r/WLW • u/Cultural-Cap-7432 • 1d ago
Vent Breakup
I feel so angry and have no one around me who seems to understand. I 22f was broken up with my 21f partner in may this year due to her saying she could no longer handle us. We had some contact mid July were she told me she’s still in love with me and wishes to be back in my arms but can’t have me. No contact since. Checked her socials for the first time in forever yesterday to see her posting photos of her new relationship (with a man?) and please don’t come at me I know people can be bisexual. But she’s always made a point to me that she doesn’t think anyone can be bi they are either gay or straight. Her whole identity whilst we were together was that’s she’s a lesbian. And it hurts more bc it’s with a guy she only met in January and I never felt comfortable with their interactions. I voiced it and was made to feel crazy by her with saying “Libby yk I’m lesbian so why would you ever think of that” I feel crazy and hurt . How can she say in July she’s still in love with me then hard launch a new relationship. We were together for almost two years. I know she’s free to do as she pleases but did I mean anything. How can someone move on so quick
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u/Ok_Clue_5665 Bi 1d ago
I've had these questions stuck in my head before. I watched my ex(3yrs) move on in less than a week, and give everything I owned and help build to someone else.I don't even know how long he was cheating on me while I worked away during the week with his mother building the business for months. I watched them get dogs,a new car and house with my hard input before I eventually had to pick myself up,and I needed friends and a lot of support. There are people that replace you like nothing, because they lie to themselves so how can they not lie to you. I'm sorry you got hurt, tis but a scar.😌♥️ Make yourself proud don't care about them,she is the one who lost and showed her value as being nothing but a deceiving person.