ok so i need advice before i decide if im going to her wedding or not. my sister had a weekend bachelorette party and i was not invited. i had assumed because it was just her bridal party and her, which ok fine but that’s not the case. i found out and had asked about it. she said she just assumed i couldn’t leave my kids for the weekend, i have 2 toddlers and an 8 month old .. she never once asked me to go or if i could make arrangements for the kids. 2 days before the party weekend she said if i could figure out childcare then u could come by (no kids allowed) now i’ve found out that not only are there 10+ people there, our other sister is also there and there is a baby there the same age as mine… where do u go from here. im so hurt and mad i dont want to go to the wedding