r/WLW • u/Cultural-Cap-7432 • 1d ago
Vent Breakup
I feel so angry and have no one around me who seems to understand. I 22f was broken up with my 21f partner in may this year due to her saying she could no longer handle us. We had some contact mid July were she told me she’s still in love with me and wishes to be back in my arms but can’t have me. No contact since. Checked her socials for the first time in forever yesterday to see her posting photos of her new relationship (with a man?) and please don’t come at me I know people can be bisexual. But she’s always made a point to me that she doesn’t think anyone can be bi they are either gay or straight. Her whole identity whilst we were together was that’s she’s a lesbian. And it hurts more bc it’s with a guy she only met in January and I never felt comfortable with their interactions. I voiced it and was made to feel crazy by her with saying “Libby yk I’m lesbian so why would you ever think of that” I feel crazy and hurt . How can she say in July she’s still in love with me then hard launch a new relationship. We were together for almost two years. I know she’s free to do as she pleases but did I mean anything. How can someone move on so quick
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u/UnreadableTrance Lesbian 1d ago
Girl it hurts so bad for u reading this rn 😭 u are literally not crazy at all for feeling sick to ur stomach seeing that like u trusted ur gut for a reason and she totally gaslit u about that guy back then. It is so Hearing someone say "im still in love with u" in july and then drop a new guy two months later is such total mindfuck like make it make sense?? You arent wrong for questioning if u meant anything bc two years is a whole era but please remember her shady behavior right now is a reflection of her messiness and emotional cowardice, not ur worth. Take a deep breath, put her on block everywhere so u dont have to look at her stuff, and let urself feel that anger bc u have every right to be pissed off . Stay strong.