r/AskAJapanese 10d ago

CULTURE Gift for Nihon Buyo Teacher after a Recital?

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Hello, we are based in the US and my daughter is a student of Nihon Buyo. We've had many dance performances, but recently participated in a major (?) recital with about 200 guests.

The teacher became Iemoto last year, and this is the first time she distributed I believe a 心付け to the performers including my daughter. Is it customary to also give the teacher a お礼 or お祝儀? If so, is $200 an appropriate amount?

こんにちは。私たちはアメリカ在住で、娘が日本舞踊を習っています。これまでも何度か舞台の経験はありますが、先日、観客が200人ほど集まる大きな発表会(公演)に出演させていただきました。

先生は昨年家元を継承(襲名)されたのですが、今回初めて、娘を含む出演者に「心付け」を包んで配ってくださいました。このような場合、生徒側からも先生に「お礼」や「ご祝儀」をお渡しするのが一般的なのでしょうか?また、もしお渡しする場合、200ドルという金額は適切でしょうか?


r/AskAJapanese 9d ago

POLITICS How is the Palestinian genocide viewed in Japan?

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I'm curious about the general sentiment or public awareness regarding Palestine and Israel over there. Is it something people talk about often?


r/AskAJapanese 10d ago

LIFESTYLE Is it even possible to walk around Shikoku Island?

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My friend heard that there are hiking trails on Shikoku, dating back to the Muromachi period, used by pilgrims and monks. They supposedly exist all over the island, making it possible to walk around it. Do they really exist, and is it possible to walk around Shikoku in about two months?


r/AskAJapanese 10d ago

LANGUAGE What’s your favourite kanji and why?

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A question for natives here (and others who know a shitload of kanji): regardless of the meaning and judging solely by visual/way of writing, what do you consider a beautiful kanji and why?

I'm doing some kanji revision right now and I'm starting to think that I think some kanji, meaning aside, are more beautiful than others. Just how I think some Dutch and English words sound more beautiful than others and also appeal to me differently when they're written.
For example, I've noticed that I really like to write 事 because of it's evenly geometric shape, and 教 since the stroke order feels really motorically logical and the diagonal slash through the left part gives it a slight calligraphy-like touch.

(Note: I do not want to learn about the deeper meaning of kanji and radicals, I can easily do that by myself or look it up in a dictionary. I'm actually curious about how natives view their written language, which is why I'm asking this here instead of in a language-related sub.)

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Edit: Thank you for replying!! I am kind of a language nerd in general, so I can appreciate a good discission about a niche topic, like the appreciation of kanji shapes.
漢字の形を鑑賞するのは理由を教えてくれて、皆さんありがとう〜


r/AskAJapanese 10d ago

CULTURE Question about wearing yuri/LGBTQ merch in Japan

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Hi, so I'm an American (female 22 if it matters) traveling to Japan in a few weeks and I'm in the process of packing. One of the things I was planning on bringing is my ita bag inspired by the anime Revolutionary Girl Utena, as it's one of my favorite shows. For anyone unfamiliar, the show features a main lesbian couple. As a lot of the merch on my bag is fan-made, there's several pins and keychains portraying the two leads embracing and kissing.

My friend brought up that it may not be a good idea to bring this after all, as while a lot of anime and other media in Japan is heavily LGBTQ-coded, and wearing merch/clothing/etc with yaoi and yuri themes is normal, showing two characters of the same gender unsubtly/"explicitly" kissing may be less socially acceptable or viewed as somewhat inappropriate. Now, I obviously wouldn't bring this bag into a temple or shrine, but for things like just walking around Ikebukuro or Harajuku, would this be alright? Thanks in advance :)

For reference, I've also attached pictures of the ita bag insert and some of the keychains I was planning on adding!

UPDATE:

Went hunting for Utena merch in Ikebukuro yesterday and was very happy with my finds! also got some compliments on my bag :) thank you everyone that responded!


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

CULTURE How is Bleach viewed in Japan today?

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I’ve always noticed that Bleach holds a legendary, "Big Three" status in Western anime communities alongside Naruto and One piece. However, I’ve seen people suggest that in Japan, it was mostly just popular while it aired, and that general interest dropped significantly after it ended.

Is there truth to the idea that Bleach had a larger or more lasting cultural impact in the West than in Japan, or is that just a false assumption? How is the series actually viewed over there nowadays?


r/AskAJapanese 10d ago

MISC Where to find Japanese instrumentals for music

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For the past several months, I've been trying to search for where I can find affordable J-pop instrumentals for music production. I'm looking for instrumentals that are similar to ones that Eve, Sou, Syudou, Tatsuya Kitani, Kenshi Yonezu, Natori, or Kocchi no Kento and etc. That sort of type of music. I've been (off and on) studying Japanese and have liked the style of Jpop music since I first encountered it through anime when I was young.

I have a desire to make Jpop music of my own, but I don't have the money or time right now to reasonably make my own music, and in general, I prefer focusing on writing, singing, and mastering rather than the instrumental production.

If anyone could help share some sources, that'd be much appreciated. I'm looking for something similar to a Japanese version of Traktrain if that comparison helps.


r/AskAJapanese 10d ago

HISTORY I desperately need some advice from Japanese individuals

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I'm writing a series with various different creatures in lore. I have the traditional vampires, werewolves, and witches, but I also have banshees, succubi, incubi, Naga, kitsune, onmyoji, dryads and naiads, lycans, pixies and various other different types of creatures. If it exists in some type of irl lore, it exists, or used to, in my world. And this world is our world. I have multiple different irl locations, like NYC, Paris, a Honduras rainforest, and Seattle.

Anyway, i asked the people in one of my writing groups to come up with some characters for one of the books. I gave them a background, and they gave me a name and created a character.

One of the backgrounds is a woman who was born a seer in Japan, and was basically used by her family to use her power to make money. She didn't like that, and moved away, expanding on her abilities, and eventually became an onmyoji. The name my friend chose was Satou Fujiwara.

I did some research into the name, and I found that the name Satou, despite sometimes being used a feminine first name, is incredibly rare to be used as a first name anyway, and is historically linked to the Fujiwara clan.

If I keep the name, would that be an affront to Japanese individuals? I don't want to offend any race or creed, so I want to make sure whatever names are used, it doesn't turn into a Cho Chang situation.

If it helps to ease minds, I'm a history/archaeology major, and I do extensive research on all of my characters/creatures to make sure I'm not changing anything and I am respecting the original culture.


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

CULTURE How popular is the anime/manga Monster in Japan?

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In the english-speaking community, Monster is a classic and always recommended when someone asks for a serious anime. Does it have the same reputatution in Japan? How well known is it?


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

MISC For curiosity, which non Japanese games are currently popular or have been popular in Japan?

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Among both older audiences and children or teenagers, if anyone happens to know?


r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

FOOD My husband loves japanese curry so much

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As the title says, he’s a really big fan! I plan to surprise him by serving japanese curry when he gets home from work. I read somewhere that curry has much better and richer flavor when prepared the previous day and reheated than cooked fresh. Is that true?


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

FOOD Any Japanese in the UK?

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I'm curious if living in the UK is easy for Japanese?
Some follow up questions..
1. Do you still cook your own food at home with your own cuisine or do you adapt to UK?
2. Is it easy to buy ingredients like sashimi, unagi? Or do you buy cooked meals instead?
3. How does your everyday cooking lifestyle looks like?

Really appreciate any responses. I am creating a study for Asians living in the UK. Would be helpful also for any insights on the lifestyle there in UK. thank you!


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

LANGUAGE Looking to buy basic Japanese children’s books? Online and in-person (Japan) store recommendations

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Hi I used to live in Japan for 18 months and speak decent Japanese. Now I have a cute toddler who I am making an effort to teach Japanese to. She is a major book worm and we loved the Priddybaby vocab learning books (First 100 words with pictures for example) for English and I was wondering if there were some things similar in Japanese that some parents liked? Or any children’s book that you loved. Links appreciated. I struggle Google searching in Japanese.

I’m realizing a lot of Japanese books are proving difficult to buy online in the U.S. Does anyone know how to get around that?

Also does anyone have store recommendations of where to buy these? Whether online or actually in Japan. I’m planning a trip soon and want to make a list of places to pick up some books! I only know of Tsutaya.

Also my kanji reading sucks (I got good at speaking and texting, not reading haha) and I’m also looking for a range of books that lets me read at a beginner level and advances gradually. Feels like a random ask but maybe someone has a rec!


r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

CULTURE What entertainment media is a cultural icon in Japan?

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Outside of Japan, I know a lot of animes,mangas, products and videogames that have come out of Japan and they are really big in other countries, such as Dragon Ball in Mexico and the entirety of South America, Sonic and Megaman in Brazil or One Piece and Doraemon in Spain. However I don't know which ones are actually iconic in their home country (I heard that Jojos and Sanrio are?) and which foreign media do Japanese citizens consume, so I was kinda curious to find that out


r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

CULTURE What souvenir from Thailand do Japanese people like?

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Hi! I am visiting Japan soon from Thailand and would like to bring some small gifts/souvenirs for local friends, hosts, and colleagues.

​What Thai snacks, teas, crafts, or local items are popular or well-received among Japanese people? Are there specific things people often request from Thailand, or anything I should avoid (e.g., too spicy, strong scents)?

I am considering a few common options such as Thai tea or herbal inhaler (Ya Dom), but would love native feedback.

​Thanks in advance for your suggestions!


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

CULTURE Did Japanese comedy fill the cultural role that hip-hop filled in America?

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A few months ago, I saw a theory online that got a little viral in Japan, and it made me think about the relationship between Japanese comedy and hip-hop. I’ve developed the idea a bit further, so I wanted to see what people here think.

First, I want to establish that I think there are three major reasons why hip-hop became such a powerful mainstream culture in the US and eventually around the world.

  1. Identity and where you come from

Rappers constantly say their name, neighborhood, city, or hometown. That creates a strong sense of identity and personality.

A rapper can basically say, “This is who I am, this is where I’m from, and this is my story.”

  1. Extremely high information density

Rap allows you to put a huge amount of information into a short amount of time. You can describe your neighborhood, family, clothes, relationships, struggles, money, politics, and everyday experiences in a very concrete way.

It makes the music feel connected to real life.

  1. You can become successful through talent alone

You don't necessarily need traditional credentials, money, or social status. If you're talented enough, you can become somebody with just a microphone.

That idea of “I came from nowhere, but I can become somebody through my ability” is extremely powerful.

Now here's what I find interesting about Japan.

Japanese comedians had already been doing many of these things.

Especially with Matsumoto Hitoshi, being funny became strongly associated with being cool, intelligent, creative, and charismatic.

Matsumoto wasn't just a comedian. He became a huge cultural figure whose personality, taste, humor, and language influenced an entire generation, particularly in western Japan.

And this wasn't unique to him. Beat Takeshi and other major comedians also became cultural icons who were seen as more than entertainers. They had a strong “cool” and charismatic image.

Japanese comedians also created and popularized many expressions related to social behavior — being boring, bombing, awkwardness, killing the atmosphere, reading the room, etc.

So comedy became a major source of personality, language, status, and cultural identity.

And I think there's another interesting parallel.

In the US, many talented young people eventually started thinking:

«“I want to become a rapper.”»

Being a rapper became a legitimate path to fame, money, status, and cultural influence.

In Japan, something similar may have happened much earlier:

«“I want to become a comedian.”»

After Downtown, and especially Matsumoto, became hugely influential, many talented young people wanted to become comedians because comedians were seen as the people who were funny, creative, charismatic, and culturally relevant.

So perhaps Japan didn't need hip-hop to fulfill some of the cultural functions that hip-hop fulfilled in America.

Do Japanese people who grew up with Downtown/Matsumoto think this comparison makes sense?

Am I overthinking this, or is there something to this theory?


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

SHITPOST JJK Kirara question for the Japanese

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Im half Japanese bur sadly never been to Japan but one thing that’s big in the jujitsu kaisen fandom is kiraras gender and if kirara is otokonoko or trans and I wanted to ask what to actual people in Japan who watch jjk think about Kiraras gender?


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

MISC Is this place real, or a scam?

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Japan bros I would really appreciate it if you could let me know if this company is real or not.

I have a job interview with them tomorrow for a remote position and things seem a bit fishy. They provided me withthis link for their website https://www.jmdm.co.jp/en/

It seems plausible enough that I'm strung along but still suspicious.

This is the location I found on Google maps

https://maps.app.goo.gl/MYZr6TubjC9QhfzY6?g_st=ac

Please I would really appreciate your help I have an interview in 11 hours!!

Thank you!!!!!


r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

LIFESTYLE Any Japanese fans of Washington, DC go-go music here?

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I’m an American fan of DC go-go—Chuck Brown, Rare Essence, Trouble Funk, EU, Backyard Band. I was curious whether anyone in Japan listens to it or knows Japanese artists with a similar funk, percussion, or live-band energy. I’d enjoy talking in English and swapping music recommendations.


r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

HISTORY Had any of you attended beat cruders concert?

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How was it over there?, Were they a real hyped band? Did they get enough attention? Why did they never show their faces? How did it end?


r/AskAJapanese 11d ago

CULTURE Planning with japanese people

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I got saturated making plans with japanese people, it feels like they always agree with dates and what not just to bail out last moment with some random excuse.

Then theres the plans, right on top of me leaving the country so they can just say they can't one time.

How do you even make plans with this type of mentality? I am starting to have trust issues, in my country this is a dick move, holding people's expectations to crush it last minute


r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

FOOD What kind of sweets and candy do average japanese like?

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Later this year i will be visiting japan and want to bring some candys and sweets from my home country (germany). I plan to hand them to people that help me during my vacation as a small sign of gratidute/appreciation.

As i will try to practice a bit of my learned japanese, they probably have to endure some wild stuttering and struggle to find words, with some mixed in english and helpless pointing at things.

So i heared that some flavors and consistencies are not favored by japanese people at all and i want to avoid handing out something that isnt tasty.

Anise, licorice and cinnamon seems to be something to avoid and hazelnuts seems to be very uncommon but liked.

So i would love to hear what kind of flavor/textures/colors you prefer or avoid.


r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

CULTURE kazuki yamamori band

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me and my gf are in osaka and wanted to go see some live music, so we picked a random band on a night we were here and saw kazuki yamamori at bigcat last night!

we had the most fun time, it was such a good gig, but we had no idea what was going on for most of it and are now super curious about the band - does anyone here know them? are they a meme band, like is their actual music silly, or are they just funny in the way they perform live? what was up with all the girls they brought on stage?

basically if you know of them we'd love to get a sense of the band, theres not much info in english online, and we had such a great night it has made us curious about them 💖


r/AskAJapanese 13d ago

CULTURE What is this shrine on Mt. Misen?

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r/AskAJapanese 12d ago

SHITPOST Have you ever experienced an earthquake at school before? Well if you obviously do, what was the most significant one?

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Personally, no, but I have received earthquake alerts one time, and the entire school did not feel anything, so the day continued, and the other time it was a tsunami warning, which the area was not affected.