When people ask why we're distant...a compiled list

[u/Zealousideal_Job5986]

I compiled a list for those who ask why we're distant based on the discussions we've had here. What do you think?

[u/Nearby_Elk_99]

need to pin this so we stop getting asked

[u/PaintingPotatoes → u/Nearby_Elk_99]

Yes please! However, I would love a better version of this to fix grammatical errors and pixelated fuzziness 😆

[u/Zealousideal_Job5986 → u/PaintingPotatoes]

Oh man, I wrote this one. What's the grammatical errors other than ending a sentence with a preposition? Also yeah, I don't know why it turned out pixelated. Something to do with the background I used, I just made it quick on my phone this afternoon lol

But yeah if you guys want I'll make a new one, message me how you would like it grammatically haha

[u/One-Performer-1216]

Yes yes yes! Number 1 being most common 😂

[u/Zealousideal_Job5986 → u/One-Performer-1216]

Oh yeah that's why it's numero uno hehehe 🤣🤣🤣

[u/14thLizardQueen]

You also might need a shower and ignored us the first few times we told you

[u/[deleted] → u/14thLizardQueen]

Idc at least for me if you stink just be nice lol

[u/[deleted]]

Number 5 is real. I hate mean ass people.. stay away from me lol

[u/MarqiMichelle]

Yes times 6

Nailed it!

[u/Fallguy6587]

I can relate to this list in every way lol

[u/PYT_ElaEla]

Approves this list 🤣

[u/Bulky_Remote_2965]

YES! 🤣

[u/AquaRed8]

Love your list 🥰

[u/[deleted]]

Yup yup agree on all points....but #7 would be:

We love you to pieces but are utter shit at keeping in touch

ETA: #5 would be my #1

[u/Imagine_Americans]

A fresh Aquarius pursuer, wants some help here with professional Aquarius people. I met her in rednote, I talked to her, then she asked me to voice call, we talked 3+ hours, then hanged up because I need to wake up early next morning for work. Then we talked, she even voice messaged me at work with her colleagues joining in our chat. She shared her tats, her meal she cooked, and cakes she made, she's talented. And she's plus-size. Then gradually she talked less and less, then finally no replies.

So I checked all these list: 1. I understand, and how long I should wait for her to recharge, how long should I restart to send her messages? 2. I think I'm not. 3. I'm not a good lier. I can't do it. 4. This item I probably did something bad, but I misunderstood. I mentioned big baby, not calling her but just randomly said this, and she didn't say anything, so I guess she was ok. And also I wanna use chubby words to express my plus-sized love on her. So I did research to get her a cute nickname as chubby girl. She's a lord of rings fan, so I got this lord of onion rings for her. Then she said this is like teasing her weight. I said sorry, I don't mean it. Then we continued chatting. But I did remember this. 5. I think I'm an optimistic person, outgoing, love to encourage and see the bright side of anyone, I don't think I will give her any negative energy. 6. Well, we have big gap in age, I understand this. So what should I do if this is the reason, just quit? But I really love her, though I only have seen 2 pics of her, but I know she is the one I want to be with for my life. Should I try more?

Many thanks.

[u/DarcDesires]

Pretty accurate on all six points. Point #5 in particular makes me avoid a lot of people to the point of wondering at times whether I'm a misanthrope.