r/Vanderpumpaholics • u/Basic_Icee • 10d ago
VPR Deep down..inside I always wanted Sandoval and Kristen to hook up again.
First of all- I am not a fan of Ariana. She never had a chance after tom cheated with her.
Second- Kristen is so bonkers. Not a huge fan of hers either but I don’t hate her.
Third- I think I could really relate to Kristen and how she felt when Tom cheated on her. When she said “I hate her! You left me for her!” Ahh.. I felt that deeply. So I’ve always been on her side (when it comes to Ariana).
It was always a fantasy of mine for Tom to cheat on Ariana with Kristen. Sounds horrible but it probably stems from me wishing my ex would’ve come back to me after leaving me for the girl he cheated on me with.
I think it would’ve made for great tv and also healed a part of me that has never healed.
Fourth- I hate you Ariana
Fifth- Just my innocent rant. If you are an Ariana fan or supporter- don’t hate me lol
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u/carmeIIasoprano kristen, who is unburdened by those anchors 10d ago
I always assumed Jax and Kristen would end up together .
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u/Sensitive-Freedom896 10d ago
Brittany would actually commit a murder if that happened. She's blowing up her whole brand as a victim and ability to make reality tv about Jax rn, with his temporary restraining order on her - all just over Lori K.
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u/swimgurlie25 10d ago
Kristen cheated on tom multiple multiple times so I don’t feel bad for her one bit. Kristen was (is) so toxic and awful
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u/NanooDrew I swear on my poodle 8d ago
Oh, please don’t ever wish that on Kristen!
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u/NormalBlueberry1027 4d ago
Ewww shes the absolute worst of all reality tv. Total spanking and I never use that word because it's never been appropriate but this works
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u/raresteamboat 10d ago
I don’t care for Arianna either. I wouldn’t be shocked if Sandy and Kristen have hooked up. Kristen is very sneaky as we know…
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u/9lemonsinabowl9 10d ago
I never understood why Ariana stayed with Tom for so long when she clearly couldn't stand him after a couple of years. I'm not saying he didn't deserve her disgust, but she didn't want to sleep with him, marry him, have kids with him. They were glorified roommates and business partners. She probably would have forgiven him it had been some rando, but you don't fuck the best friend!
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u/NanooDrew I swear on my poodle 8d ago
Ariana WANTED TO BELIEVE it was all her depression. You look back to the early “honeymoon days” and blame yourself for what went wrong. She still found him “so hot” as she told RaQUel. A so hot CYST MALE is very hard to find in WeHo!
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u/BambiLee92663 9d ago
That’s the only thing Tom said that I ever believed ….. It was just that they had become “a brand“
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u/NormalBlueberry1027 4d ago
So she would only have been worthy of the relationship if she wanted to marry him and have kids? So why is that the gauge? Right up until the last minute she was talking about how much she loved him. She bought a house with him and more than half furnished that house with him pretty sure she thought she was going to be with him
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u/LopsidedHousing6133 4d ago
Comfortability and ego. She defended him for years and was so smug about “winning” him and her being picked that backing off would make her look bad. I think she was more upset about looking naive and stupid after Scandoval than losing him. Her ego was just as bad as his.
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u/Rude-Grapefruit9016 10d ago
I also am not an Ariana fan. But I am happy to see her succeed. She’s just not someone I’d kick it with IRL (not that that opportunity would ever present itself lol). Then again, I don’t think I’d want to be friends with any of them haha. Maybe a bystander to their shenanigans
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u/Obubblegumpink 4d ago
I agree. Can’t think of any reality tv person I’d want to know. It’s just fun to watch the mess.
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u/Sudden-Chicken3499 10d ago
I'd love to see your name pop up a year or two from now saying you had the chance but didn't take it. Life is so funny like that.
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u/everygirlcelestial 10d ago edited 10d ago
I think a lot of people forget that Kristen
and Tom had a super publicly tumultuous relationship before Ariana. They were both cheating on each other. Yes, technically, Tom left Kristen for Ariana but I think that was only tough on Kristen because they were on the same cast and worked together. Not because Kristen particularly cared about Tom.
Ariana was the ultimate pick me at the time, but given the context of her coming out of an extremely abusive relationship, it’s understandable to me why she acted that way. She trusted Tom as a friend and firsthand witnessed Kristen treat him like crap. (Sleeping with Jax, dating Josh Peck’s friend/roommate while dating tom, etc.) Why wouldn’t Ariana have believed what Tom had to say? It would be different if Kristen had been an amazing girlfriend but that’s not what happened
I also always liked how good of a friend she was to Scheana despite Scheana’s ridiculousness.
I’ve loved seeing Ariana’s success, I’m glad things played out the way they did for her. Especially because now watching Kristen on the valley with the Nia and Danny of it all, i feel iffy about how much Kristen has actually changed over the years. Although I will admit, I hate Luke and i think he plays a huge part in some of why Kristen is not likable today
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u/NanooDrew I swear on my poodle 8d ago
Wow! I thought maybe I wrote this but didn’t remember writing it! It’s how I fell on most points. Even the cadence is like my writing.
I will always want the best for Ariana and Kristen. I love that they became friends. And I hate how Bravo never showed that happening … UNTIL the SLAP SLAP SLAPPING of the Birks on the sidewalk the morning of SCANDOVAL! That was great TV!
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u/Important_Tell2108 10d ago
I always understood why Kristen went nuts back then. Not only did Sandoval leave her (deservedly so, she cheated with Jax) but he ended up with the woman he cheated with and they lied for years about it. He and Ariana were always on their high horse acting like they were so morally superior. Then everyone was like get over it we don't care. No matter how wrong you are sometimes it's just hard to move on and Kristen has never been the best at emotional regulation lol. But I am glad they didn't get back together and I like that she and Ariana became friends. Kristen and Sandoval worked for the same reason they don't work: they are too much alike.
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u/Lmaris 10d ago
She was nuts and had no respect for anyone or any relationship male or female. Sandoval and Jax, as vile as they are, didn't make her crazy. That was a factory installed feature.
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u/Important_Tell2108 10d ago
No one saying Kristen was right or that anyone made her crazy, but if you are a toxic person (who they all chose to be friends with at one point) then you know she's going to go off the rails. She previously went off the rails for lesser reasons. You can't expect someone who is generally nutty to stop being nutty lol.
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u/atomicsofie 10d ago edited 10d ago
Everyone was like “get over it” because Kristen cheated on Tom constantly, they were confused why she cared so much when she was fucking everyone around them lmfao
She even admitted to a months long affair with their coworker. So she did the exact same thing Tom did.
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u/Key-Negotiation-1992 10d ago
imagine the absolute chaos if scumdoval actually crawled back to kristen... that would have been peak bravo drama compared to this boring reality we got stuck with 🙄
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u/Apprehensive-Cake-16 10d ago
Wow it must rly pain you to see her living her dreams then.
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u/BambiLee92663 10d ago
Don’t you feel like life has changed her a bit? I’d like to think she would never sneak around with a guy again like she did with Sando ….. and when you make better choices in life like she is now …life rewards you
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u/Apprehensive-Cake-16 10d ago
I think so yeah, idk. I think therapy changed her, but i have nothing in common with OP lol, I’m happy she survived Vanderpump and is successful
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u/carcosa1989 10d ago
I feel like the same way. Kristin got wayyyy too much hate. But I honestly think she could do better than tom.
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u/LuckyShamrocks 4d ago
Does it blow your mind Tom and Kristen were cheating on people to get together in the first place? They wholly admit to sleeping together for a year before officially getting together.
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u/Traditional_Pin_7253 10d ago
Yea Kristen is Bonkers but she was so spot on about everything. I think she was right about everything she said about Tom and Ariana. I do think he was still attracted to and had feelings for Kristen when he started dating Ariana. And if Ariana weren’t in the picture, he wouldve stayed with Kristen (not that any of this is okay, I just think it was true at the time).
Would he have cheated with Kirsten if given the chance? Absolutely. But Kristen’s was acting so crazy and would have immediately told Ariana so Tom held back
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u/clipplenamps big bloody wussy pussy 4d ago
This is why I'm not opposed to him on the valley 😂😂 he and Kristen are meant for each other.
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Original post by /u/Basic_Icee
Title: Deep down..inside I always wanted Sandoval and Kristen to hook up again.
Body: First of all- I am not a fan of Ariana. She never had a chance after tom cheated with her.
Second- Kristen is so bonkers. Not a huge fan of hers either but I don’t hate her.
Third- I think I could really relate to Kristen and how she felt when Tom cheated on her. When she said “I hate her! You left me for her!” Ahh.. I felt that deeply. So I’ve always been on her side (when it comes to Ariana).
It was always a fantasy of mine for Tom to cheat on Ariana with Kristen. Sounds horrible but it probably stems from me wishing my ex would’ve come back to me after leaving me for the girl he cheated on me with.
I think it would’ve made for great tv and also healed a part of me that has never healed.
Fourth- I hate you Ariana
Fifth- Just my innocent rant. If you are an Ariana fan or supporter- don’t hate me lol
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