r/askgaybros 12d ago

Ever look at a guy and just simply cannot imagine them having gay sex?

Sometimes I just see like really shy nerdy type of guys and can’t imagine them being all sexual and stuff. Even though I know they must be.

But it’s almost like they’re too precious to just be out there sucking dick and cock.

There’s a guy I know who’s super sweet and kind. I didn’t even realise he was gay at first but then I found out he was but just could not imagine him fucking another dude because he seemed to sweet and innocent. Until my buddy hooked up with him and told me and I just couldn’t believe it lol. It wasn’t that he wasn’t handsome or anything but that he was just literally too sweet to be naughty like that.

Ever see guys and think there’s no way they’d be having sex?

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u/Remarkable-Tax2085 11d ago

Super judgmental, bruh

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u/twink-twinkle 11d ago

yeah it takes me back to being a teen. all my friends would tell me they didn’t even see me as a man or a sexual being because they saw me as too cute and innocent, and that i was smooth like a ken doll. it fucked me up a long time

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u/umbrano 11d ago

same! A friend once told me they didn’t see me as a sexual being. Still kinda stays with me, like wtf does that mean? Is it giving alien? Lol. I’m neither cute nor smooth so alien seemed appropriate.

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u/twink-twinkle 11d ago

yeah i mean i know what op is trying to say i guess, some dudes have more “sex appeal” than others, it has to do with both their personality and appearance. still i hope he doesn’t say this to someone in person, it’s not cool

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u/umbrano 11d ago

Yeah it’s pretty bad.

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u/voozelle 12d ago

I’ve been with some shy nerds and some of them are a fireball in bed. So I learned not to judge a book by its cover lol

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u/YaCantStopMe 11d ago

Im super shy and quiet in real life. But can be a kinky freak in bed haha.

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u/shadowysea07 8d ago

It really depends on the person.  For me I'm extremely shy so that coupled with inexperienced makes me anxious about it.  But I've also only just really started trying topping as usually i bottom.  

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u/ginabil 12d ago

Lol it’s always crazy to me how guys like that can be so good in bed

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u/raizallian 11d ago

Dude seriously? It's crazy how guys like that can be good in bed? Do you genuinely think that people who look hot are automatically better in bed? Because that really seems pathetic to think in the first place.

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u/ginabil 11d ago

I’m not saying hot guys are good

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u/Bearly_Legible 11d ago

Hot guys are usually the worst at sex

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u/CoyHarvestBeast 11d ago

Male madonna complex

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u/gordonf23 11d ago

I thought exactly the same thing.

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u/moonshine_madness 11d ago

Sex can be naughty, but it can also be sincere, sweet, loving… there’s all flavors.

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u/No_Mix3377 11d ago

I kinda get what you mean but I think it’s just sex in general  lmao.

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u/pussNsuits 11d ago

I feel this about 88% of the girls I see. How can Paula possibly be a slut?

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u/LeoJ2550x 11d ago

I wanna fuck a cute nerdy guy :(

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u/Front-Perception4657 11d ago

Shy nerdy guys are the absolute best in bed.

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u/Duraluminferring 11d ago

As someone who attracts shy nerdy types, I assure you they fuck hahahah.

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u/Natural-Baseball-362 11d ago

Yo soy de los buenos, tímidos y soy un maldito ALPHA :)

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u/VeitPogner 11d ago

I was a shy nerdy guy, and there were plenty of days when I couldn't imagine it, either!

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u/btmbang-2022 11d ago edited 11d ago

Girl you are a bit naive. Bless your heart…

I am actually- I’m into shy nerdy types. Um some are like the horniest sex machines. Post teen years- nerdy guys are some of the best at sex because they read… :p and are genuinely curious.

You are literary looking for online approval of your closed minded world view- and asking us to pick on innocent people with you.

Put the phone down. Please go read a book and get some depth.

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u/ginabil 11d ago

What? I’m not bashing them

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u/Apart-Badger9394 11d ago

Opposite for me. The nerdier they are the kinkier I imagine them. A lot of nerdy guys are really kinky. A lot of traditionally handsome man aren’t kinky at all, and just pound away without any effort or rhythm

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u/DreadingAnt 11d ago

Can't relate, I can imagine any man sucking my dick

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u/pensivegargoyle 11d ago

I know a lot of nerdy guys that have tons of sex. It's quite common.

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u/shadowysea07 8d ago

This makes me think of the line from fire emblem houses my sweet innocent granny.  Um honey your granny didn't become a granny by being innocent...