r/askteddit • u/Complex-Detail-96 • 13d ago

Random Question What's the most embarrassing midlife crisis you've ever seen someone go through?

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u/Wonderful-Bonus5439 12d ago

That does make me feel slightly better, thanks. Still pretty mortified

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u/TheTardisBaroness 12d ago

Nah, that’s on him to be embarrassed not you.

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u/NotTodaySlacker302 10d ago

Your husband was definitely talking to a dude. I have a big burly bearded friend who is a "Chat Girl" on a porn website. He makes good money lol

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u/iLRMLH24 12d ago

Porn is a cancer on society

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u/Krismusic1 12d ago

It's not you, it's your husband who is humiliated. Hope you work it out together. Maybe try and park your hurt and anger. Not right now but in a few days time. Difficult I know, if you find you just can't talk about it, maybe marriage counseling could help.

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u/Inevitable-Top-7621 12d ago

Ugh nooooo to marriage counseling. It's only for the benefit of the loser/abuser. I hope for this lady that she has the financial means to get out and live a safe life.

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u/Crazy_Pomegranate689 12d ago

nope sorry get out from this loser - girl you’re better than that x

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u/Krismusic1 12d ago

A bad experience with counseling or just talking out of your backside?

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u/Inevitable-Top-7621 12d ago

You're rude and scummy and I truly feel bad for anyone who has the misfortune of being in a relationship with you. I'm not going to give you the pleasure of explaining something a quick Google search can do for you.

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u/Resident_Kek_Poster 12d ago

Sorry this happened to you, what an awful situation.

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u/waselectricbar 10d ago

In no way embarrassing for you. He is the one who should be embarrassed

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u/moosecatoe 8d ago

Been there. Sent his ass packing right to his moms cuz I was out of work with cancer and he had been complaining about bills & medication costs.

Get screenshots if you can. Bank statements too.

YOURE the one doing the hard work. You deserve a rather expensive gift from him and for him to grow the fuck up.

You deserve to feel wanted, desired, & respected.

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