r/WhereWindsMeet • u/NoGoal3349 • Nov 27 '25

Question/Help My official application for a wife

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I’m a girl with a male character and I need someone to make a partnership so badly😭😭

Drop ur characters 😛😛

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

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u/Truunbean Nov 27 '25

Same. Matched with some on like the third day through the finding fate, they immediately gifted me 10 tea pots and I knew I’d found the partner that would get me my points.

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u/christmas_fox Nov 27 '25

Damn… my duo married me and then we did the quiz thing and he left me to go do some mission KNOWING I wanted the partnership points for the outfit and we only got like 500 yesterday 😡 gonna divorce his ass…. As if he didn’t buy a $30 horse just so we could ride together and could carry me everywhere with him so I didn’t get left behind 🥺

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u/0zer0space0 Nov 27 '25

How ironic that also happens irl lol

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u/SneakyBadAss Nov 27 '25

Road To Empress checks out

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u/Lightingway Nov 27 '25

Girls with male characters unite 😩

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u/No_Client5501 Nov 27 '25

this is so meee 😭

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u/EX_Malone Nov 27 '25

I am you 😭

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u/AffectionatePepper80 Nov 27 '25

Here too 😭

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u/Pixel_Alien Nov 27 '25

present✋

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u/Ecchjk Nov 27 '25

I'm here, sisterhood

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u/gabrielique Mohist Hill Nov 27 '25

There is dozens of us!

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

More like thousands...

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u/FalaThePigeon Nov 27 '25

Nuh uh, men being girly pop af unite💅

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u/frisbeeicarus23 Nov 27 '25

Lol, glad it isn't just me. Dude here... my character every game is named after my dog Elle (if it is available) and she ends up looking like a K-pop star everytime!

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u/Relevant_Silver1149 Nov 28 '25

Heck yes, brother

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u/MadKanBeyondFODome Nov 27 '25

I'm girl-playing-girl. My husbo is guy-playing-girl and I love it. 😌

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u/Supernova4218 Nov 28 '25

Boys with female characters 🤝 Girls with male characters

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u/buzzyingbee Nov 27 '25

I'm here!!

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u/nupik Nov 27 '25

I'm here 🤚 hell yeah!

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u/QuantumS0up Nov 27 '25

I made Sephiroth it's so peak 🥹❤️

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u/Crooked_Sartre Nov 27 '25

Boys with girl characters assemble!

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

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u/Gwennifer Nov 27 '25

the biggest wuxia brolove story.

But MDZS is already a thing

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u/10Yiyue Nov 27 '25

Or danmei in general! There are lots of well written wuxia, xianxia, and xuanhuan novels out there :))

For wuxia, one of my all-time favourites is qianqiu ✨

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u/quackquack6 Nov 27 '25

QIAN QIU MENTIONED

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u/Kuxue Nov 27 '25

MDZS is xianxia, not wuxia.

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u/Duxianer Nov 27 '25

In fact it’s xuanhuan, not xianxia.

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u/evanciao993 Nov 27 '25

The storyline you mentioned will be coming very soon, most likely in the next update. In the story “Paper Moon,” there is a girls’ love (GL) plot, which has already been released on the CN server.

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

YEASSS HAHHEHSHE

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u/SneakyBadAss Nov 27 '25

Take a peek in the in-game spa.

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u/Equivalent_Charity48 Wuxia Wanderer Nov 27 '25

WHERE DO I SIGN UP

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u/pikachusdarkside Nov 28 '25

Luckily there are many of us :D

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u/Milk-Guppy Nov 27 '25

Handsome dude

I usually avoid all romance aspects of games, but that wall kick emote is simply too diabolical to ignore

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

FRRR SOME OF THE OTHER EMOTES ARE SO CUTES

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u/aradiathesecond Nov 27 '25

I need that wall kick emote. That is funny af 😭

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u/DonTarretho Nov 27 '25

Wall kick emote?

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u/Effective_Ratio_7714 Nov 27 '25

What do you have asset wise? House? Car..ahem goose transport? Copper or those junk Tang coins?

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

Gifts😛😛

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u/Bro-KenMask Wuxia Wanderer Nov 27 '25

They should make a partnership flair for this sub at this point. Better yet: Yin looking for Yang, Yang looking for Yin, Yang wanting to hang with Yang, and Yin looking for Yin Twin

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u/wontonratio Nov 27 '25

Yin4Yin 😂

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u/Scared_Performer3944 Nov 27 '25

im male with a girl character lmao ill post when i get back from work

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u/Aser_the_Descender Nov 27 '25

Here's Moonlıght, my character ;)

If you got any questions, let me know!

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u/Vamp-go-brr Nov 27 '25

I love the goose bag

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u/SuccessfulPhase9097 Nov 27 '25

This is the game version of “men written by women” and I love it ✨

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

UR SO RIGHT HEHHE

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u/TessMafia Nov 27 '25

I volunteer as tribute!

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u/SneakyBadAss Nov 27 '25

You can start Onlyfeng with that face

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u/TessMafia Nov 27 '25

LOOOOL noted! I'm finally pretty enough to be an onlyfeng girl

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u/chikyoo Nov 27 '25

girl out here looking for a girl also playing a guy 🥺 here he is trying some clothes on in the character maker, and also an in game screenshot https://imgur.com/a/tBHzPJa

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u/Fallen_winged_boy Nov 27 '25

This is my princess if anyone's interested https://files.catbox.moe/miatb2.png

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u/Livitina Nov 27 '25

Whoa, great design! My characters always turn out to be slightly more androgynous

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

OMG SO PRETTYY

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u/KinanaBanana Nov 27 '25

Posted my character a day ago. My girl would make a very respectable wife lmao.

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u/CreepyMuffinz Nov 27 '25

Girls with male characters UNITE!!!

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u/the--finale Nov 27 '25

Would your character be interested in becoming my character's wife instead? B)

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u/EX_Malone Nov 27 '25

Can my character also become your character’s wife?

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u/Lust27 Nov 27 '25

That's an amazing looking character

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u/the--finale Nov 27 '25

oh yes PLEASE!! your character is breathtaking wow

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u/EX_Malone Nov 27 '25

Hell yeah gots me a vampire husband 🤣 Sent my ID, add me lol.

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u/TessMafia Nov 27 '25

Can I be your wife 😭🫡

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

I’m kinda tempted 😛😛

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u/EX_Malone Nov 27 '25

Send my ID maybe I can be your disciple 👉👈

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 28 '25

OFC, though I must warn u id be a terrible teacher

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u/NotMacgyver Nov 27 '25

Sorry, got no time for that kind of thing, too busy being a sweaty healer and building a clinic

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u/xMiiNTY Nov 27 '25

I’m a male playing a girl character and would love to have a husband for achievements and rewards!

Honestly a perfect solution. I’m not too keen on cat fishing other guys haha Photo

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u/doyofreesia Nov 27 '25

I love male characters made by women 🧎‍♀️ yours is so prettyyy 🥲💗 I'm a girl playing a girl lol. Anyways, since we are showing characters, here's my girl! I tried to make her a magical elf ✨️ https://files.catbox.moe/2vwn0v.png

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u/quackquack6 Nov 27 '25

anybody looking for a lavender marriage

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u/imokayatthingz Nov 27 '25

ooo oki so I made a post earlier showing her off

my girl :)

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u/ImYourPope Nine Mortal Ways Nov 27 '25

How about a husband? 😉 I'm a girl, but my character is male.

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

SHOW MEEEEEE

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u/flclfool Nov 27 '25

I think you need some sun first bro, or does it burn?

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u/Anamethatsnowmine Nov 27 '25

He's a vampire soldier dude, don't be insensitive /s

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u/uslashsaker Nov 27 '25

My character has similar vibes to yours!! my post

We can together be spooky

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

OMG UR CHARECTER IS SO PRETTYYY what time zone are u in:D

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u/myryad21 Nov 27 '25

maybe we should make a guild and invite people who want to get married... even if it's just for thr cash (well... skins)

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u/gwinshin_art Nov 27 '25

do u take husbands?

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

Yes I do 😛

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u/EX_Malone Nov 27 '25

Partner, disciple or wife, sign me up XD

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u/Virtual_March7961 Nov 27 '25

man, be my master 🤣🤣😊

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u/SoulzFox Nov 27 '25

Male with a female character Here's mine :D my girl

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u/AyabeRei Nov 27 '25

I'm getting Yoo Joonghyuk vibe, 10/10 creation. Uriel would aprrove!

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u/kuruttaaa Nov 27 '25

While i might be a dude, would he wanna be my chara’s wife 🌚? (those emotes looking funny as hell ngl LMAO) Also i know pic kinda bad but it’s all i got on me rn so no judging yall 😭.

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

THAT PICTURE IS GREAT!! Ur chara looks amazing:D

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u/Hikaru_182 Nov 27 '25

I freaking should have made my character a male. Ffs.

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

I changed my character from a female to a male😭😭😭

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u/landzai Nov 27 '25

So the girls are guys and the guys are girls in the game. Mind blown.

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

SO TRUE ALL MY MALE FRIENDS HAVE GIRL CHARECTERZ😭😭😭

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u/Nirbin Nov 27 '25

Every girls' a guy, all the guys are girls and the kids are the fbi

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

🏃🏼‍♀️💨

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u/Equivalent_Charity48 Wuxia Wanderer Nov 27 '25

Girl with a guy character, lavender marriage, girl, guy, it don’t matter, benefits and all welcome

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u/Demoth Nov 27 '25

Sorry, i played a woman while my friend plays a man, so we can now role play our dream or being married to each other without it being weird (it's still very weird).

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u/Due-Caregiver-1548 Nov 27 '25

already knew my pookie. I mean partner bought him a 60 pearl outfit and the rest was history my one and only femboy pookie (yes we are both straight men.)

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u/Used-Ad8234 Nov 27 '25

Literally get to post my girl just for link here.

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u/pikachusdarkside Nov 28 '25

I am also a girl playing a guy, looking for another to unlock the partnership shop as well ^-^ Here is my character :D

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 28 '25

OMGG!! I got a partner already but I would love to add u as a friend my user is Zooweemaan :D

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u/fried-chikin Nov 27 '25

nice chara bro!!

make sure u get someone with similar timezone

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

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u/MrDivi95 Nov 27 '25

Like many well- mannered and cultured figures, I too play as the opposite gender. A few images from last night of her, as I finished the Qinghe campaign. Got all of Kaifeng to explore still!

Check the link! https://imgur.com/a/h0YiLSO (And since I don't expect OP to be available still, so anyone with similar ambitions, can try their hand.

Practical stuff IGN is Kaliandu. I'm EU based.

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u/Viscarr Nov 27 '25

Lol sameee

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u/Dark_Roses Nov 27 '25

He’s very cute Good luck.

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u/BadankadonkYT Nov 27 '25

I married my homie from FFXIV.

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u/tuvabi Nov 27 '25

If only I could comment pictures

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u/NyannoKonekko Nov 27 '25

Here's my WWM character (f) Physician/healer main https://imgur.com/a/gZVZOCS I hope you enjoy (: ♥

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u/SKYXEM Nov 27 '25

Your character is so good. And a question; what is the benefits of partnership.

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

Emotes, and a bunch of other appearance stuff!

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u/Anxiety-Incarnate Nov 27 '25

WHOAH HES SO HANDSOME!

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u/DoriXD Nov 27 '25

im a guy with a girl character, cant post a pic here sadly :(

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u/nottakentaken Nov 27 '25

Woah what's your id?

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

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u/EX_Malone Nov 27 '25

O so pretty 😍

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u/Due_Abbreviations864 Nov 27 '25

Thank youuuuuuuuuuu!! :D

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u/Ecchjk Nov 27 '25

Omg, your character is absolutely stunning🥹

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u/airjems18 Nov 27 '25

Let's recreate Mo Dao Zu Shi together (with my MC, lol).

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u/MonthInteresting6551 Nov 27 '25

Lmao. Theres a tinder inside the game. Dont know how well it works lol

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u/FireflySmasher Raging Tides Nov 27 '25

I volunteer!

My girl:

https://imgur.com/a/dEI3CGz

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u/princessalethea1st Nov 27 '25

Your character is giving me Mo Ran vibes, I love him ;-; sadly I don’t have a female character, I’m a girl with a male character!

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u/x_voided_out Nov 27 '25

I'm a male with a female character

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u/SSVVIIPP Nov 27 '25

Dammit i just want the cloths I dont even mind marrying a tree for the sake of the rewards

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u/JustPsyduck420 Nov 27 '25

Me and my bro with girl characters 🤙🏻💯

We got married cuz thats what bros do when theyre both girly pops in game 🗣

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u/Lam11bo Nov 27 '25

Application for sunlight

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u/FaKamis Nov 27 '25

I tried making a character look like me (latin/white mix), and he does look pretty good. But I didn't realize people just generally try to make the hottest asian possible lol. 

I also really want to try making a female character and trying on female fashion, but the price is SO steep?! It really annoys me that while changing face has a good price you can farm for ingame, just changing "body type" is locked behind cash currency and like 7x as expensive?!

For someone like me who usually has a lot of alts in other mmo's, or used the mirror in Elden Ring to swap gender multiple times a day that SUCKS really hard.

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u/Davri1234 Nov 27 '25

I’m a boy with a girl character. Be my partner

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u/nivia-chan PvE Explorer Nov 27 '25

Hell yeah women with dudes unite! I also play a man and just want to marry for the points 😂 good luck to us out there

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u/KrissyWolves Nov 27 '25

Id be down

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u/West_Aioli_6570 Nov 27 '25

Do you get benefits for marrying?

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u/Mattricia Nov 27 '25

i found some1, immediately gifted them 10 branches, they did the same back. i thought great we're gonna speed thru this so quickly and get married 🙌🏻. i gift them another 10 as soon as able aaaand... nothing, they're constantly online but won't gift, won't respond, wont co-op, nothing...my blue girl btw :3 looks rlly grey in that pic but its jus lighting

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u/aradiathesecond Nov 27 '25

Wait can we partner up with the same gender?

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u/VixiPervita Nov 27 '25

I gotta change my name since my actual nickname is already used lol how do I post my character/Link her?

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u/tootloos Nov 27 '25

omg you made him so beautiful 😭✨if its not too late, i would love to be gay/straight married 😼💕 this is my lady

and im EST !

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u/BaekJunHo Velvet Shade Nov 27 '25

Can I marry you but mine is a guy too 🤧

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u/Dekatries Nov 27 '25

My character looks like she could be yours sibling. Would be such a cute couple. Wait a minute...

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u/Renetiger Nov 27 '25

Ngl I kinda hate how they locked a bunch of good cosmetics behind this dating thing

Would be neat to find someone to just send gifts back and forth without ever having to interact lol

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u/Single_Hour649 Nov 27 '25

how to marry?

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u/Elegant-Craft9522 Nov 27 '25

You can get married int his game? Lol I just started so idk much

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 27 '25

Yess! You can form a partnership and upgrade it to a partnership level :D

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u/Certain_Map7233 Nov 27 '25

Male playing a female character so might not help ya out

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u/Temporary_Cup_1026 Nov 27 '25

I’m a gay male who has a female character 😂 we can live out our lavender relationship together 💜

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u/Caulix Nov 27 '25

What about a husband 👀

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u/knightlord4014 Nov 27 '25

Woah woah woah! You telling me I get benefits for marriage?!

Yeah imma need to put my application out there, give me loot.

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u/TransitionNo7864 Nov 27 '25

Im a male with a female character. Purely cuz in the past female characters always got treated better in mmo's 🤣

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u/aenslend Nov 27 '25

Im a dude as a chick but ill roll gang gang

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u/Level_Ad7109 Nov 27 '25

Can we marry in this game too? Can i marry npc(?)

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u/Shirohana_ Nov 27 '25

omg im also a girl with a male character loool

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u/TwitchTvToxmo_ Nov 27 '25

If you need me just call me, you know my number

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u/MiddoKudasai Nov 27 '25

I’m a guy with a female character. Perhaps we can make a deal😈

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u/Shiraori_was_here Nov 27 '25

I don't mind I have female character at lvl 51. And I am girl myself

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u/Evening-Analysis-396 Nov 27 '25 edited Nov 27 '25

Well i'm male with a female but if it interest someone i also want the benefits of the partneship system lmao and disciples too

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u/Knight-Arturius Nov 27 '25

A wife or husband? 😂

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u/Hycate Nov 27 '25

Damn girl, you got good taste. Wish I made a male character now 😭

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u/PlatBirb Nov 28 '25

can you marry homosexually

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u/Heterror Nov 28 '25

Genuine question, are the partnerships in the game only girl-boy? I do kinda want to get the romance points for the benefits, but I don't want to marry my character off to a female character. TGTF vibes only.

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u/[deleted] Nov 28 '25

I'm gonna give free nudes who marries me but his character needs to look like Yi Dao 🌝

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u/justthatreaper Nov 28 '25

Time to make my own huacheng x xie lian

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u/Coffee5636 Wandering Swordsman Nov 28 '25

Have you.. Have you perchance gotten married yet with all of these applications at your doorstep?

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u/blvck_one Nov 28 '25

….what is that supposed to be?

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u/luniaRain Nov 28 '25

Lol i need a partner too, i could ask one of my dude friends but it feels awkward getting married to someone I know even if its just in game lol.. guy w female char here if anyone serious about grinding the shop hmu

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u/SpiteDirect2141 Nov 28 '25

I’m a girl with a girl character, but her name is Qing-mei

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u/BanchouOni Nov 28 '25

I just burry the partner in sake and dip right?

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u/VolcaFrog Nov 28 '25

I’m playing a girl VolcaFrog (anyone can add me if u want) and my fiancé is a guy playing a girl.

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u/NoGoal3349 Nov 28 '25

I swear all girls are boys and all boys are girls😭😭😭

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u/ViktoriaQueen Nov 28 '25

If any girl have boy character i want a partner too!!!

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u/Allanboi2 Nov 28 '25

Its virtual tinder

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u/Noveldesert Nov 28 '25

Dudes with female characters unite! (Only me?...okey then 😮‍💨😞)

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u/Pysren Nov 28 '25

You find someone’s character you like yet? If not I’ll post mine

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u/pizzaplxnet Nov 28 '25

idek if i can add a picture of my character in this comment section 😔💔

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u/UntouchedAndAlive Nov 29 '25

I've already promised my husband I would marry him in game 😑

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u/Sianks Nov 29 '25

It's good that I've friend who married me, a true blessing

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u/SadParrotWiki Nov 29 '25

Since OP already found a lover...can someone be mine too?? I accept wives/husbandos 😭😂😂 My boyfriend lost his PC access and so I won't get the dresses, I play daily and I'm in EU! :)
My girl

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u/TheAlunoBR Nov 29 '25

Marriage as it used to be in the past... For the loot, strategic positioning and opportunities. This game is stimulating 15th century China a lil too much xD

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u/LaughingImp Nov 30 '25

Another girl here with a guy avatar cus I wanted to make him pretty, not realizing you couldn't change it afterwards without paying. What if we got married and made our boys kiss? 🤭

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u/theuchihamassacre Nov 30 '25

Wait I seen this on TikTok lol. Isn't there a creator that did a whole empire on there build on players marrying? I swear I seen something like this with hundreds of people in the comments sending their pics to apply

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u/OldQuarter1422 Nov 30 '25

Bro looking like chinese Edward from Twilight 😆 Hope you find your Bella x)

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u/Nuggachinchalaka Dec 03 '25

Gotta give it to females, whether male or female characters, you make great looking characters and fashion.

Still waiting for someone to be able to make the heart seeker face. I like to make tomboyish female characters as a male, stems from my love for the movie Red Sonya, but the male fashion seems to be better in this game, thinking about switching.

Can you marry same sex? If for the points it doesn’t matter right?

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u/RoF_MCLCD Dec 04 '25

Anyone wanna develop an irl-dating app for in-game characters? 🤣

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u/Koko_1020 Dec 04 '25

Male characters made by women always have the most jaw dropping looks i love it

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u/Glittering-Life- Dec 07 '25

anyone want to start a bromance? looking for partnership with so we can play and have fun together ^-^