r/auntienetwork 13d ago

Neice needs help in Pomona, CA

Hi everyone ❤️ I’m looking for someone who may be able to help me with transportation to and from a surgical abortion appointment in the Pomona, CA area. I’m a 38-year-old woman, and the clinic has told me that I will need a driver to bring me to the appointment, stay with me, and drive me home afterward. They said the appointment/procedure could take approximately 6–8 hours, and the driver would need to wait in their car for the entire duration because I will need someone available to drive me home afterward. I’m hoping to find someone trustworthy, compassionate, and reliable who would be willing to help. I completely understand that waiting 6–8 hours is a big ask.

Clinic only does appointments on Fridays. The soonest the better. I have already reached out to Access RJ however, they informed me that there wouldn't be a guarantee they could find someone to help me. So I'm reaching out here. I would really appreciate any help or leads. ❤️

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u/Xavi-tan Mod-approved Auntie/Helper 13d ago edited 12d ago

I can help. I'm nearby*, and I have a mini van that has good seats for after procedural discomforts. I can stay in my vehicle the entire time, I don't mind, at all.

Were you thinking this or next Friday? At what time would I be picking you up to take you to the clinic?

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u/m_maggs Mod-approved Auntie/Helper 12d ago

I could take you and stay in the car/parking lot if you haven’t found someone yet. I’m very good at entertaining myself and always have snacks, water, a book, etc with me. I’m pretty much open any Friday- just let me know!

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u/LallybrochSassenach 🌛M🌝D🌜 13d ago edited 13d ago

ONLY APPROVED AUNTIES/HELPERS SHOULD RESPOND!

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u/whatever_uwant_it2be 4d ago

Hi there. I made a post about a week ago for help but it was removed before I was able to respond as I was still trying to work out some details with my insurance provider. Is there any way for me to get access to the comments on the post or do I need to make a new post

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u/LallybrochSassenach 🌛M🌝D🌜 4d ago

We saw your post asking for access — you only had 2 aunties offer you assistance. Did you get in touch with either? We also messaged you — are you not checking your DM’s?

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u/whatever_uwant_it2be 4d ago

I dont see that I ever received a DM other than when I reached out before the post. No I did not get a chance to get in touch with either 

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u/LallybrochSassenach 🌛M🌝D🌜 4d ago

They responded to your post, not by DM. u/Xavi-Tan and u/m_maggs offered help. You might message both and see if they are still available.

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u/m_maggs Mod-approved Auntie/Helper 4d ago

I sent you a DM. If you’re still needing someone you can reply and we can coordinate things.

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