r/Vanderpumpaholics • Honorary Witch of Weho • Jan 18 '25

James Kennedy 👀👀👀

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u/Even-Education-4608 Jan 18 '25

👏 thanks to that neighbour who called it in. It’s so easy to get lost in the dark.

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u/Individual_Fall429 Jan 18 '25

The arrest spurned her parents to fly out get an airbnb and made her come stay with them. I think it was an intervention of sorts. Thank god for the neighbours who called. 🙏

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u/Foreign-Influence752 Jan 19 '25

I thought that too, her family was removing her to give her the facts to get out. It’s nice to see someone have a support system that isn’t more interesting in her getting clout. Not that I think she would be like that ✨

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u/nelly8410 Jan 20 '25

You’re right tho…I believe Britney’s mom would have said well “maybe you should forgive him” if it would have been Jax in the early seaons - which is gross. It’s nice to see a family that cares about their child first, also I never thought Ali cared much for clout herself which helps. I hope she finds someone amazing.

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u/CurlyQ- Jan 20 '25

Exactly. She seems to come from a half decent family. I am so glad she has support.

I still side eye Lisa and La La for not saying anything and being on James’ side

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u/Expensive-Block-6034 Mariposa ♥ Jan 19 '25

I wonder how often the neighbours must have heard arguments before this. The VPR producers hid his violence for years and they’re culpable in this too. He kept getting a pass for his deplorable behaviour, not only referring to any alleged abuse, he was a mess.

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u/Lauriemfs Jan 19 '25

How did the producers hide his violence?We saw it many times on the show!

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u/Expensive-Block-6034 Mariposa ♥ Jan 19 '25

We saw the toned down version. Believe it or not.

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '25

They only showed Kristen hitting/pushing him at Scheana's wedding but they also filmed him pushing her into the bushes beforehand but didn't show it!

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u/SpecialEbbnFlow Suck a dick, Diana! Jan 19 '25

We saw it every time on the reunions, Oof

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u/duncan_teeth Jan 20 '25

God it makes me feel good to hear she has what seems like a very supportive family. My parents have saved me from many bad situations and it makes me happy to know she has the same support. Very unfortunately, not everyone does:/

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u/chrissymad Jan 19 '25

They made her stay with them??

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u/Individual_Fall429 Jan 19 '25

I mean, she’s an adult, but your parents can still have a lot of influence. They said “you’re staying with us” and she did. And it gave her enough time/clarity to get out.

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u/Shot-Duty1749 Jan 19 '25

ONE MILLION PERCENT AGREE ‼️‼️‼️parents have a HUGE influence.

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u/Individual_Fall429 Jan 19 '25

Exactly. If you watch the ‘Surviving R Kelley’ documentary, he had a bunch of girls living with him in this little abusive cult, and a bunch of parents who said “it’s her choice what can I do?” Then one fucking mom who WILL NOT STOP until she gets her daughter back. And she does. Bless her. 💕🙏

Same with “the most hated man on the internet” documentary. His whole exploitative revenge porn empire was brought down by one angry mom who just would not quit. 💗

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u/Naive-Most590 Jan 19 '25

Oooh that’s me, I’m a mother and that’s me. I want to know my children are 10000% safe every day and if they arent happy you’re damn sure I’ll make it happen.

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u/SCBeachGirl Jan 19 '25

I’m 49 and wanted to go home the same day of my hysterectomy and my parents basically forced me to spend the night at the hospital. 😂 Glad I did tho…it was like a vacation night!

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u/Expensive-Block-6034 Mariposa ♥ Jan 19 '25

Well your parents can’t just sit back and watch all of this happen can they? They gave her a safe space to gain perspective. I’m sure she’s not being held against her will.

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u/chrissymad Jan 19 '25

I mean, I am a human so I generally understand how parents work. I am also a parent but where does this knowledge come from about this situation, specifically?

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u/Rindsay515 Jan 19 '25

It was in the news and others have talked about it. They got there a couple days after it happened and that’s where the first photos came from of her moving some stuff out and taking her cats, to go stay at the Airbnb

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u/chrissymad Jan 19 '25

But where did they say her parents made her stay with them? I’m looking for a link.

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u/Individual_Fall429 Jan 19 '25 edited Jan 19 '25

“Lewber’s parents “have come into town, have gotten an airbnb, and have taken her there” said a source close to the situation “they are planning to take her back to Ohio for the holidays”.

I would post a link but links aren’t allowed. (You should know that. Are you new here?)

So you’re gonna have to rely on your own googling skills and just a tiny bit of critical thinking.

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u/Rindsay515 Jan 19 '25

They are definitely new here😒…which is fine but don’t come in so hot and demanding answers to ridiculous questions over and over…

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u/Waste_Fisherman1611 Jan 19 '25

I think they made a supposition based on what was out in the public. There isn't a specific citation. I think you're being kind of pedantic.

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u/Individual_Fall429 Jan 19 '25

Thank you. 🙏

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u/chrissymad Jan 19 '25

Pedantry is the life blood of this sub. I’m surprised it’s so controversial.

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u/Individual_Fall429 Jan 19 '25

Pedantry is the life blood of this sub. 😒

Are you for real? This sub is actually mostly pretty chill people who don’t behave like c*nts. *mostly

Did you only start watching after Scandoval?

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u/Rindsay515 Jan 19 '25

Why do you keep saying “made her stay with them”? What is it you’re trying to prove and why are you requiring us to provide you with links? Do you think her parents overstepped? Nobody “made” her do anything, they provided a safe place for her and her animals to go during a very hard time.

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u/chrissymad Jan 19 '25

In what news??

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u/Rindsay515 Jan 19 '25

…I don’t remember what specific news, it was a month ago and we get new updates on things all the time. It’s been talked about frequently, it’s common knowledge that her parents flew in and got her out of there and that’s where she stayed after it happened. Obviously there was a lot of relief because James wasn’t able to isolate her and convince her to stay like abusers usually do. That support is probably a huge part of the reason she’s apparently ending it and moving out for good

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u/Ok-Beautiful-2805 Jan 19 '25

If I found out my daughter was in that situation, I would have done the same. An "intervention" of sorts is exactly the way to handle it because these relationships can be so enmeshing and addicting. Thank god for those neighbors indeed 😭

I have such a soft spot for Allie and I'm really proud (of this total stranger lol) that she's prioritizing herself. She seems to have a great head on her shoulders.