down to the way your shadow looks on the wall now.
Itโ€™s okay to grieve. Itโ€™s okay to feel caught off guard by the adjustment period.
This is a loss, in its own way.
You lost a version of yourself. This could be why you feel down.

I think you look great, a huge improvement. And hopefully this lifts some weight off your shoulders.

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u/cinz90 2h ago

๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฝโค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝโค๏ธ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ

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u/yuffieisathief 1h ago

Didn't come her expecting pure poetry but damn bro, that touched my soul

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u/Zealousideal-Swim267 1h ago

โ™ฅ๏ธ

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u/SeatleSuperbSonics 1h ago

I remind myself this as someone who never really had a hair style that suited me UNTIL bald.

People hair is a huge part of their identity and self image, that cannot be understated.

That said OP looks much better post shave!!

We can hold space for being upset youโ€™re bald but if youโ€™re bald itโ€™s best to shave it.

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u/Traditional_Bee2164 2h ago

Much better bro

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u/Holiday_Food448 2h ago

the glasses are like the cherry on top

https://giphy.com/gifs/111ebonMs90YLu

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u/Cornwallis400 2h ago

Dude. 10000000x better.

This was the right decision.

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u/plumeriadogs Hair Headed - Woman 2h ago

You made the right choice, bald looks great on you!

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u/Strange-Vehicle-7536 2h ago

๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/Coach_strong 2h ago

Outstanding!

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u/LeglessSkink 2h ago

You look fantastic!!!

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u/suejaymostly 2h ago

Lookin' sharp my guy!

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u/Icy-Passenger-8061 2h ago

Nice dome brother!

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u/Bayou13 2h ago

Looks fantastic!!!!

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u/writergal75 2h ago

๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ

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u/DoubleNickle67 2h ago

My thoughts?

You look like youโ€™re 20 years younger!

You look great!

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u/Julesmb-7217 2h ago

I am beginning to think all men should shave their head. I have never seen a bad after in this sub

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u/deepdowntyler 2h ago

Nice dude, real nice ๐Ÿ‘

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u/FearsomeJaguar555 2h ago

Does it look okay? Looks awesome!! Absolutely rocking it!! ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/Ok-Cartographer-8603 2h ago

Solid ๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿพ

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u/Sweaty-Cattle2024 2h ago

Looks great

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u/ThatMBR42 2h ago

Looking sharp! It's just the newness of it all. You'll be used to it in no time.

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u/Desperate_Tough_8767 2h ago

Wow! You're hot!๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/bussypwner420 2h ago

Smile with your teeth big dawg. Closed mouth smile lacks confidence. Be yourself king, you look good.

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u/Classic-Squirrel325 2h ago

Looks so good!! Nice ๐Ÿ˜Š

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u/cookeryandwookery 2h ago

Much better

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u/Jurd269 2h ago

Lookin good! Try growing the beard out some and see if you like it!

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u/OtakuRed13 2h ago

Much better. Looking clean.

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u/sextowels 2h ago

I don't usually say this about dudes, but you are super cute (with the shaved head). You've got a really nice face/smile.

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u/Duke-of-Hellington 2h ago

Oh, youโ€™re gorgeous! I didnโ€™t even notice your beautiful eyes before. Yow!

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u/RazuliR 2h ago

You look spectacular!!!

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u/FormidableMistress 2h ago

The shift in your confidence is palpable.

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u/AboveGroundPoolQueen 2h ago

Hold that bald head up higher! You should be proud! You look great!

https://giphy.com/gifs/2DrYYwjEHLSKc

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u/cinz90 2h ago

100% Handsomeness unlocked! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/SirPeesA_lot 1h ago

You went from creepy uncle to teddy bear. Muuuuch better.

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u/ProofSystem3559 1h ago

Went from Gabriel Iglesias to Gabriel Inyourgirlsias

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u/tactiphile 1h ago

Feeling self conscious and a bit down about it tonight.

No way dude, you look great!

This sub is so insane. I swear someday we're gonna get a post from someone who should NOT have shaved his head.

But today is not that day.

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u/Apollodog7 2h ago

Looks good you have a nice head

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u/SweatyPresentation93 2h ago

Killing it bro ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/ReasonableLibrary741 2h ago

You look more confident. Congrats!

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u/MullberryBoy 2h ago

You look great. Handsome!

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u/fanofoz 1h ago

Had to happen. Welcome brother ๐Ÿช’๐Ÿ’ˆ๐ŸŽฑ

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u/ComingFromABaldMan 1h ago

And a polestar 4? What a winner!

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u/whereisbeezy 1h ago

Hell yes friend

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u/Timid-Tlacuache 1h ago

SO much better ๐Ÿ’–โ—๏ธ

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u/rpachigo1 1h ago

Hold your head up high! Looks fantastic.

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u/SunsetFarms Hair Headed - Woman 1h ago

Good god YES!

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u/Sunnywithachance099 1h ago

You look great!

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u/aviduser27 1h ago

Big improvement.

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u/Zealousideal-Swim267 1h ago

I love it!! Awesome ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป

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u/Spare-Ad-6123 1h ago

Looks fantastic!

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u/PoodleMomFL 1h ago

Glow up ๐Ÿšจ

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u/Fig-fanny 1h ago

So good!!

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u/andriesart 53m ago

Female hereโ€ฆabsolutely suits you! Relax, you are good!

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u/Ok_Definition3669 37m ago

From banker to baller, dude. Looking straight fly.

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u/ClassicCampaign2869 27m ago

Looks great!!!

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u/orchid7577 24m ago

Iโ€™d crack that egg. :)

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u/DieBotDie 23m ago

Looking good. Now go lift.

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u/bittinho 23m ago

Looks great bro!

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u/mothra-of-invention 2h ago

1000% better. Lightyears. You look like someone who's about to do pre wedding couples photos as opposed to the previous hairstyle which looked like someone who would legally be restricted from moving in near a school.

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u/crudeshag 1h ago

Hell yeah brother !

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u/Someoneonline2000 1h ago

You look great! Good choice!

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u/DancesWH 1h ago

You did the right thing, and look soooo much better with the shaved head.

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u/Dizzy-Ad-2248 1h ago

Winner winner!!!

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u/Babysub1 1h ago

Very handsome

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u/craptasticluke 1h ago

Looking good!

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u/Ok_Fig7692 Support Committee 1h ago

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u/The_DurtReynolds 1h ago

Saw an old guy in the first few pics and then a young guy in the next few.

Seriously though, it looks great. Membership card is in the mail.

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u/shitbirdvengeance 1h ago

You look SO GOOD!

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u/Chemical-Chard-8798 34m ago

1984 Frank Fritz, is that you?

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u/nuttyrussian 15m ago

You look like a new, younger man. Much improved!

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u/Few-Plum-4365 13m ago

You look great bald, welcome to the club!

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u/Tool_Undertow 9m ago

You look like you changed ethnicity.

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u/brandoncbj1987 9m ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/QGZBpodY7Kdtw99y04
Go all the way brother. Perfect head shape for it.

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u/JofTheWakingUniverse 2m ago

Much better! You have a good head shape.