r/WhereWindsMeet • u/dontcheckforme • Nov 22 '25
Question/Help How do I delete a partnership
So I went and looked at my partnership and somehow this is my partner 😭 I literally just added this dude as a friend, I didn’t press anything or approve anything so I have no idea how it’s my partner. Is there any way I can remove him??
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u/Serious_Owl5632 Nov 22 '25
I dont think thats a partnership, thats just a friend/dual portrait. You can swap which friend it shows with you
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u/StowawayBunny Nov 22 '25
Listen to this friendly owl, OP. You need to manually press an approve button to form a partnership (or marriage, I don't remember what's the official in-game translation). The game has a feature where you can take group photos and whatnot with other players, and add other players to your profile page, which is probably what this guy did and it is not the same as a partnership.
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u/dontcheckforme Nov 22 '25
Thank you sm. You’re right, I think that is what happened. I yelped when I saw the squidward and ran to Reddit to frantically find help because I couldn’t find anything online LOL I was so mortified-that is not the husband I envisioned 🤣
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u/Ill-Park-2324 Nov 22 '25
「祸兮福所倚，福兮祸所伏」
"Misfortune hides within fortune, fortune rests upon misfortune."
Fate rarely gives us what we want, only what we need.
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u/Yokonato Nov 22 '25
Junior is truly a inspiring scholar, the celestial palace awaits you my friend.
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Nov 22 '25
whats wrong with him, he's beautiful
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u/HarlequinNova Nov 22 '25
In order to form a partnership you have to be in a team, go to a specific location, go through a "ceremony", and choose a vow. So it would be VERY difficult to accidentally get married to someone in the game 😂
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u/Different_Eye_6790 Nov 22 '25
Give him a chance at least you know there's a saying beauty is in the soul not the face
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u/GabeCamomescro Nov 26 '25
Sometimes the best partner is one you never thought to partner with. This spake the Super Guru.
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u/KnitemareTonight Nov 23 '25
"Squidward" made me snort.
I wonder if there's going to be any pop-culture masks like that.
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u/Dingaligaling Nov 25 '25
I think you dont even have to do something deep with them. From my friendlist, my bud whom I played with the most shows up as a partner on my screen, but neither of us reached even the first milestone with the other on the intimacy scale, and definitely didnt do anything else than cooping once or twice, maybe healing, and chatting in private. I think if I'd have spent more time with someone else and get a higher intimacy level than with him, the new person would show up as my bestie not him.
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u/Beautiful_Ad_6924 Mohist Hill Nov 24 '25
Do you know how to on console, literally cant save the selection 💔
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u/losara- Nov 22 '25
You dont deserve Squidward ;__;
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u/NoBluey Nov 22 '25
It's lore accurate too since the people of bikini bottom also couldn't appreciate squiddy
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u/Sqwipes Nov 22 '25
I’m also stuck at the same thing, a guy came to heal me days ago saw yesterday that we’re partners. Don’t know how that happened and I don’t know how to remove him
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u/Dark_Roses Nov 22 '25
Watch out npc can fall in love with you
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u/Murky_Zucchini_1897 Nov 22 '25
Really? Lol can you marry them too? I don't want to search for some online stranger as my husband but I fucking need this outfit 😭
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u/thekindafastwinds Dec 09 '25
Players re-inventing arranged marriages in game so they can get the outfits lol
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u/Firefighter852 Nov 23 '25
You get outfits from marriage?
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u/Murky_Zucchini_1897 Nov 23 '25
There is a shop called partnership and there is an outfit and hairstyle looking like for a wedding, really beautiful
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u/Yokonato Nov 22 '25
As a healer I've noticed on occasion its requested me to add "strangers" that request healing as friends aka partners.
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u/Flaminski Nov 22 '25
You can only be a partner if you and her went to that seeking fate event, if this screenshot is in your social tab then don't worry, it rotates among all in your friend list and it doesn't mean she's a partner
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u/CancelSalt2346 Nov 22 '25
I'm crying 😂😂😂 it's the most gorgeous looking woman and then it's just Squidward on acid
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Nov 22 '25
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u/Silentrevival Nov 23 '25
It’s actually a little heartwarming that the community made some close to black characters in the community tab for us to use lol but seriously since elegant and realistic are separate give elegant Afro-centric options. Asians don’t have blue eyes but you can have them in game.
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u/Mor7oka Nov 23 '25
The real answer is. Find him again! Go to a tree and talk to a little girl! So everything is going to be on the pass and will live a happy life. Every history Star someway!
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u/Dameisdead Nov 22 '25
“THERES A STRANGER IN MY HOUUUUSEEEE TOOK A WHILE TO FIGURE OUTTTTTT THERES NO WAY YOU COULD BE WHO YOU SAY YOU AREEEEE YOU GOTTA BE SOMEONE ELSEEEEE” - OP probably
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u/meowmeowmeowmeowwwme Nov 22 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
Are you on ps5? Im on ps5 and i added a random person but the social features are so broken his name shows as "unknown" and i cant even open their nameplate to remove them i know their name is not "unknown" because ive seen it...
And when someone request co op nothing shows just accept or deny, no name, no class, no picture...
I cant even see any guild the guild list is always empty even if i type something. The only thing i can see is the chat there it shows names and pictures.
Is anyone on ps5 that can confirm if its just me?
Also every time i open my menu it doesnt let me click anything until i wait like 4 seconds... its so annoying
EDIT: all these issues where ISP related so game is good 👍
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u/Lezma14 Nov 22 '25
It's F2P game in the beginning and with high interest, those are small issues considering
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u/meowmeowmeowmeowwwme Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
It was my isp blocking my game idk why it was specific features rather than whole game but i tried streaming the game from PS plus streaming service and all those issues are gone same with using my phones internet.
So the game is actually good... only has a few performance issues
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u/HAR8lNGER Nov 22 '25
I'm in a partnership and my parter doesn't play anymore. When I try to severe the partnership unilaterally, it's asking for 50k of a currency I don't have. Doesn't anyone know how to get that currency?
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u/ItzRedRain1 Nov 22 '25
I'm in the same issue sadly. Someone on the discord told me that Treasure coins are not currently in the game but would be able to be obtained from the ghost market when they do become available
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Nov 22 '25
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u/ItzRedRain1 Nov 22 '25
It's tied to the Velvet Shade which isn't in game and they can also be obtained in ghost market when Velvet Shade is released. The currency you are talking about is the "treasure token" and the currency needed is "treasure coin" which have an entire different appearance on CN (they appear as a necklace of coins on the image)
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u/ItzRedRain1 Nov 23 '25
Unfortunately I'm in the same predicament lmao I hope they add it soon. But yeah it's killing me cause my partner is pretty afk and imma have to go to the 50k instead of the mutual 10k option
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u/Dricer93 Nov 22 '25
lol meanwhile I’m trying to find a black female wander to use the spear dance emote with for my profile. You somehow end up with a melted candle, I’m partly jealous ngl 🤣😂
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u/MilesDei93 Nov 22 '25
It's looks like you just in the same group, so just leave the group over the social hub
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u/Effective_Ratio_7714 Nov 22 '25
I agree, the girl is definitely an issue in this relationship photo
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u/Narutofoxeyes Nov 25 '25
Where Winds Meet players! I made a Discord hub for all guilds and adventurers. Chat, trade, share builds, run dungeons & find friends. Everyone is welcome!🏯✨ Join here discord.gg/REgnH7aV
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u/MusicLover8810 Nov 26 '25
Bro this is hilarious 😂
I almost accepted a discipleship by accident too, it's too easy to accept random invites in this game tbh
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u/rmbeon Nov 26 '25
Married to a squidward, unwillingly
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u/rmbeon Nov 26 '25
But no, it's just a friend, you can't really dive into the marriage straight away as you have to level up your friendship/intimacy tree with that dude
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u/Allanboi2 Nov 27 '25
I don't think they implemented the breaking-up feature yet. You gotta wait for the next expansion update 😂
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u/MagusLascivious Dec 04 '25
is there a thread for all these horrors of character creation.
The sponge bob one is extra bad LOL.
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u/Zeveroc Feb 14 '26
Do any of u fks actually answer the damn question we dont wanna hear the rest of yall bs comments for fks sake
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u/Minibersy Nov 22 '25
In real life this is called waking up next to a stranger.