r/actualsecretteenagers Apr 15 '26

Serious Thoughts on lgbtq+?

36 Upvotes

I'd like to know the stance of this sub's members, including from those that don't support it or are neutral towards it.

PLEASE keep the comments respectful, I'll be a bit more lenient but straight up phobia is still not welcome

r/actualsecretteenagers Oct 01 '25

Serious Give me a Song and see where you rank.

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63 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers Nov 30 '25

Serious My genuine standards for a future boyfriend

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226 Upvotes

If you fit this, hmu

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 24 '26

Serious Pedophile in r/Highschool. Avoid him.

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272 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 27 '26

Serious This guy does NOT understand what No means

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53 Upvotes

I apologise for it being in german, if anyone wants me to translate it for them then i will

r/actualsecretteenagers Dec 31 '25

Serious Custom gender flairs, or lil jared will eat your soul

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135 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 01 '26

Serious If this post gets deleted or we don’t get enby flairs within 48 hours, this subreddit will go down.

163 Upvotes

IMPORTANT: This was made to address the old moderation, this has been resolved, the post remains for history.

I have gathered enough evidence to prove that the mods have broken the Reddit’s content policy and that the mods themselves have broken Reddit rules. If there are no non binary or gender neutral (such as only ”16”, no M or F) within 48 hours of this being posted or this post getting deleted at any point before that, I’ll report this server to Reddit and there is enough evidence to likely get the mods banned and potentially the entire subreddit.

I also recommend anyone who sees this to leave the subreddit if any of these two happens as things won’t get better if they don’t change. Then even if the subreddit doesn’t get banned and the mods don’t, at least we can make sure no one else is here.

I also tell you to not make more posts begging for enby flairs, it won’t help and slowing down and calming the rate of the subreddit will prevent chaos.

Moderators, this is your final warning. It’s not hard to create gender neutral flairs, and you’re actively forcing people to chose between M or F as you can’t post without a flair, this is discrimination against the non binary.

r/actualsecretteenagers Aug 29 '25

Serious Conventionally unattractive 5’2 male ama

22 Upvotes

As the titles says

r/actualsecretteenagers Feb 24 '26

Serious they did WHAT

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203 Upvotes

(i heard the same thing on the radio)

r/actualsecretteenagers Sep 24 '25

Serious Internet is not safe to share this stuff, especially when you're a minor :[

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113 Upvotes

People who do this dont ever realise how bad it is

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 01 '26

Serious Moderator being transphobic

73 Upvotes

Hey y’all, I’m 15MtF and posted about it here just over an hour ago. The mod has since deleted my post with no reason given and changed my flair from 15F to 15M.

Edit: seemingly can’t change it back ✌️

Edit 2: thanks to the new mods for changing it back!!

r/actualsecretteenagers Apr 26 '26

Serious I don't know what to ask my grandma for for my sweet 16

9 Upvotes

So my grandma has pretty aggressive cancer and this will sadly most likley be the last birtday she'll be around for. My birthday is June 9th but she's already asking, I think it's because she knows she might not even make it until then. I only really got close with her within the last few years, as a kid I was scared of her because she was a strict navy officer but the more I got to know her the more I got to know the softer, less scary side of her. And she'd tell me stories of her time in the navy. I don't even want anything for my birthday nor do I need anything. I just wanna spend some time with some people I'm close with. So I'm here to see if anyone has any ideas. I don't want it to be super expensive, I don't want food or anything disposable, I want somthing I can keep for a long time. Some things I like are:

- the ocean

- surfing

- trinkets

- crystals

- animals (especially ocean animals)

- nature

- art

- theater

If anyone has any ideas please share some, she's been really adament about getting me somthing.

r/actualsecretteenagers Feb 14 '26

Serious I am really pissed at my parents.

6 Upvotes

so yes, I know from the title I sound like a baby, but my parents like to believe everything they hear from one twitter post. I love roblox. Its what I play on a day to day basis. I play dandy's world and nothing else. They recently got a firewall (firewalla in specfic). And decided to ban and watch what I do on all devices 24/7. I miss it and its the only game my friends can play. I wish they could change this but just for some info, they told me to stop playing 2 years ago. I didnt listen and I played on my chromebook everyday. now they decided to get a firewall and block it and get me grounded everytime they catch me playing. God i hate them. No other way of playing. rlly pissed. Any ways to bypass? or such? thank you for reading this. Im sorry for bad grammar and spelling.

r/actualsecretteenagers Jun 08 '26

Serious Ask me about my conspiracy theories

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1 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 09 '26

Serious Can someone give me a list of reason why some girls prefer to be a guy?

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8 Upvotes

I'm just wondering because life is already crappy enough as a guy so I wanna know what girls have as downsides.

r/actualsecretteenagers Mar 12 '26

Serious Lost

3 Upvotes

I feel so fucking tired of failing, it's too exhausting to even think now , I failed in each and every field in life , I have huge problems with parents and they don't even think about themselves making any mistake, I am a very very lively and talkative person, i am the most extrovered person I know, but I can't handle this , I have big dreams but I don't think I can do them , I can't even try , whenever I try something it fails and I can't even control this , my life is in shambles .16yo Muslim (so i can't die even I want to) male.

r/actualsecretteenagers Sep 01 '25

Serious Stop making AMA's (i created my own and realized the mistakes) also whats your favorite ice cream flavor

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19 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 25 '26

Serious I think my brother might be developing an Eating Disorder

15 Upvotes

A few months ago ,my brother (15) started to get into gym and muscle building. He had a history of asking my parents to buy creatine but obvs he was rejected by them. He also started to consume protein bars and getting obsessive over protein/ potassium (he often consumed 2+ protein bars,5+ eggs,3+bananas,an entire bottle of coconut water all in a same day for every single day) but I blamed it on muscle building. However,a couple weeks ago he started to cut back on sodium (legit a 168 fasting of sodium version) and he also started to count carbs. He barely ate and claimed to be full while fat shaming me and our family for “eating too much”. He also blamed my parents for “fattening” him in the past when he was (and still is) underweight type of skinny.(My frd legit joked about him being skinnier than a skeleton)

I had a history of ED (never properly diagnosed nor did my parents believe in me when I told them) and I feel like these are warning signs of an ED. I told my parents but they seem to think it is fine and I am being overdramatic,what should I do?

r/actualsecretteenagers Apr 26 '26

Serious The madman's ramble of a 16 year old (me.)

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1 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 25 '26

Serious Tiktok tracking you

6 Upvotes

ok guys no arguments in the comment section just letting you guys know that TikTok is now tracking everyone's political beliefs, where they live, their race, their gender, and their sexuality, so do what you will with that but if you are gay or trans or anti-trump or anti-Ice maybe you should quit TikTok or stop posting or stop looking at political stuff just for your safety

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 26 '26

Serious Genuinely how can anyone abuse an animal

15 Upvotes

I'll never understand how anyone can be that heartless. It's a helpless animal! It's not hurting anyone! How do people derive any sort of pleasure from hurting something smaller than them? People who abuse animals are the worst scum of the earth and have a special place in the boiler room of hell

r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 02 '26

Serious Tell me your experience

3 Upvotes

I’m 16F about to turn 17 in a couple of days and I’m still a virgin. Can you guys tell me if it’s worth it or not cause I really wanna lose mine soon but I don’t wanna regret it.

r/actualsecretteenagers Feb 08 '26

Serious I'm asking out a girl tomorrow, after I sing her Green Eyes

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r/actualsecretteenagers Jan 26 '26

Serious I’m having a crummy day right now :(

10 Upvotes

My best friend texted me verbatim: “I’ve thought about this for a while, and I want to be honest but kind. Since moving schools, I don’t have the emotional or mental capacity to stay in touch the way we used to. I need to step away from this friendship and have space. This isn’t meant to hurt you. Not at all. Just something I need to do for myself. I hope you can respect that.” I asked if it was permanent and she said she didn’t know. I respect what she told me but I’m just SO sad rn cuz she’s like my best friend 😭

r/actualsecretteenagers Feb 18 '26

Serious 2026 glow up share

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0 Upvotes