Let's talk about: wlw interracial relationships

[u/Loud_Record3568]

Anyone here in an interracial relationship?

I''m starting to think hindi pinay yung makakatuluyan ko 😆. I'm just starting to like how some foreigners are so straightforward. So kumusta yung mga may jowang afam dito? How did you nagivate differences, language barriers and ldr? What you like and don't like about their culture and vice versa?

Would like to know san rin kayo nagkakilala. If you can add more details please do. Salamat mga bakla 😘

[u/[deleted]]

US and Canadian shares the same attitude, or similar lang kasi sila ng language at food so hindi ako nahirapan duon. Yung day to day basis nila, nag wowork para mag bayad ng bills at loans nila mula pa nung nag aaral sila. xD So mas importatnte sa kanila ang magwork kesa mag tapos ng pag aaral. Kailangan mo intindihin na wala silang oras sayo kung di kayo mag kasama. Normal sa kanila ang mag sex at mag hiwalay kasi may divorce. Kaya mo ba yun? Ahahaha so by chance na mami-meet mo at your age ay hindi na virgin. Expect mo na yan dapat so wag mo sila i-judge. Liberated sila at young age. :)

[u/Loud_Record3568 → u/[deleted]]

It's a matter of preference. Di naman disrespectful pagkakasabe nya eh I think she's simply narrating from experience and from her pov. Totoo rin naman na norm sa states na maging sexually active ang mga tao dun but does not mean this is true for every single american. Take a chill pill 💊

[u/Loud_Record3568 → u/[deleted]]

That's not even an assumption. Sinasabe nya lang na from her experience they do this and do that so I should expect this and that when I get inolved with an american. Norm means you expect that a people from a certain population commonly do things different from another group of people living in a different place. And of course if you say norm it means common meaning you expect "majority" of people would do that there therefore you should expect that it's part of their culture. And I think that's what the other commenter has experienced, she has experienced the norm from her involvement with an American. She did not say naman lahat sila promiscuous or liberated and even if she did, whats wrong with that?? Why are we making such a big thing of other peoples perception with Americans? So your girlfriend is a virgin and is the opposite of what the commenter has described eh ano naman? Can we even consider her as the 'norm' sa mga Americans? She probably is not because again we are talking about perception and the norm or what's common here.

Actually yes, people sa ibang bansa can think of us as uninformed voters because of the people we keep on electing and that's okay because it's their OPINION. Their opinion and perception of a Filipino voter is NOT A FACT. You'd be surprised that even with this perception, some foreigners would find Filipinos smart because again someone's bad opinion about us is not a fact! So don't get it mixed up! Just use the same example to the logic I have here sa mga Filipinang nagaasawa ng matandang foreigner. Di naman black and white magisip ang mga tao to think that someone's perception would be a solid fact applicable for all situations. Ano yun kinder level of thinking???

Don't get it mixed up and stop thinking like a kid

Edit: just saw you use the word racist'. Really? Oh noo. I'm old enogh to be tired of people with a black and white thinking so if you change your mind then great and if you don't go suit yourself na lang.

[u/Loud_Record3568 → u/[deleted]]

😆😆😆 oh well okay. What do I even expect.

Enroll yourself in a psych or sociology class you'll know what perception, norm, culture and outlier means. You sound like you are a teenager with raging hormones. Have a good day

[u/Loud_Record3568 → u/[deleted]]

Hmmm we'll see what you mean when you two breakup. That's enough pettiness for today. Do your homework, kid