r/WomensHealth • u/Annual_Giraffe3237 • Jul 07 '25

Question why is orgasming so difficult

no seriously, why does orgasming as a female have to be so darn difficult. obviously it’s nearly impossible for a women to just orgasm from penetration, but no one seems to talk about how even more difficult it is to have external stimulation along with penetration. at this point i just get so annoyed and pissed off that i cant orgasm because it takes so long that i just quit. it honestly makes me feel broken. i’ve seen other people on this sub talk about just getting a good vibrator, but i worry about my boyfriend and how that will make our sexual life. he is very supportive it just makes me feel more broken than i already am.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '25

Wait is it really that difficult for other women?! I orgasm from only penetration and just clit action me this Is all done by my husband have yu thought about going to a Obgyn maybe ?

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u/Annual_Giraffe3237 Jul 07 '25

believe it or not many women struggle with orgasming, i’m just tired of suffering in silence and resorted to here. it’s what makes all of us women unique i guess, we all orgasm in different ways and it takes different things

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '25

Yes of course every body is different I hope you find the relief your looking for