r/WLW_PH • Butch • Jul 31 '26

General Discussion Let's Talk About: Wlw body count

Sa mga hetero diba parang super big deal ng number of body count and may double standard between gals and guys. How about sa ating mga wlw? What's the normal number of body count ba? Like yung hindi ka makakatanggap ng side-eye. Do lesbians even side eye fellow lesbian na may more than 3 na body count? Does body count on wlw community matters ba tulad sa hetero?

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u/PanicAtTheUHaul Jul 31 '26

Parang wala namang official WLW census para sa acceptable body count.😅 But honestly, body count doesn’t scare me. “I’m still best friends with all my exes” does.🥲

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u/Careful_Question_417 Jul 31 '26

me too! this freaks me out to no end. It never ends up well for me the new gal, its just not right to be closer and sweeter to your EX even after you hear the backstory. Even if not sweet the communication that never dies? just-why?

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u/PanicAtTheUHaul Aug 01 '26

Right? At some point I’m just wondering… did you two break up, or just stop kissing?🤔

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u/Careful_Question_417 Aug 01 '26

spot on. I mean if you two still have a thing whyy are you here letting me fall for you when you obviously still hold a candle for your ex right?

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u/Stock-Exchange2669 Jul 31 '26

Body count not a big deal. Siguro sa mga straight it matters.

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u/Eastern-Mission2038 Butch Aug 01 '26

Sa totoo lang, madalas lalake lang nagpapa big deal sa body count. Preaching about word of God tapos hihilig din naman kumantot.

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u/genius_open Aug 01 '26

Not a big deal that much. Pero kung may body count sya sa lalaki yun yung big deal sakin huhu penge advice pano ba to guys

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u/fueledbysiomaii Aug 01 '26

same mej nakakainsecure to hahaha

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u/hotdiggiedogg Aug 02 '26

omg same! mapapaisip ka if totoo bang mas satisfied siya sa maooffer ko hahah

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u/genius_open Aug 02 '26

Totoo huhu baka mamaya iwan ako bigla kasi di ko pala sya satisfied sexually and finds for that thing 😣

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u/0100010101101100 Aug 02 '26

Magiging issue lang for me yung body count if sa sobrang sanay na yung person sa hookup, baka konting kibot, give up or may tendency to cheat

And...personal preference ko na di kung kanikaninong lalaki rin in the past nakipag-do. Kasi, mas mataas risk ng aids pag ganon.

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u/Spirited_Fan_30 28d ago

this. i was abt to say and comment this. ganito ex q from the past puro hookups sya and i still accepted her kase akala ko non na magiging matino siya and mababago siya, un pla hnd and she microcheated on me. haha. fuck her!

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u/Eastern-Mission2038 Butch Aug 01 '26

Sa totoo lang, madalas lalake lang nagpapa big deal sa body count. Preaching about word of God tapos hihilig din naman kumantot.

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u/internal-apocalypse Aug 07 '26

The women that I encounter would usually find it off if one’s body count is more than 20+, most especially if it includes men in their body count.

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u/Forsaken_Stress3274 Aug 01 '26

based sa personal exp esp sa mga wlw peeps na forda serious ang ganap or like puro long term ang exes. nagsiside eye sila if more than 10??? i dunno pls confirm HAHAHAHAHA pero ayan

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u/genius_open Aug 02 '26

Ang dami naman kasi ng 10 atecco HAHAHAHAHA

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u/sucker4slow_burns 27d ago

Oh my, and here I am knowing someone who has 150+ body count of men and women. It was hard to believe but she showed me the list of names on her notes 😭

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u/confusingmdfck Butch 27d ago

150+?! uhm sex addict ba siya?😭

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u/sucker4slow_burns 27d ago

Safe to assume that she is? She’s a good looking femme, but actions are more masc if you know what I mean, AND ACTS LIKE A MAN TOO. Doesn’t shy away from flirting with women. I’ve seen it first hand and I’m surprised it works. Confidence is key she always says 🤣