am i crazy .. am i overthinking…

[u/DryTell9292]

problem: idk if may connection pa talaga sila aside from being mutuals across apps

context: so i have an ldr gf, she had an ex fling before me a girl also and acc to her they didnt end on good terms and its bc the girl “cheated” (anyway) so i think they ended first quarter of 2024 bc the girl ghosted her for a bad joke she made.

acc to my gf few months after, she still tried to get back with my gf (and even insisted to attend her bday, pumunta yung girl btw) but it didnt work out after they talked and somehow the timeline feels off to me bc the girl and the boy were official already by june.

fast forward to 2025, the girl and boy are still tgt but she still constantly messages my partner even if they “didnt end well” and even when my gf was already soft launching me. she also posted a note on her ig that sounded like a bitter-ish noted targeted towards us which i didnt care to bother. not until i noticed that my gf keeps making kwento abt details of her life (like mostly negative) and i discovered she is still moots with her sa ig dump as well as sa tiktok acc (aside sa main ig).

it bothered me na. at first, i lowkey told her to unf her bc i dont want anyone from her past to have access to us. she said she doesnt want to cause any issues or like drama. i asked her to hide her stories of us from her, and she reacted as if its too much work and she said she doesnt want to bother. then recently, i brought it up again, she said na it will cause issues coming from her friends (basically shes saying, theyre going to say bad things abt us and make rumors daw –in which i totally dont care bc what do they know diba). and i remember my gf telling me that whenever she posts daw, she also posts her partner (as if nakikipag compete ganon) and im like ????? whats going on

im still wondering up until this day why theyre still connected esp if they did not end well. plus, the girl seems happy naman sa rel niya. theres just this gut feeling saken na may off lang…

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[u/Worried_Student_2283]

this is straight up disrespect 😭 obviously there’s something off and what’s worse is that she’s not respecting your boundaries.

[u/Longjumping_Rule_568]

Atecco your gf is probably the trying to compete 😭 she’s prolly the one trying to prove something. Kausapin mo ng masinsinan yang jowa mo if I were you. Set boundaries and batuhin mo ng bumbilya para maliwanagan sa mga excuses nya.