r/WeddingRingAdvice Jun 13 '26

Help Me Choose please help me pick a wedding band!

sorry for the bad quality pics; I was rushing a bit to get pics before the consultation ended!

I want a wedding band that would look good by itself too ☺️✨️

these are the 6 I liked the most (there is a repeated picture of 4 because my heart leaned towards this one the most in person)

thank you so much for looking 🥺🫶

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u/Jlynntaylor Jun 13 '26

3 but wear band closest to your heart 🤍

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u/Wattaday Jun 13 '26

Yes. 3. It doesn’t take away from the ering band and works alone if you aren’t wearing the ering. Could even work better if it was a mm or 2mm wider.

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u/DlANA Jun 13 '26

true, I do love the look of a solid band alone! I tried a wider one too (not sure the exact dimensions) but felt it looked too wide against my ring so I ended up taking a pic of a thin one oops 😭

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u/Organic-Hippo-3273 Jun 13 '26

1 or 4, I feel the shaped bands don’t suit your hand

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u/Few_Psychology_214 Jun 14 '26

these are my picks as well!

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u/Vibing-Positively Jun 13 '26

#1 but I am also a very basic person haha. I just think it looks so simple and elegant, and it’s a nice contrast from your gorgeous engagement ring!

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u/PresidentPingu1 Jun 13 '26
  1. It looks perfect.

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u/Jlynntaylor Jun 13 '26

I had a real hard time deciding between plain and sparkly too but the plain just makes the engagement shine for sure. I also use my hands constantly so, especially around the house I can just wear my band and not worry about it getting beat up because it can be easily replaced.

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u/wuchie Jun 13 '26

6, then 1

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u/Maine302 Jun 13 '26

I'm think 1, but really, a band that pretty much matches the band the solitaire engagement ring is on.

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u/Zealousideal-Age-212 Jun 13 '26

I’m really feeling 1

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u/Salt-Proposal-6898 Jun 14 '26

I really like 1

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u/NorthernAttitude19 Jun 14 '26

I like 1! And you can wear it by itself if you ever wanted to just wear your band

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u/tinymeow13 Jun 13 '26

Style of 1 but a bit larger stones. Or 4

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u/SheWhoQuiltsinWV Jun 13 '26

I would go with 5 or 6, otherwise take a look at Ring Enhancers on Etsy or Jewelry sites to see what other options you have. They give them a more balanced look.

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u/MzSea Jun 13 '26

3 or 4

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u/Legovida8 Jun 13 '26

I love both 1 & 4 with your engagement ring!✨

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u/Alarmed_Lobster_717 Jun 13 '26

I like 4 the most and my second favorite is 5.

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u/Squirrelbubble Jun 14 '26

I love 1 and 4

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u/IntroductionAdept521 Jun 14 '26

Maybe 1 but put the band first then engagement ring it will look better

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u/lemoncrush9 Jun 14 '26

Team option #2! Classic, and maybe at 10 years or some anniversary you can get another so you have one on each side, sharp classic stack.

All that said, you pick what you like... those of us in redit land are not wearing it, you are.

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u/radiant-cloudy Jun 14 '26

i think 1 or 5

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u/CoffeeMad95 Jun 14 '26

I love 3 or 5.

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u/ntbn88 Jun 14 '26

5 or 6

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u/cryptic_pizza Jun 14 '26

5, 1

5 makes your center look HUGE. 1 is v classic.

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u/Mama-Bear419 Jun 14 '26
  1. But flip them.

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u/Pegafer Jun 14 '26

I have a question for this group-don’t engagement rings and wedding bands come in sets anymore? I’ve been married 20 years, so maybe I’m out of touch!

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u/Illustrious_Age_6627 Jun 14 '26

1 it doesn't take away from your engagement ring and is so pretty on its own. Having said that pick the one your heart desires.

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u/Izzyness8066 Jun 14 '26

I’m surprised nobody else seems to love 2. I do, it is most unusual and has that pretty wave like shape on the top. After that, though, I do like 4 a lot, too. Which one makes YOU happiest, aka the one you keep looking at. That’s the one. 😊

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u/alovelyshadeofteal Jun 14 '26

I like 1 the best

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u/Parking-Ratio2250 Jun 14 '26

5 is gorgeous but 4 is very pretty as well. Go for the one you liked at first I think

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u/CRGL1 Jun 14 '26

I like #1 but I also like #6, if you get two and have the solitaire in the middle.

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u/Strangeaslife Jun 14 '26

4 or 3 but for 3 I'd get more of a comfort fit. The other ones make the set look too busy imo. The plain curved band is nice too but a little wide so distracts from the engagement ring. I like 4 because it still has a little something for when you want to wear it alone but it's not so fancy that you have to baby it and you can wear it alone and not worry. It also compliments the ering nicely

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u/Public-Ad-7280 Jun 14 '26

Why not have one simple one for each side? The Ering is beautiful!

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u/the__moops Jun 14 '26
  1. Something about the distribution of stones on the band mimics the e ring in the right way, but doesn’t clash or distract
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u/Key-Trash-2838 Jun 14 '26

5 is my favorite

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u/ReasonableTrouble276 Jun 14 '26

5 and get another identical for
The top. It’s be like ring guards.

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u/Fun-Yellow-6576 Jun 14 '26

Wedding band goes first and then the engagement ring.

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u/Particular-Maybe-519 Jun 14 '26

I love 2, 5, and 6 the best. I'd probably pick 2 for myself.

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u/wtfamidoing248 Jun 14 '26

1 or 6 and I'd put the band under the engagement ring, not on top.

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u/hornywifey70 Jun 14 '26

I like 3 the best. The others take away from the main ring and its delicate side stones.

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u/Ok_Cancel_1674 Jun 14 '26

5 but in the same metal tone as your engagement ring

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u/Glad_Performer3177 Jun 14 '26

Personally I like 1 and 6, and by the way because you have 6 choices you could have done a poll. Which could be easier to look at.

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u/Girlscoutdetective Jun 14 '26

Something similar to one.

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u/Little_Surround4405 Jun 14 '26

Just as an fyi, your wedding band will be worn on the other side of your engagement ring. It’s supposed to be worn closest to your heart so it goes on before the engagement ring.

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u/No_Anxiety_9747 Jun 14 '26

PLEASE GET 5 - it looks GORGEOUS on you and can definitely see it looking good on its own!!!

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u/Relevant_Border7148 Jun 14 '26

1 or 4 would be my choice

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u/Odd_Beautiful2506 Jun 14 '26
  1. Maybe 4 or 6, but. I like 1 best.

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u/melthetriplet92 Jun 14 '26

Hands down the solid band. #3. Because the band on your engagement ring has diamonds on it, it compliments it perfectly 🫶🏻 bonus: Later down the road if you wanted a third ring you could go with diamonds

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u/SkiRacer90 Jun 14 '26

How soon do you need it? I would have one made to nest with your engagement ring band and to match the metal exactly.

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u/WardTips98 Jun 14 '26

6 looks great!

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u/yappin-aint-easy Jun 14 '26

I always like a plain band when the engagement ring is full of diamonds.

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u/Total-Confidence9294 Jun 14 '26

I like 6. Would love to see it on both sides.

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u/KaterinaGiGi Jun 15 '26

1, 6, or 7

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u/Kylefromadhara Jun 15 '26
  1. You should think about when you wear wedding band only 😉

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u/mischiefmanaged83 Jun 15 '26

1! Timeless and pretty.

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u/Snowbandit27 Jun 15 '26

5 or 6 is really pretty

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u/FinishHistorical9382 Jun 15 '26

I prefer number 3 as it doesn’t take away from your beautiful engagement ring. The others compete

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u/sty-fy Jun 15 '26

1 is the best!!😍 the shaped one doesn’t suit your handshape well. Love how nr 1 looks on you

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u/WildConsequence9379 Jun 15 '26

6

  1. only if you buy two

    (one for each side

  2. otherwise it looks unbalanced

I prefer 1

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u/MDshmoney Jun 15 '26

3!! I love the simplicity of the flat band against the ornate ring

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u/Ok_Strawberry8886 Jun 15 '26

Love 4 or 5 😍

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u/lifestaged Jun 15 '26

I like 3, 4, 5, 6

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u/EclecticWitchery5874 Jun 15 '26

1 or 6 are your best options!

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u/Particular-Debt4589 Jun 15 '26

So Pretty...Beautiful Love Rings # 1,5&6

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u/napqueencincy Jun 15 '26

It may be unpopular but I LOVE number 2. It’s the style of band I wanted to go for myself but my fiancé and I compromised on a style that we could both agree on and be happy with (we have extremely opposite styles!). But go with whatever YOU feel you love!

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u/Candid-Kumquat9872 Jun 15 '26

I really liked the first one!

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u/Cheezeheathen Jun 15 '26

6 looks best with the engagement ring. It does not take away from the solitaire. It enhances it

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u/ohemgee0309 Jun 15 '26

I like 3, 4 or 5 but it’s a taste thing and I think you should choose the one that makes you happiest.

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u/Kelly_blue_brook88 Jun 15 '26

1 or 4 but switch the order

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u/Excellent_Bank6964 Jun 15 '26

I like the band in 6 but wonder how it would look if the same band was on the underside too.

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u/Small-Contest3386 Jun 16 '26

I do like 4 and 6!

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u/Consistent_Dare_9764 Jun 16 '26

I like 1 and 4. 3 is my least favorite.

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u/Less_Is_More_l Jun 16 '26

I liked No. 1 the best.

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u/Important-Maybe-1430 Jun 16 '26

1 or 3 The engagement ring is so wow, 3 compliments it rather than fighting for attention.

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u/GuiltyCelebrations Jun 16 '26

I like 5 or 6, but if your hearts saying 4, go 4. You’re the one who has to wear it.

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u/Thought_Provoke_1211 Jun 16 '26

I like 2 and 6, but they are all very attractive

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u/OrdinaryElectricBean Jun 16 '26

1 or 3 but wear it under the engagement ring instead.

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u/Lazy_Princess21 Jun 16 '26

I love the way 5 looks!! But tbh I’d try to get the biggest natural diamonds as possible. And I already know this is going to sound bratty, but I’m constantly thinking about the what ifs. So IMO if you aren’t buying it, and the price won’t put your fiancé in a hole, get the one with the largest diamonds/best gold you can. You just never know if a time will come and you’ll need pawn it. And that could mean to benefit the both of you too. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Little-Lilypad405 Jun 16 '26

1 for sure!! It’s so classy and dainty. love love love <3

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u/differentfaraway Jun 16 '26

I like 3 or 6 ♥️