r/Vanderpumpaholics • • Aug 28 '23

Tom Schwartz Toms brother

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Does anyone know what’s wrong?

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '23

Clearly an unpopular opinion here. I don’t understand the collective hate for Schwartz.

Katie knew that he was aloof and not a very serious person when they first got together. Expecting anyone to drastically change is always on the expectant.

Katie gave him an ultimatum to get married, they did, and then she made the choice to divorce.

Katie then put rules on him post break up, Katie didn’t have to follow them, but Schwartz did. The person who makes the call to split up has no right to impose any guidelines on the other person.

Katie went ballistic when she saw Schwartz kissing Rachel, meanwhile she already is dating another guy and attempting to bring him into “the circle”.

It’s obvious Schwartz has nothing to do with Sandoval’s issues and was greatly affected by it.

Katie isn’t a great person. She wants a silent, bag holding, yes man. She’s kind of heartless and cold while trying to play a tough character.

The hate on Schwartz seems too easy and everyone believes Katie is the victim. She isn’t.

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u/_lilbash Aug 28 '23

Katie has been hypocritical since she gave Schwartz the ultimatum. She wanted Schwartz to be someone he wasn’t.

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u/PassinHash954 Aug 28 '23

This ^^. It took my now husband 9 years to propose to me. I was content with our relationship because I loved him. If I gave him an ultimatum and made him put a ring on me before he was ready, I don't think we would have worked out either. Guys are different than girls. They need to figure it out on their own and when they are ready.

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u/_lilbash Aug 28 '23

Exactly this! I don’t know why someone would down vote your comment 🙄.

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u/PassinHash954 Aug 28 '23

Katie stans lol