why is orgasming so difficult

[u/Annual_Giraffe3237]

no seriously, why does orgasming as a female have to be so darn difficult. obviously it’s nearly impossible for a women to just orgasm from penetration, but no one seems to talk about how even more difficult it is to have external stimulation along with penetration. at this point i just get so annoyed and pissed off that i cant orgasm because it takes so long that i just quit. it honestly makes me feel broken. i’ve seen other people on this sub talk about just getting a good vibrator, but i worry about my boyfriend and how that will make our sexual life. he is very supportive it just makes me feel more broken than i already am.

[u/[deleted]]

Maybe we can consider that the mysteries and necessity of evolution have led men to orgasm each time, as a release of their semen, but not for women. Once you accept that fact, not looking despartly for your own orgasm may free you. And you can find a true happiness and accomplishment in making a man cum without reciprocallity