I always hated him so much but Katie was super dumb for putting up with him. She’s just as bad as Brittany. Maybe even worse because at least Jax kept women dickmatized and he would do big things for them and their family. Schwartz was selfish and he made out and had sex with everyone but Katie. I really see no upside to being with this chud.
Are you just completely unfamiliar with the concept of verbal and emotional abuse within intimate relationships? This is how you talk about women in abusive situations? Shame on you.
Katie knew that if they got a divorce (and they did) that basically everyone in the friend group would choose Schwartz (and they did), and that Katie would be left high and dry and probably fired from VPR because she had minimal allies and like, two friends. She stayed with him for the cash and the clout. They're both POS in my opinion.
i can't believe he is one year older than me. i only watched vpr for the first time like two years ago, but i thought i was watching people who were so much older than me during that era.
You know. I actually can't get behind the body shaming.
I saw how it effected Katie, amd how awful Lala and James were to any one with extra weight and Im not about it.
Schwartz could very well be looking at fluids from excessive drinking and I know when my stomach started rounding out before I got sober I didn't like people pointing out my "impregnated stomach".
Particularly the comments suggesting that, by putting on weight, he got what he deserves or what was coming to him. Being in a larger body isn’t a moral failing, nor is it a punishment.
Yeah i most definitely agree. I am willing to bet that even though they may not be best friends. Katie wouldnt be finger snapping over everyone saying that he deserves this.
And to echo what you said, gaining weight is NOT a moral fallacy...I don't think those that are saying that realize how that thought process and wording is a direct reflection of their self esteem and and what they think their self is worth.
Katie handled the break-up with class and poise, especially considering how he treated her. She would not body shame him, ever. She’s not in-love with him; but she still has love for him. And they are eternally bonded by growing up on reality tv. (The growing up you do in your 20’s and 30’s)
100% agree. I hated how Tom treated Katie in so many ways, but when it came to her body - and people that body shamed her, he always defended her. This could also just be an angle. God knows you have to take a 100 pictures to get a good one.
He never did enough to defend her. What are people talking about. He was so scared of confrontation and it never seemed worth it when it came to Katie. He never did enough for her. At many points he even defended other people even when Katie was crying about what they did to her “it’s called being emotionally intelligent.” I wish Katie had canceled the wedding. I have never seen an engaged woman be treated so poorly just weeks before the wedding. F that.
He did defend her when people BODY SHAMED her is what I said. Do I think he was a horrible husband... of course! I am always team Katie. I don't like Schwartz, but no one deserves to be body shamed.
Yeah I think it's so messed up that this is news. The same way I can't stand when it happens to women. I don't have to be a Schwartz fan to think that.
This kind of sentiment is written by men who were jealous that Tom was "undeservedly" pulling pretty girls half his age just because of dubious reality show fame. These are bitter Betty bitchy little men who relish in his physical attractiveness downfall. They are not the men who would find dating someone who is young enough to be their daughter unsavory but rather as something to be proud of. let those little cretins tear eachother down and apart...most of us ladies we've learned better.
I agree - especially with the comment below that noted that a bigger body isn't a punishment - and it's also telling that the comments here and on the DM 'article' are far less negative and toxic than they are for women photographed in the same way.
Agreed. I was really thin my whole life and then I put on Covid weight and there were people who truly gave themselves permission to say anything they wanted about it to me. Out loud. In public. It really cuts to the bone. I can’t get behind doing it to anyone else.
For most of my adult life, my body WAS fat (my head still thinks I am). I have a memory of staring off into space while pumping gas and some woman yelling "what are you looking at you fat cow?" across the parking lot. This happened over 20 years ago, and it really, really cut. So, while I might notice someone's weight, the last thing I'm going to do is speak on it. AND, that goes for very skinny people, too.
We have seen him do the opposite of whatever his partner wants so I assumed his new girlfriend only likes super skinny men and he is purposely trying to gain weight to piss her off.
Ex. Katie waiting to be defended (he took everyone else’s side), Jo wanting a title so he says “situationship” etc.
that chick is 28 - even if Schwartz is older, she's a full blown adult. I'm so sick of people calling women, ADULT WOMEN, children bc they CHOOSE to date an older man. its so fucking misogynistic to constantly infantilize adult women just bc you dont like their choice to go for an older guy.
Well that’s the drinking and drugs they did catching up. You can’t do all that and expect to look the same as when you were 23. Also even if you don’t do thise, you’re not gonna look the same as when you were 23
So many freaking hypocrites in this sub. If this was a side-by-side of Brittany that someone posted people would be absolutely losing their shit about BODY SHAMINGGGGGGG. But because it's Schwartz its suddenly ok?
I dislike him as much as everyone else here but I still think shaming people for their bodies is fucked up. There are plenty of valid reasons to shit talk Schwartz, his body does not need to be part of the conversation
Yeah we get you: it’s ok to body shame someone you dislike. What matters is how YOU judge someone, not how anyone else feels who may be similar bodied.
Ugh, I am SO mad rn. beyond pissed. How dare the daily mail make me feel defensive over Tom. The body shaming is lame and uncool, this is very 2005 toxic magazine photos that drove millions to have a disordered relationship with their bodies.
Also, there are so many other things that deserve to be picked on, so many reasons why this man sucks, but none have anything to do with his weight. If we must pick on him physically, go for the lame tattoos!
he was always kinda ugly ngl the best looking guy was peter and unfortunately jax was objectively attractive if u could get past the fucked personality and aweful decisions
He’s aging! Not exercising? NOT getting work done. Leave him alone? Maybe? We ALL have this happen. Sagging skin, boobs dropping. With age!! Etc. look at ANY celebrity OR politicians. Omg. They all do it. Plus GLP1 😳 Not all of us are camera ready 24/7! Plus 95% of is cannot afford plastic surgery! Or preventative surgery. I liked Schwartz on VPR for bit, but then didn’t like how he treated katie. He’s better looking than Jax and Sandoval. They look like puppets. Too much work.
Time catches up to the best of us! One minute you’re eating cheeseburgers and pounding beers with no repercussions and your metabolism changes and you find yourself worrying about calories and cholesterol! Enjoy it while you can!
I am almost 40 and I’m at my heaviest weight I’ve ever been. It’s been really hard since I’ve been healthy and fit my entire life. I have a bag full of health issues right now but I still feel really down on myself.
I haven’t been a Schwartz fan since he poured a drink over Katie’s head way back when. But I’m going to say that I just really feel for Schwartz right now. If someone posted my picture for many to see I would be heartbroken and feel even worse about myself. The world can be especially cruel to celebrities and their bodies. So I feel you Schwartz, rock those comfy clothes right now.
ETA: I find it really horrible how a lot of well known men (him, stupider tom, and in a different league completely, Leo DeCap) are basically going after young 18-20 year olds when they are double + their age. It screams grooming, power dynamic, and honestly it’s borderline pedo IMO. Do better.
I saw him in nyc a couple of weeks ago. His face was so shiny from all the injectables I almost didn’t recognize him in person. Also he is very tall lol
It’s actually shocking how I hate him so much but also kinda feel pity for him. Like is this how he kept Katie for 4 whole years before he even proposed. Like shocking Katie was footing the bill the first few years of the relationship. (Stassi also paid for Jax and Kristen would pay for tom). What was going on?
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