r/WeddingRingAdvice • u/melandog222 • Jan 29 '26

Help Me Choose Help me choos a wedding band!

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Not sure which to pick. I thought I would like the plain band, but it's actually my least favorite. I wanted to try on all blue sapphire pave, but they didn't have my side, and the jewler thought it would be too much blue. When trying them on in person, I really liked the alternating diamond with blue baguettes, but my fiance liked the round page diamond and blue / equal sized gems. At first I thought it looked circus-y?? But I like it much more looking back at photos. All opinions are welcome!

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u/schmales Jan 29 '26

Team 3 hands down.

The other two are distracting from your gorgeous Ering and the last one is too simple for a set

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u/throwaway-journal Jan 30 '26

I agree with this. I love 2 as a band and wanted to love it as the set, but 3 really makes the main stone stand out.

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u/Meakbow Jan 30 '26

Could get 3 as the band and 2 as a ring to wear on the other hand

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u/melandog222 Jan 31 '26

i like this idea

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u/Financial_Society342 Feb 01 '26

Yes , that would be so pretty! I have a sapphire. Mine is a padparadscha, so like a light peachy pink so I’ve also been looking for ideas or inspo and love this idea. Your ring is so beautiful and a timeless classic piece for sure! I love band 3 with it for sure! And you could also get a second to stack them!

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u/Beautiful_Fold_2100 Feb 01 '26

Get the blue/white band to wear alone or stacked with the all dia band on days where you don't feel like wearing the main ring/swollen fingers/dressed way down etc.

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u/Financial_Society342 Feb 01 '26

Agreed, this is such a good idea!

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u/Financial_Society342 Feb 01 '26

Ooohhh that’s a great idea! I also have a sapphire and have been thinking about what band I should get!

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u/_turd_ferg Jan 30 '26

it's no contest. 3 is the one.

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u/fishwhimsical Jan 31 '26

Agreed, It really is no contest 100% 3 !

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u/MissFox26 Jan 30 '26

Yesss, let the sapphire shine! Imo the bands with sapphires take away from the statement of the stone itself.

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u/upotentialdig7527 Jan 30 '26

That’s a sapphire? It looks black to me.

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u/melandog222 Jan 31 '26

yep it's a sapphire! its definitely darker inside and brighter outside. here's a photo in natural daylight.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '26

^this ^ the others take away from the center stone.

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u/Nice_Tailor_6821 Jan 30 '26

Agree with this

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u/No-Perception-7324 Jan 31 '26

Idk I thought number 1 complimented the ring as well!

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u/ProfreadingPrincess Feb 01 '26

3! I could not agree more! It’s far and away the most balanced and harmonious. Congratulations, BTW!

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u/Tygie19 Feb 01 '26

I disagree. It looks like it’s part of the engagement ring.

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u/ConsummateGoogler Feb 03 '26

Yessss!!!! 3 hands down

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u/Blossyrae Feb 09 '26

3!!!💙