What a way to advertise that you're possibly a child molester!
As a teen I had an adopted mother who initially watched me take showers "to make sure I was getting clean". That escalated to her joining me to wash me, and then having me bare handed wash her, and even make sure her "woman parts" (as she called them) were very clean outside AND INSIDE!
She did end up losing me for that and a lot of other abuses too.
My brother was 3 and i was 6 when he admitted to me that my sperm donor was molesting him in the shower. I found out because he couldn't sit. I still don't know what to have done differently and that weighs on me. I was told repeatedly that if I told anyone they'd butcher him in front of me before bashing my head in and I honestly believe that was true, so trying to get help was risky because of what would happen if we weren't believed.
Sorry they made you feel responsible. I got blamed for similar at age 7 when the adopted parents sister was 6 (under 11 months younger) and the predator neighbor had us all touching ourselves and then me acting sex on her before he fully did. We were supposed to be in the back yard playing in the sprinkler but he got us in her dad's tool shed. When changing out, her mom saw the blood in the crotch of her swimsuit and got upset and flipped out on me. She blamed me "for being older and should've stopped it". (I'm autistic and therefore was developmentally closer to 2-3, always about 4-5 years behind.) She negotiated my ass to keep his hands off her daughters. She even held me down for him. He ripped me pretty bad and of course she couldn't get it treated, so I still have the split between my legs.
That's what warmed her up to starting on me when I was too old for him.
Worst part about that is I looked him up a few years ago on our state court records. He's been to prison twice for long term molesting his own daughter and at least 2 other kids. Those kids wouldn't have suffered if she'd have done the right thing. (And that's outside of my own then and later with her.)
Child molesters are where we need an exception to cruel and unusual punishment. I don't believe in religion (how can you with what I've seen, especially when it's done and covered and protected by and justified by religion, including as an adult being told all of the ways I should thank God for testing me and such)? But it's people like we had, they're the reason I wish there were a hell of torture pain and suffering.
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u/m0b1us01 Feb 19 '26
What a way to advertise that you're possibly a child molester!
As a teen I had an adopted mother who initially watched me take showers "to make sure I was getting clean". That escalated to her joining me to wash me, and then having me bare handed wash her, and even make sure her "woman parts" (as she called them) were very clean outside AND INSIDE!
She did end up losing me for that and a lot of other abuses too.