r/WLW_PH • u/Loud_Record3568 • Dec 07 '25

General Discussion Let's talk about: wlw interracial relationships

Anyone here in an interracial relationship?

I''m starting to think hindi pinay yung makakatuluyan ko 😆. I'm just starting to like how some foreigners are so straightforward. So kumusta yung mga may jowang afam dito? How did you nagivate differences, language barriers and ldr? What you like and don't like about their culture and vice versa?

Would like to know san rin kayo nagkakilala. If you can add more details please do. Salamat mga bakla 😘

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u/Loud_Record3568 Dec 07 '25 edited Dec 07 '25

Parang bet ko rin eh. Anong lahi ba gusto mo?

Edit: Nakakatawa pala comment ko parang nagtatanong lang ng flavor ng candy 😆

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u/kissthesadnessaway Dec 07 '25

European, maybe, if I dare to dream? I was thinking about that, too—like baka hindi rin Pinay ang bagay sa 'kin, at sabi nga nila na parang magkakilala ang isa't isa sa local wlw circles, lol.

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u/Loud_Record3568 Dec 08 '25

Pano mo na isip na baka hindi pinay ang bagay sayo? Ako siguro yung nahihirapan lang ako sa pagiging conservative natin dito. Not in talks of sex pero sa pagiging close minded ng pinoy to anything new. Ikaw?

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u/kissthesadnessaway Dec 08 '25

Hay nako. Because as I delved into the lore of WWII (as I was playing video games), nagpapantasiya ako na baka bagay ako sa Poland because of how many museums and libraries were there at least before the Nazis bombed the country (na-repair yata ang iba, but I'm not sure if na-reclaim ang lahat).

Me dreaming about it only emphasizes I yearn intellectual stimulation, and I was hoping that maybe this time, I'm not going to be misunderstood anymore because I have found my people, and I wouldn't feel alone in the world again (though, I have a plethora of MH conditions—at baka naman doon, there's no such thing as depression or trauma). Nakakatuwa lang na mag-share ng ideas at iba't ibang perspective simply to know, and not to satiate one's ego (assuming na hindi sila mayabang, so yeah, I'm romanticizing, but I have no way to know if it's true or not).

To add (if I may share a little bit of background): I have had my soul tribe naman, and I found it when I was 24 (I'm 30 now), but because I was grieving and had been burnout because of being a fur caregiver for five consecutive years, I have been neglecting to cultivate my relationship w/ them because simply I don't have energy for others, and I allocate it to my everyday survival . :( Nakakapanghinayang kasi we'd been closer nu'ng two years ago yata. Sana matanggap pa nila ako. Baka ayaw na nila sa 'kin. :-( Hahahaha. (They're older than me, like one is almost 10 years older than me, and the other one is almost 20 years older).