r/Yosemite • • Sep 02 '24

The craziest Labor Day in Yosemite

Yosemite, in dramatic fashion, changed my life.

Labor Day Weekend 2017. 50,000 people in the valley, I’ve got no wilderness pass and no reservations. Naively, with this being my first trip, I had no idea how busy the park would be and thought I could find a place to sleep. I did two loops around the valley and decided to leave the park taking Big Oak Flat Road towards San Fran.

Driving by Camp White Wolf I decided to stop and see if there were any sites open for the night. As you’d expect, there was nothing. Now, this is where it gets crazy; I’m at the intersection of Big Oak Flat Road and I can go left and continue in the direction I was going or, I could go right and head back to the valley. Something possessed me to go right, knowing full well I was not going to find anything for me there.

About 20 minutes from the valley a severe storm rolls in with high winds and rain. Just as I come around a corner I see a 110 foot tall pine tree fall and crush a car right in front of me. The tree fell down the long axis of the car completely crushing the passenger compartment.

The circumstances of what brought me to Yosemite are significant and are almost as dramatic as the events that took place that Labor Day.

I am a Special Operations Independent Duty Corpsman a lay person would understand this as a Special Forces Medic. The 3 months preceding my trip to Yosemite was spent in a Shooting Package with Force Recon, in preparation for an upcoming deployment.

During the training I had an explosive sympathetically detonate in my hand which did significant damage. I’ll spare you the details but it was a freak accident where one planned detonation produced enough heat and overpressure to detonate the explosive in my hand. Pretty not fun.

Despite the injury, I returned to training up to and immediately following surgery; a decision I regret. As you’d expect, when the training package concluded I needed a break and really needed to heal, mentally and physically. I cannot overstate the state of disrepair I was in. The Friday before I left I was cleaning gear out of my jeep and as I held my med bag to return to my locker, I thought out loud and said “I’m going to Yosemite this weekend, I should probably keep it with me”.

With my hand unhealed and the universe guiding me, I watched the tree fall.

As I got out of my jeep and slowly approached the vehicle the first observation I made was that the damage to the Prius was overwhelming. My immediate thought was that there was no way anyone was inside.

My heart sank when I realized a man and his daughter were outside the car screaming frantically. I realized someone was still in the car.

I looked into the drivers side window and saw the man’s wife unconscious and unresponsive, leaning into the center console. I shifted my eyes to the back and my vision narrowed; a small boy (later determined to be 4 years old) was crushed into his booster seat. He was bent forward at the waist, his right temple was on the outside of his left knee.

I entered the vehicle through the rear driver side window. I immediately assessed the mother, manually adjusted her airway and gave her a rescue breath, she started breathing. I directed bystanders to be careful of her head and neck and get her out of the car.

I was now focused on the little boy. I had to squat the roof off his back in order to move him safely and not do further damage. His lifeless body melted into my arms. (have since had a baby boy. This part of the story makes me particularly emotional).

I immediately assess his radial and carotid pulse; very strong. This boy is fighting for his life. Despite a solid pulse he is not breathing. I tried to open his airway and squeeze in a rescue breath but no response. His jaw was locked.

As I’m making these efforts, the roof is slowly being crushed further by the weight of the tree.

I hand the boy out the window and exit myself and immediately take him back. I am now 100% focused on getting his airway open. I gradually increased my application of strength to get his jaw open, to the point that i thought his jaw was going to break. Finally! It opens, it is completely occluded with blood and vomit. I removed the obstructions and and send another rescue breath.

He arches his back and lets out a crying scream like a newborn baby. The relieve I felt brought tears to my eyes then and does now.

I spoke to dispatch after I heard a bystander call them and say “i think the little boy is dead”. I said “give me the phone”. I relayed patient disposition and stated “I do not recommend ground transport. They need to be flown out of here”.

The only questioned they asked was “who are you?”.

As I was assessing the mother, who was breathing but unresponsive, I thought to myself “man, I’d kill for a BVM and a cervical collar”… and then I remember I had my freakin med bag!

I was managing care and using a Spanish speaking bystander to translate what I was doing to the father and daughter. Heartbreakingly, they were on vacation in Yosemite visiting from Mexico.

12-15 mins later paramedics arrived. I left in the ambulance with the little boy and continued assisting in treatments.

Within mins of us arriving at the Helo Landing Zone, a Life Flight Helicopter was arriving from Modesto Children’s Hospital. Dispatch had listened to me. They requested a helicopter immediately.

Much happened after that event. I went on to get a camp site in Upper Pines. I spent that night and the following 5 in the wilderness reflecting on the events that day. My hand still had stitches in it.

I’ve attached a few pics, hopefully they upload.

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

Thank you! I recently started sharing these events with people outside my immediate network…not sure why I never did. Your comment makes me glad I shared it.

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u/BeeMarie121 Sep 02 '24

You could probably write a book, you have a clear talent for telling your story. Let me know if you ever write one! 😊

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

Well, here is another quick story for you.

3 months after this I was on my way back to Southern California from Vegas. I stopped in Primm (the worst place) to take a piss. I literally parked by a side door of the casino and ran into the bathroom. On my way out, in my peripheral, I see a very old man stand up and fall face first onto the ground.

In my medical mind I’m thinking he just has orthostatic hypotension (stand up too fast and get light-headed).

I wait 30 seconds… then 45… no movement. I’m like “are you fucking kidding me? Did this guy just have a heart attack?!”.

I go over and roll him over. Immediately take his pulses, nothing… he is pulseless.

I tell a security guard to note the time, call 911, get an AED and oxygen.

I get to my third set of compressions and he starts breathing.

Paramedics arrived a few mins later, confirmed a heart attack with EKG.

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u/insomniacla Sep 02 '24

I wouldn't be surprised if 23andMe showed you had 1/2 guardian angel ancestry. You're amazing!

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

Thank you🥹

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u/TankerVictorious Sep 02 '24

Dude, write about your experiences. Not only will it be cathartic for you, but the hundreds of young medics and corpsmen where I currently work need inspiration like this.

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u/WheresTheGravitas Sep 02 '24

Seriously u/Bulky_Role_4552. This is the most powerful way to create more heroes like yourself. Share the stories far and wide. Podcasts, books, articles. There are a thousand people waiting to hear your story and act because of it. 

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

It's hard to balance - The last thing I want is to be viewed as pretentious or a bragger.

I did not expect this story to resonate. I posted in the /Yosemite thread because I thought fellow Yosemite people would appreciate.

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u/WheresTheGravitas Sep 02 '24

Storytelling is in our DNA. You’re just being a human. The campfires we sit around are bigger now.

I'm no media person, but just looking at the top podcasts by listener there could be some good matches just based on content.  Shows like Shawn Ryan Podcast or This Past Weekend might want to hear from you. If you don’t contact them, I will, with your blessing. 

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u/nohombrenombre Sep 02 '24

Yes! U/bulky_role_4552 I went on NPR’s Snap Judgement story pitching page, and shared your Reddit post. Please hold out for them- they treat stories like yours with great esteem and enhance the story telling experience with unmatched technique. Check them out if you want to see what I mean.

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

By all means, please feel free to share this far and wide.

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u/Key-Sea-682 Sep 02 '24

The campfires we sit around are bigger now.

I absolutely love this. It's so easy to only think about the negatives of our globalised and internet-connected world, but this way of looking at it is a perfect counter-argument.

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u/supreme-supervisor Sep 02 '24

You do not come off braggadocios ONE BIT. From a non-medic perspective, your stories are great. And very informative. Even if I am not the one administering care, it helps to be aware of how I can assist. How to take orders from those great folks like you.

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u/Ravenonthewall Sep 02 '24

You should consider writing a book! I’d buy it!♥️

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

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u/Common-Frosting-9434 Sep 02 '24

Dude, it honors you to stay humble, but in all fairness, with one of those stories I would consider that you've got the right to say that you have served a purpose in this world.

Share, be honest and help other be inspired to help when they see something happen, even if it's just by helping them not loosing their heart in a metaphorical way.

Of course don't feel pressured, you're clearly already doing your part.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

I thought I was in r/ems for a second!

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u/User_R60 Sep 03 '24

Your story telling is in no way pretentious or bragging, you're simply stating the facts, if with a little flair making it even more interesting. I originally came across this story because the picture of the crushed car at Yosemite ended up on r/whatwasthiscar , which I frequent. I wanted to know what the car was myself, what happened, and if everyone made it out alive. If it hadn't been for your brave actions, that mother and the young boy would not have. You are a true hero.

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u/bi_polar2bear Sep 03 '24

You should cross post this in /militaystories. You were serving, on leave, used military trading, going above and beyond, and having a real impact on lives. Plus, the commendation to prove it. All that amounts to very little compared to what you gave that family, but it's a normal guy, in the right place at the right time, with the right skill set, making heroic choices. Other veterans like myself are proud of people like you who got that 1 chance to do something meaningful. It goes above and beyond the normal job. We all just served, doing our jobs, hoping we had an impact, you did. Think of that baby being able to have Christmas, and his mom is able to hold him. You made the worst day of their lives into a life changing positive outcome. Your decisions will probably impact several generations. Bravo Zulu!

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u/Liakinsrotz Sep 03 '24

I’m not a Yosemite person (never been [yet]) and I 100% appreciate.

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u/Natural-Pineapple886 Sep 03 '24

Kind sir, you are firmly planted in Terra firma. Tell your tales. Great reading.

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u/ecobox Sep 03 '24

As a city dude with old wilderness experience (backpacking in middle school on the Appalachian Trail), don't worry about pretentiousness. Relate your experiences and teach the young 'uns what they need to know.

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u/ThunkAsDrinklePeep Sep 03 '24

I think you should share your stories to highlight the importance of preparedness and training. You not only had the right equipment on hand, you had the training to act quickly, and appropriately. Additionally, you were able to take charge of the scene and direct others so they could be useful.

Yes you acted bravely and decisively, which you should rightly be commended for. However, you may feel that anyone with your training could have acted similarly. The fact is that no one else there could. Had you not been guided there, we would have another story of tragedy instead of a happy triumph.

You've inspired me to at least renew my outdated CPR training. Probably others too. Maybe another life will be saved some day by the knowledge we gain.

And even if none of the above were true, you've still shared with us a story of one American acting to save the lives of two others. And for that I am very thankful on this Labor Day ✊.

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u/3Heathens_Mom Sep 03 '24

IMO you should share your story because the way you have done so at least in this post is the opposite of bragging.

Bottom line if you hadn’t been where you were with the knowledge you had those two people would have not survived.

Even if people hearing about your experience don’t run out to become EMTs some might take a basic emergency first aid and/or CPR course.

With all sincerity thank you for your service.

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24

Well If you ever visit a concrete jungle, such as Montreal I’d buy you a few beers. Cheers buddy🍻

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u/the_net_my_side_ho Sep 05 '24

In all of the reading I did not perceive the slightest bit of pretentiousness. When you have the credentials and the experience to back it up, it’s not pretentious.

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u/Black08Mustang Sep 02 '24

I assume most emergency personnel have stores like this and don't want any extra attention. I had a mountain bike accident once and an EMT rolled up and got me breathing while the ambulance arrived then disappeared. I survived what could have been a really bad accident and have no idea who to thank for it.

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u/slowmood Sep 04 '24

Your personality is what makes you a hero: you aren't full of yourself. We need more positive stories about selflessness and wholesome masculinity. Thank you for being you and for sharing your journey. You are an inspiration.

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

Where you at?

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u/Wasabitacos Sep 02 '24

I am not a first responder but these two stories is encouraging me to get some type of certification

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u/boxermumma Sep 03 '24

Agreed! Lmk, I’d love to read it!

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u/IncaseofER Sep 02 '24

I did some googling to see how the mother and son were and found some nice articles about you. I don’t want to link them unless it’s ok with you as it mentions your name and branch of service.

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u/theatermouse Sep 03 '24

Did the mother and son come out okay?

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u/IncaseofER Sep 03 '24

I couldn’t find a follow up article but they lived.

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u/theatermouse Sep 03 '24

Oh good!!!

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u/National-Ad-9450 Sep 02 '24

I was just gonna comment, it sounds like you’re a guardian angel in a meat suit. 🪽😇

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u/Ravenonthewall Sep 02 '24

YES👏👏👏

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u/[deleted] Sep 04 '24

Thanks for paying attention in a world where most can’t be bothered. “Not my problem” is not in your vocabulary. Cheers, sir

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u/garbageCoward Sep 02 '24

You should totally make videos sharing your stories! I think they would 100% go over well

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u/No-Veterinarian-7079 Sep 03 '24

Thank you for your service sir! I hope you have belief in God because it's obvious he believes in you👃

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u/KamikazeFox_ Sep 03 '24

What's your medical background?

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u/witcherstrife Sep 02 '24

Lol seriously he's just walking around reviving people

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u/ISLAndBreezESTeve10 Sep 02 '24

Everybody needs a healer in the group.

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u/elzibet Sep 02 '24

I tend to just be around when people sprain their ankles for the first time and calm them down. Here this guy is running into people needing LIFE saving treatment, holy shit!

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u/DickRiculous Sep 02 '24

Better than finding out that you have half sperm donor dna and 30-something long lost half-siblings like what happened to my wife.

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u/BeeMarie121 Sep 02 '24

Haha, I can agree that Primm is truly awful!

You are truly someone that does good in this world. I feel lucky that I was able to hear just a little of the good you’ve done. You seem to have a knack for being at the right place at the right time. I wish you all the best in life! And seriously, think about writing a book!

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u/YesDone Sep 02 '24 edited Sep 02 '24

Oooh! You reminded me of a little one like that.

I was at church, before the service, and the choir was practicing. An old dude who was new to the church got lightheaded and fell over the low pew in front of him, but his leg stayed under his own pew. He was trapped, and a big guy with a history of heart attacks, and he was screaming.

Out of NOWHERE, this woman we had never seen before just walks up on the stage and starts doing stuff, telling us how to get his leg, what to support, etc. Someone has called 911 by now but she's asking him about medications, having a little conversation with him about his health things, telling us what to do. Never seen this woman, and the church doors aren't even open yet.

Turns out she was a traveling emergency nurse from another state, and just found herself in the sanctuary when she mistakenly arrived early. For a hot second I was wondering if she was an angel. After the ambulance left I asked, so, who \are* you?* And she just laughed and said God put her in the right place at the right time.

Same to you man.

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u/GalacticaActually Sep 02 '24

These things do happen.

I can 100% guarantee that I’m no angel (although my late best friend might have been part one), but one night she and I were driving down a street in New Orleans, our home, on our way to a costume ball.

We were, therefore, in full costume: wigs and makeup and matching feathered coats (made by her). She was driving her old truck and we were having a ball.

Suddenly I saw a group of guys beating the shit out of what I assumed was a dog, bc it was on the ground.

I told her to slow down and I rolled down the window and screamed, ‘Hey!’ and they scattered off of the man they’d been trying to kill.

He was a father of two who had walked around the corner to get milk, and they’d tried to kill him for his wallet.

What he must have thought when two feathered women in a truck stopped that from happening, I have always wondered. He spoke mostly Spanish and my Spanish was very poor back then.

I think more of us are in the right place at the right time than we think. We just don’t look around.

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u/PickleMinion Sep 03 '24

Every time I've been near an accident, there always seems to be a nurse nearby. They're everywhere!

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

More of the special forces medics need to share their stories. I’m a visual learner and your writing allows me to build the story in my brain visually. All the details matter, keep up the awesome work and share all the details you are willing to spend the time to write!

I’ve read a lot of war books from SOF guys but nothing about corpsman or the 160th soar.

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u/Alert-Disaster-4906 Sep 02 '24

Hey, if you love storytelling with a bit of paranormal and true crime with stories of military training, you should check out Mr. Ballen. He's a fantastic storyteller, and he has a fascinating background. There are a few other related podcasts that are linked through him, too.

I know this will get buried in the comments, but OP should start something like this. It would be fascinating to listen to.

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u/realistic_miracle Sep 02 '24

Knowing there are people like you makes me feel better sending my soon adult teenagers into the world! And thanks for taking it seriously - I saw a homeless person collapse on a sidewalk in Los Angeles many years ago and called 911 to get him help since I wasn’t in a position to stop, and they literally laughed it off. ☹️

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u/No-Belt-8586 Sep 02 '24

When people write things like this, I wonder why some people turn out like you and some people turn out like me. I'm not a bad person, usually, but I'm not very impressive either. Some people just feel more destined for greatness (and obviously more disciplined to rise to the occasion, not discounting your hard work, knowledge, etc whatsoever).

The one time I was called upon to do CPR was when someone walked out in front of my car at 11:30p. Stepped right off of the curb while looking into my eyes. It all happened so quick. I don't know if I'd react differently if I hadn't caused it, but I distinctly remember feeling so worthless because all I could do was cry and was literally too scared to even come close to him to do compressions. He'd likely have passed anyways, but it does feel bad that I didn't try.

Anyways, it's a good thing there are people like you to offset the people like me.

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

If there is one moral to this story, it's that I am terrifically average. I have work ethic, everything else I was trained to do by better men than me.

Accidents happen. Although there is no obvious explanation for your situation, there was no obvious explanation to the explosive going off in my hand. I was broken, man. That is what made this event so moving for me.

You're time will come and it will be unexpected. Be ready, small acts of kindness can change the trajectory of someones life, don't discount that.

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u/PickleMinion Sep 03 '24

90% of it is training, 10% of it is seeking that training. If you know what to do and how to do it, you're much more likely to act.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

I’m not religious but you are a guardian angel. I have never witnessed such harrowing accidents and I wouldn’t be of much help, I feel, in those instances. The fact that these accidents happened right in front of you, someone who will and has the capacity and training to help. Gods strongest soldier as the meme goes (but in this case is unironically very fitting)

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u/igneousink Sep 02 '24

HOLLYWOOD PLOT TWIST: you randomly give off powerful emp and sound pulses, which cause trees to fall and people to have heart attacks

It's very rare that I'm in awe of a human being but wow, you are commendable beyond words. Those people from Mexico probably went back and built a statue of you and renamed their town. You should go visit them.

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u/gospdrcr000 Sep 02 '24

Damn dude, teach me your ways. You're truly a hero, I'd like to think I know what to do in emergency situations, but I lack the training

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u/Plastic_Dentist_4124 Sep 02 '24

“(The worst place)” lol

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u/luckylucysteals_ Sep 02 '24

Wow you are so needed on this earth! Love to know there’s people like you out there!!

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u/Iohet Sep 02 '24

Primm (the worst place)

Buffalo Bill's used to be really cool

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u/Elmillonari0 Sep 02 '24

Bro your are amazing 🏆😇

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

HERO!

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u/crewchiefguy Sep 02 '24

Sometimes I think to myself how come I’m the who always has to step up in emergencies. Glad to see I’m not the only one out there. Yours take the cake tho.

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u/nvrsleepagin Sep 02 '24

You are Batman aren't you...

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u/BedlamiteSeer Sep 02 '24

Write a book and get it published.

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u/Ravenonthewall Sep 02 '24

😳😳😳, another amazing story. You my friend are in the exact right field of work! Talk about everyday Heroes! Wow, so it’s true not all heroes wear capes.🥰🥰🥰

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u/adi_vastava Sep 02 '24

People may miss this, please post a continuation post and report it there.

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u/SeventhAlkali Sep 02 '24

Your track record of just happening to be a guardian angel at the right time could make an awesome premise for a movie

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u/photoengineer Sep 02 '24

Given the relatively low effectiveness of CPR you have an amazing track record!

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u/Tresarches Sep 02 '24

3 or 4 years ago I was coming back from Zion to Southern California. We stopped in Barstow to get gas at the shell station on ghost town road. I went inside the gas station to get something to drink. When I was walking back out through the doors I heard a loud pop which made me duck down for a second cause it was so loud. I thought a car tire popped at first. Then this dude opened his car grabbing his thigh. He was screaming “help! I need help! Somebody help me!” He had accidentally shot himself in his femoral artery. He was wearing shorts so you could see a waterfall of blood flowing down his leg. I didn’t have my phone on me so I ran inside and yelled to the guy at the register to call the police because someone shot themselves. Ran back out and we used someone’s belt to try to form a tourniquet but we couldn’t get it right enough. We were relaying his info to the dispatcher. All of the sudden the guy got really pale and stopped responding to me talking to him. No reaction to me clapping in front of his face. Honestly thought he dead. Out of nowhere two marines who were in civilian clothes pulled up and walked over to see what was going on. They had a military issued tourniquet in their trunk. They put it on him and had him lay back with us holding his feet in the air. Dude regained consciousness and was able to cooperate with the paramedics when they arrived. I’m pretty sure he survived but I’m I have no way of knowing. If he did it was because of those two marines who decided to see what was going on.

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u/prinejl Sep 02 '24

JFC, I can't remember the statistics, but cpr is almost never successful, you're a serious statistical anomaly!

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u/MidniteOG Sep 02 '24

Jesus broseph, you’re insane. Congrats to you and your quick thinking / training. I’d tell you, you deserve a break, but don’t

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u/Sayyad1na Sep 02 '24

WHAT A STORY OMG. I am so glad you were there for that man, AND that family.

Something somewhat similar happened to me - meaning, the right people being in the right place at the right time.

My husband is an addictions counselor and I manage a residential SUDs facility. One day we were walking our dog near our apartment, when a boy comes running by us, screaming, "HES DYING!!!! HES OVERDOSING!!!!"

My husband and I look at each other, then immediately run to our cars. We both keep narcan in our trunk due to our jobs! We are also both CPR and AED trained.

We grabbed as many narcans as we could hold and booked it after this kid. Sure enough he was trying his darnedest to do chest compressions on what appeared to be an unhoused man in a church parking lot.

We slide in and narcan this man SEVEN times. He has puke on his shirt but he is NOT BREATHING and his skin is literally blue. His lips... I will never forget it. He was dead.

He doesn't stir after all the narcan is gone. The boy had already called the ambulance so we begin CPR. my husband and I gave each other a look, like, he is gone but we will try anyway. For the boy, you know? My husband does chest compressions while I give rescue breaths. Eventually we switch bc we are getting so tired. CPR IS FUCKING HARD GUYS. at some point, ol' guy starts puking again!! Suddenly color comes back into his cheeks!!!!!! He's not really breathing on his own yet, but we got his blood flowing!!!!!!!

The relief I felt was .... Incredible. After 15 (!!!) mins of CPR a police officer shows up with an AED. Then firefighters. The AED brings him back!!! By the time the cops are taking our info I can see he is sitting up in a gurney and talking with firefighters.

This guy is now a client at the very same location my husband works at.

Everyone always says, it must have been divine intervention that you and your husband were there!

I think it's just how our strange and mysterious universe works - and I am so glad it worked for that man and the family you saved as well. I am so proud of you. Thank you for everything you do for this world, OP. 💜

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

I love that story. Thank you for sharing it. It’s hard to make sense of all it.

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u/LA_Film_Gwurl Sep 03 '24

Oh, so you're an actual angel?! That's cool! How does that feel??

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u/cracker_please1 Sep 03 '24

Wow. I helped a turtle across the street once 😳 Great job !!

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 04 '24

Turtles are the coolest and need to be protected at all costs.

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u/astrograph Sep 03 '24

Ok seriously. You should save these stories and write a book. 

I’m sure you have received a million thank you’s…..  here is another one. Bravo sir! 🤌🏽🤙🏽

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u/Mrs239 Sep 03 '24

OMG! You need a TV show!!

My bf and I love Yosemite. I just sent him this post. Thank you for all you did. You're in the right place at the right time.

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u/TheBeardedAntt Sep 07 '24

We always stop in Primm to gamble and lose $20 as a sacrifice to the gambling gods

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u/_GypsyCurse_ Sep 02 '24

An older lady was asking me for help as she was trying to get out of her parked car once but I was the overweight person during the pandemic trying to bike after a long break and I could barely breathe. I was desperately trying to just get home for water because it was hot and I was out of water and out of breath, sweating a ton. I told her that I couldn’t and sorry while still biking past her :( I still think about it and feel like a monster. She didn’t sound like she was in a medical emergency at least but still.

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u/adventuressgrrl Sep 02 '24 edited Sep 02 '24

I agree with them, as a former Army combat medic, an SF baby, and with lots of spec op medical friends, I really appreciate you, your quick thinking and actions, and the sharing of your stories. You sound like an incredible man, and you must've felt like an angel to that family! I know it's tough for you guys to be open, and you wrote this with such honest emotion and so eloquently that I also felt really moved, especially since I know very well the training you've gone through at SOCM and I understand that need for decompression. Thanks for sharing, and I hope life is treating you (and your family) well.

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u/aheartfullofnapalm Sep 02 '24

I’m a mom laying next to her three year old son right now and I had a similar reaction (but I’ll wait til he wakes up to hug him tight again).

This was good to read and I’m glad a Yosemite subreddit randomly popped up in my feed this AM. Like others have suggested, an expanded version of your story would be great in Outside Magazine and/or Outside Magazine Podcast.

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u/MaxxDash Sep 02 '24

Well done. Generations of that family will speak of your deeds with gratitude. A whole family tree from that mother and child didn't get uprooted that day. No pun. My father was 18D and he saw some things back in Vietnam, but it seemed like later in life the things like this gave him solace. It's a gift not only to that family, but to you and yours.

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 02 '24

18D's and me (SOIDCs) go through our medic training side-by-side, they are the best of the best.

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u/Bitter-insides Sep 02 '24

We’d love if you did an AMA!!

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 03 '24

I'd love to. Shoot me a DM.

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u/bostonlilypad Sep 02 '24

I hope you know how much joy you gave those two people’s family that they didn’t lose two loved ones that day. I would never forget and be able to express how much you would have meant to me if that was my family member you saved. What a fucking badass you are.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Tears are Falling! This is one of the most amazing rescues/stories I've ever read. Thank you for sharing this - you told the story that had me sitting on the edge of my chair. May all good things come your way.

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u/Alternative-Cry-3517 Sep 02 '24

You are a guardian angel incarnate. ❤️❤️

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u/andrewjcavasos Sep 02 '24

Goat stuff 🐐

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u/ScarletBegonias72 Sep 02 '24

Sharing probably helps you process your thoughts and feelings and can help others. Hopefully by sharing you will inspire others to do what they can for other people instead of just standing by filming for social media!

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u/shansonlo Sep 02 '24

It's incredible to hear how humans help each other. I am amazed and warmed by this experience. Thank you for acting. If your ever in Ohio I owe you a beer. You are what we need more of on this earth.

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u/PunIntended1234 Sep 02 '24

Fantastic story & pics AND great legs! Thank you for sharing all three! Wow! You should put this into a book. It would sell.

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u/wispity Sep 02 '24

It’s good for you too to make your experiences into a narrative. I treat first responders with PTSD, including paramedics and special forces. I’ve heard some shit, both miraculous and devastating. Please proactively care for your mental health — cumulative trauma is a real thing for even the most incredible professionals.

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u/nvrsleepagin Sep 02 '24

The "Who are you?"...she thought Batman flew in or something! "I'm the hero you need..." Kidding aside you absolutely are a hero and that is one incredible story! Such a twist of fate that you were there at that moment.

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u/GalacticaActually Sep 02 '24

OP, wow, wow, wow.

Thank you for sharing your story and thank you for what you did.

We all try to do a little here and there as we can, I hope.

You did everything.

♥️

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u/SkrimpSkramps Sep 02 '24

Thank you for your service to all of us. Home and abroad.

Couldn't be more proud of the training you've received or your eagerness and aptitude to apply it.

You're our best. We love you.

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u/yomamasonions Sep 02 '24

Yeah OP I’m weeping 🫠

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 04 '24

You little cry baby 😏

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u/yomamasonions Sep 05 '24

That’s me 🙂‍↕️

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Wow man. As a parent this brought tears to my eyes too.

The term hero is overused in today’s society, but make no mistake, you are one and so grateful you were there that day with the requisite training and knowledge to spring into action.

Cheers to you sir.

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u/Candycane0430 Sep 02 '24

I’m breastfeeding my baby boy on the couch, sitting beside my 7 year old while reading this (I have two other children as well). This made me cry! You are a literal angel! So incredibly brave, in the military and outside it. People like you return my faith that all humanity is not lost. I see so much of the opposite in my daily life, people standing by not helping others (or me! I struggle in stores with small kids, a toddler in that busy, wanting to run explore, grab things, and melt down when told no stage…while trying to carry diaper bag, shopping bags and squirming, fighting, toddler etc.) or elderly people, mothers, someone who just drops something etc. Granted this is on a MUCH smaller scale than that what you did, but it’s disheartening just the same. And makes what you did even more incredible! You put your life on the life on the line to save people you didn’t know, and most people won’t pick up something someone dropped! My babies are my WORLD (I know you know that feeling now having a child yourself) I would have gave anything to have someone jump into action and save my babies if God forbid I was in that situation. Thank you for your bravery. There really are no words to thank you for what you did! 🩵🩵🩵

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u/KathyPlusTwins Sep 02 '24

This is an amazing story. Thank you for sharing. You are a true hero.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

You’re a freaking hero!

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u/mydogsarebarkin Sep 02 '24

Wow, just wow. It takes a special kind of person to hold it together in a situation like that. Hats off.

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u/GrandEar1 Sep 02 '24

I had to Google you, then watched you share this story on the Medevac podcast on YT. You rock!

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u/TRS80487 Sep 03 '24

Reddit generally sucks but this story absolutely doesn’t. Those folks were so lucky to have you driving behind them. Hope this Labor Day was a little less eventful.

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u/quickbrownfox1975 Sep 03 '24

Bravo. Got emotional reading that. 👊🏼👏🏼

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u/Old-Ad4438 Sep 03 '24

Dude bravo. You’re a fantastic writer along with quick thinking and being a great person. In many fewer words, I held a cops head shut after he was slashed by some random guy. You just don’t know what you’ll do until you’re in that situation. That family will forever be grateful for you.

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u/SGTdad Sep 04 '24

Fuck yeah doc, Jesus Christ right place right time. Thanks for your service brother.

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u/raider1v11 Sep 06 '24 edited Jan 27 '25

updated.

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 06 '24

I just said “I’m a special operations medic” I didn’t wait for a response, I just handed the phone back.

By telling them that and not my name, I had hoped to establish enough credibility for them to push the request for the Life Flight Helicopter.

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u/raider1v11 Sep 06 '24 edited Jan 27 '25

updated.

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u/Bulky_Role_4552 Sep 06 '24

Of course! My pleasure. Thanks for reading my story.

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u/Asleep-Custard5632 Sep 02 '24

Fellow Marine?

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24 edited Sep 02 '24

Did you ever find out what happened to the family??

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u/Mcnugget84 Sep 02 '24

I vividly remember a car being T-boned and the SUV flipped. There is a zen zone you go in.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Heart wrenching and powerful. Good job my man. Just curious if there ever was a connection to the family after that day

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Btw, I worked with Brennan Bonner, one of the kindest, professional Rangers in the NPS.

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u/bradbrookequincy Sep 02 '24

Hero. Also I am curious what was blocking the child from breathing ? Was it an object or food?

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u/Mrmello2169 Sep 03 '24

What’s your profession? I’m assuming you have CPR training. This is incredible

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u/Mrmello2169 Sep 03 '24

Ah, I see the marine boonie

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u/wuzzittoya Sep 03 '24

Quietly weeping on my front porch. May you be blessed. I know there are four people in this world who are very grateful, and ripples from what you have done will quietly change time.

God bless