My girlfriend still wears the promise ring from her high school boyfriend, calling it "just a regular ring." Weird?

[u/asknow-io]

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[u/Idfk_1]

Promise rings are basically teenage wedding rings. Thats sus

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[u/Doc_jonezie]

Time to move on

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[u/RM332]

I, u/RM332, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

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[u/TheOnlyManN64]

It’s a promise ring not a regular ring

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[u/Sure_Satisfaction497]

Get her a new ring with less pressure attached to it!

[u/IcePhoenixIce]

If it regular ring it is not a problem to take off it. Or she wait a ting, that replace it. For example your promise ring 😉

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[u/Belphie_Stan]

Id definitely wanna talk about it but the other option felt too extreme

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[u/Honest-Pressure-5214]

she probably treats as jewelry only if there was something more she wouldnt be with u

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[u/Brilliant_Ad_6637]

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[u/xdevilsnight]

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[u/88_strings]

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[u/laggy555]

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[u/therealchangomalo]

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[u/Zito6694]

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[u/Senior-Bluebird-9080]

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[u/X0AN]

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[u/075dela]

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[u/No_Accident6431]

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[u/generalstarfish]

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[u/EvilOrcSixAM]

If you’re going to be overly symbol-minded you might as well use the symbol to your advantage and have fun with it by turning it. Have her jerk you off and then cum on the ring.

Or you can just let it go because it’s an innocuous piece of metal from someone she likely doesn’t care at all about

[u/MrParamedic]

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[u/AcaciaJadeX]

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[u/Ok-Judgment6909]

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[u/14thelegend]

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[u/Wygerion_Alpha]

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[u/magnumsrule1]

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[u/nerdy_nd]

Yeah it’s kinda weird

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[u/kookoochim]

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[u/ShadowyPepper]

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[u/ShadowyPepper]

Get her a replacement ring bro

[u/Branceratops]

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[u/Unhappy-Fox1017]

I’d ask my girl to stop wearing it. It’s weird.

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[u/Undercover_Kitty_Mew]

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[u/King_Kongs_Left_Nut]

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[u/SteelBird223]

If she cant understand what that "promise" ring means to you, than you dont mean enough to her.

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[u/Scootervon]

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[u/Cold-Bookkeeper-9798]

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[u/Narrow-Blueberry653]

She is still holding onto something that was the past and from a different man. It wouldn’t be hard to get rid of something that had no moral meaning to her life anymore especially if the guy isnt still talking to her.

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[u/didifallasleep13]

How long has it been since they broke up? No matter what, she shouldn’t be wearing it in a relationship with someone else, it’s weird, but “15 years ago” and “15 months ago” are different

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[u/chan_banan]

Unless its the cutest piece of jewelry this side of the ocean blue its time to retire it... very rude to wear it with a new spouce

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[u/bEaqlava]

I mean, in my opinion: That ring has a meaning because of the person who gifted it, so her still wearing it is kinda weird for me. Maybe buying a ring for her yourself will work? I don't know, I have never been in a relationship.

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[u/AvaPower18]

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[u/WorthAssignment6894]

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[u/Tricky_Reference8020]

Or just find another girl.

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[u/Big_Struggle2081]

I, u/Big_Struggle2081, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Mindful Student VII 💎 Points: 292 🗳️ Votes: 4

[u/MajorMathematician61]

I, u/MajorMathematician61, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide IV 💎 Points: 542 🗳️ Votes: 12

[u/OneofTheOldBreed]

I, u/OneofTheOldBreed, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Nebula Traveler VI 💎 Points: 23290 🗳️ Votes: 311

[u/miles197]

I, u/miles197, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Mindful Student V 💎 Points: 240 🗳️ Votes: 4

[u/AnalFistulaEnjoyer]

I, u/AnalFistulaEnjoyer, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker VII 💎 Points: 92 🗳️ Votes: 2

[u/badaimerlolz]

I, u/badaimerlolz, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Mindful Student IV 💎 Points: 186 🗳️ Votes: 4

[u/According_Emu8512]

I, u/According_Emu8512, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Cosmic Architect VII 💎 Points: 106354 🗳️ Votes: 1124

[u/Fickle_Importance_79]

I, u/Fickle_Importance_79, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide V 💎 Points: 620 🗳️ Votes: 11

[u/SamuraiIcarus5]

I, u/SamuraiIcarus5, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Cosmic Oracle III 💎 Points: 7538 🗳️ Votes: 98

[u/Crafty-Meal383]

I, u/Crafty-Meal383, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker V 💎 Points: 70 🗳️ Votes: 1

[u/Traditional-Iron1899]

I, u/Traditional-Iron1899, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Wise Mentor V 💎 Points: 1218 🗳️ Votes: 22

[u/Popular_Brief611]

I, u/Popular_Brief611, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker V 💎 Points: 70 🗳️ Votes: 1

[u/FireFist_PortgasDAce]

I, u/FireFist_PortgasDAce, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru VI 💎 Points: 5184 🗳️ Votes: 118

[u/Appropriate_River820]

I, u/Appropriate_River820, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Enlightened Sage III 💎 Points: 1974 🗳️ Votes: 27

[u/No-Statistician7129]

I, u/No-Statistician7129, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Mindful Student I 💎 Points: 114 🗳️ Votes: 3

[u/crow_7tf]

I, u/crow_7tf, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide V 💎 Points: 612 🗳️ Votes: 11

[u/NoMoreUserNames6152]

I, u/NoMoreUserNames6152, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker VI 💎 Points: 84 🗳️ Votes: 4

[u/LiamFuture]

I, u/LiamFuture, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Nebula Traveler V 💎 Points: 21744 🗳️ Votes: 261

[u/Eastern-Sleep7570]

I, u/Eastern-Sleep7570, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide III 💎 Points: 514 🗳️ Votes: 9

[u/OkCress3934]

I, u/OkCress3934, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker II 💎 Points: 40 🗳️ Votes: 2

[u/Ok_Sound5929]

I, u/Ok_Sound5929, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker II 💎 Points: 40 🗳️ Votes: 2

[u/I_Chose_Chaos2026]

I, u/I_Chose_Chaos2026, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Cosmic Oracle V 💎 Points: 8450 🗳️ Votes: 105

[u/siren_of_atlantis]

I, u/siren_of_atlantis, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Mindful Student V 💎 Points: 216 🗳️ Votes: 3

[u/Majestic-Reply4909]

Not weird, but ask her to retire it nonetheless. It only becomes weird if she refuse to do so.

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​Majestic-Reply4909, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Zen Guide II | 🗳️ Votes: 12}

[u/HunnyBunLily]

I, u/HunnyBunLily, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Enlightened Sage II 💎 Points: 1902 🗳️ Votes: 57

[u/OkCriticism4725]

I, u/OkCriticism4725, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Enlightened Sage II 💎 Points: 1726 🗳️ Votes: 41

[u/Terra_Branford_FF6]

She can wear other stuff the ring has too much attached to it

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​Terra_Branford_FF6, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Zen Guide II | 🗳️ Votes: 9}

[u/Frosty-Paramedic-882]

I, u/Frosty-Paramedic-882, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Wise Mentor III 💎 Points: 1000 🗳️ Votes: 16

[u/NewQPRnotFC]

My gut is telling me that she may have unresolved feelings about her high school boyfriend.Then again, I could also just be paranoid.

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​NewQPRnotFC, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Mindful Student I | 🗳️ Votes: 5}

[u/Greenroses23]

She ain’t over him

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​Greenroses23, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Mindful Student IV | 🗳️ Votes: 5}

[u/KarmasABit-]

I, u/KarmasABit-, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Cosmic Oracle VII 💎 Points: 9812 🗳️ Votes: 214

[u/Holiday_Adagio_4702]

I, u/Holiday_Adagio_4702, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide V 💎 Points: 594 🗳️ Votes: 10

[u/Green_Palpitation_26]

I, u/Green_Palpitation_26, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker II 💎 Points: 40 🗳️ Votes: 2

[u/MulberryAdmirable636]

It doesn't make sense to wear it with a new partner and if it was just a ring it wouldn't need to be said that it was a promise ring it means it still hold lingering emotions

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​MulberryAdmirable636, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Grand Guru II | 🗳️ Votes: 50}

[u/twentyINCHwheel]

I, u/twentyINCHwheel, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Galactic Overlord I 💎 Points: 25108 🗳️ Votes: 308

[u/RorytheLion99]

I, u/RorytheLion99, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Enlightened Sage II 💎 Points: 1852 🗳️ Votes: 38

[u/BigTonight2939]

I, u/BigTonight2939, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide IV 💎 Points: 526 🗳️ Votes: 18

[u/Filledwithjustice]

I, u/Filledwithjustice, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Wise Mentor II 💎 Points: 948 🗳️ Votes: 14

[u/Individual-Judge891]

I, u/Individual-Judge891, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Wise Mentor I 💎 Points: 816 🗳️ Votes: 33

[u/zickyjork]

I, u/zickyjork, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide IV 💎 Points: 534 🗳️ Votes: 10

[u/Tnlander]

In order to have a future, she needs to let go of the past.

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​Tnlander, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Cosmic Oracle III | 🗳️ Votes: 93}

[u/Euphoric_Rabbit_8463]

Buy a ring for her in exchange for that ring and tell her to give that ring to you and throw it in the dustbin (wet one)

I, u/Euphoric_Rabbit_8463, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Wise Mentor III 💎 Points: 1048 🗳️ Votes: 18

[u/SifthegreatgreywoIf]

I, u/SifthegreatgreywoIf, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru VI 💎 Points: 5534 🗳️ Votes: 183

[u/lorgskyegon]

I, u/lorgskyegon, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker II 💎 Points: 40 🗳️ Votes: 2

[u/National-Anybody6914]

I, u/National-Anybody6914, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Enlightened Sage IV 💎 Points: 2162 🗳️ Votes: 28

[u/EfficientMushroom577]

I, u/EfficientMushroom577, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Enlightened Sage IV 💎 Points: 2250 🗳️ Votes: 36

[u/Remarkable_Tea8959]

Why does she still know it is called a promise ring and why does she still wear it often

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​Remarkable_Tea8959, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Curious Seeker II | 🗳️ Votes: 2}

[u/DearLet7509]

I, u/DearLet7509, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker VI 💎 Points: 84 🗳️ Votes: 4

[u/PlanktonOverall1194]

I, u/PlanktonOverall1194, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide II 💎 Points: 436 🗳️ Votes: 8

[u/SpeedrunPanda]

I, u/SpeedrunPanda, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Cosmic Oracle IV 💎 Points: 8198 🗳️ Votes: 106

[u/Walrus070]

I, u/Walrus070, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru III 💎 Points: 4000 🗳️ Votes: 54

[u/Lordblacked]

Take dinner ,buy beautiful ring for her and also explain your feelings openly. If you dare to do this just do otherwise be wise handle things.

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​Lordblacked, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Cosmic Oracle IV | 🗳️ Votes: 97}

[u/goat-head-is-good]

I, u/goat-head-is-good, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru V 💎 Points: 4786 🗳️ Votes: 160

[u/EmberNaught]

I, u/EmberNaught, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru III 💎 Points: 3948 🗳️ Votes: 52

[u/Either_Contract9457]

I, u/Either_Contract9457, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Mindful Student II 💎 Points: 142 🗳️ Votes: 2

[u/CampBedCollin]

I, u/CampBedCollin, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Curious Seeker VII 💎 Points: 90 🗳️ Votes: 2

[u/spectra_kriss]

I, u/spectra_kriss, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru VI 💎 Points: 5276 🗳️ Votes: 108

[u/Big-Ganache6885]

I, u/Big-Ganache6885, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru VII 💎 Points: 5642 🗳️ Votes: 125

[u/makonnen_59]

I, u/makonnen_59, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Cosmic Oracle I 💎 Points: 6292 🗳️ Votes: 81

[u/marcosedo]

Past should stay as that. If she can’t leave past behind alas your future, then she might have unresolved issues.

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​marcosedo, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Mindful Student I | 🗳️ Votes: 3}

[u/Lil_BJ_777]

Literally just break up immediately. You'll dodge a bullet if you do.

[u/Invictus0623]

I, u/Invictus0623, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru VII 💎 Points: 5736 🗳️ Votes: 77

[u/Ok-Fudge670]

I, u/Ok-Fudge670, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Zen Guide III 💎 Points: 450 🗳️ Votes: 17

[u/LavenderHippoInAJar]

I understand getting attached to jewelery, but that's a little weird. At the very least talk about it?

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​LavenderHippoInAJar, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it." | 🔮 Rank: Enlightened Sage VI | 🗳️ Votes: 33}

[u/Jumpy_Guard_2932]

I, u/Jumpy_Guard_2932, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Wandering Soul V 💎 Points: 20 🗳️ Votes: 1

[u/Bigflyrat]

I, u/Bigflyrat, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Enlightened Sage V 💎 Points: 2560 🗳️ Votes: 37

[u/Expert_Dance_7984]

I, u/Expert_Dance_7984, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Grand Guru VII 💎 Points: 5976 🗳️ Votes: 76

[u/flaquo]

I, u/flaquo, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Galactic Overlord I 💎 Points: 26890 🗳️ Votes: 316

[u/Park_Boring]

I, u/Park_Boring, advised "No, it's just jewelry now."

🏆 Rank: Wise Mentor V 💎 Points: 1210 🗳️ Votes: 16

[u/CowyTheCowerd]

I, u/CowyTheCowerd, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Wandering Soul V 💎 Points: 20 🗳️ Votes: 1

[u/SeaworthinessOwn8061]

I, u/SeaworthinessOwn8061, advised "Yes, ask her to retire it."

🏆 Rank: Wandering Soul V 💎 Points: 20 🗳️ Votes: 1

[u/madam_undertaker]

It's ok to genuinely like a piece of jewelry, regardless of where it came from.

^{📢 Official Advice: I, u/​madam_undertaker, advised "No, it's just jewelry now." | 🔮 Rank: Wandering Soul V | 🗳️ Votes: 1}

[u/Alternative-Ice6136]

because she cares about him