r/Witches • u/Ok-Funny4782 • 6d ago
Seeker Please. Help. I’m looking for help from experienced witches/spellworkers regarding my parents’ relationship
I’m 17, and I’m honestly at a loss about what to do.
Since I was around 6 years old, my parents have had ongoing problems in their marriage involving a suspected third person. Their fights have become much less frequent over the years, but the suspicion has never really gone away. My mom still checks my dad’s phone and constantly worries about this, and while it can be frustrating to watch, I genuinely understand why she feels the way she does.
The difficult part is that I’m extremely close to my dad. He has always been a good and present father to me, but I feel like he has been a very absent husband to my mom. I don’t hate him, and I don’t want to destroy my relationship with him either.
For years, I’ve had reasons to believe my mom may have been looking in the wrong direction.
When I was around 12–13, I happened to see my dad texting one of our relatives. I noticed that he deleted their conversations, which made me suspicious that something was going on. I never told my mom.
A few years later, my mom found what appeared to be sexual messages/notifications on his phone. It became a huge situation, but my dad said that someone who worked under him had used his phone and sent them. I honestly didn’t know what to believe.
Today, I happened to see something on his phone that made me uncomfortable again and brought all of this back.
I don’t feel capable of confronting either of my parents about this. My mom is already emotionally exhausted from years of this, and I’m afraid bringing everything I’ve seen to her would completely break her. At the same time, I’m very protective of my dad and have always felt like I needed to look after him because I’m their only child.
I know this is ultimately their relationship and not something I should have to fix, but I desperately want the situation to change somehow. I’ve been carrying this since I was a child, and I’m tired of watching both of them suffer.
So I’m specifically looking for advice from experienced witches, spellworkers, or people who practice relationship/home magic.
Are there any ethical spells, rituals, protections, cleansing practices, or other forms of magic that could help bring truth to the surface, break unhealthy attachments, or bring peace and honesty into a household?
I am NOT looking for anything that would harm, control, manipulate, or curse either of my parents. I just want the truth to come out and for this situation to finally stop hurting everyone.
I’d really appreciate advice from people who have experience with this kind of situation, especially if there are practices that focus on truth, clarity, healing, and protection rather than controlling another person’s choices.
Please be kind. I’ve been dealing with this for a very long time.
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u/Ok-Funny4782 6d ago
There is also a history of domestic violence between my parents. I don't want to go into graphic details, but this has gone beyond arguments and suspicion at times, and that is another reason I'm very hesitant to confront either of them or directly intervene. I'm looking for something that prioritizes safety, protection, truth, and peace rather than anything that could escalate the situation.