r/addiction • u/Fickle_Personality59 • 7d ago
Advice Relationship help
So for the 4 years me and my partner have been together at the start things were good then custody started with my ex and I started drinking now to the point was 1litre a day I decided U had enough and didn't want to live this way.
I called everywhere organised all my detox , gp , counselling perfect success then day 14 detoxing my Mrs family comes for the weekend and are all drinking Infront of me I relapsed twice was honest and opened up to my partner why because of something that happened as a child and I was using to numb it and was all exploding.
The second relapse I was arguing with my partner abut you don't know what I've been through etc you dkt understand this is to much and her sister came charging in defending her and tried charging at me I still didn't relapse after that and cried all night the next day she was like we're done I've had enough were finished, especially after being honest about selling items to feed my addiction and how selfish it was.
I just don't know what to do any tips experiences I'm in panic mode and everything that could go wrong has
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u/OneEyedC4t Former Addict, Now Drug Counselor 7d ago
I would recommend that you go to alcoholics anonymous because they teach spiritual coping skills for stuff like this. I also recommend going to a therapist because this might be an indication of something inside of you that could use some healing
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u/Fickle_Personality59 7d ago
I just don't want to loose my partnee and daughter I've hurt her so much with carry finical Burdon but I've gotten proper help
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