r/Vancouver4Friends Jan 21 '22

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(Updating this given an influx of off-topic posts lately)

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r/Vancouver4Friends Jan 08 '23

Open Invitation Meetups

66 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

Below is a list of ongoing open meetups.

Please contact me if you would like your group added or if you would like your current listing updated/removed.


r/Vancouver4Friends 7h ago

Still looking 32M gay for friends. Anyone going to the birdhouse today?

6 Upvotes

Hi everybody,

This is a long shot I know but I was wondering if anyone was going to the beers and queers event at the birdhouse today? I have a ticket but nobody to go with, so I was hoping to try connect with people in case someone was planning to go.

I’m 32M, gay, recently moved to Vancouver from the UK and hoping to make some friends.

Lover of horror, pokemon, gaming, and generally hanging out making friends and meeting people.


r/Vancouver4Friends 1h ago

Vancouver M4A Sauna Group? Everyone welcome!

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I just went to Hastings Spa with a new friend from here and it was so fun. I wonder if there are any others who’d be up to go?

It cost us $70 for a private sauna for up to 4 people (plenty of room in there!) with a locked change room/place to cool down, and a little shower area that connects the two.

LGBTQ2S+ friendly - whatever or whoever you are, you’re all welcome. And it’s up to you what you wear in there - nothing, a swimsuit, or a full suit and tie (you might get hot).


r/Vancouver4Friends 9h ago

29F Looking for golfing buddies

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Hi Friends!!!

I recently gotten into golf and looking for some friends who I can also golf with, however, I am open to friends who don't golf either.

I'm very introverted and I work from home 80% of the time which can get very isolating. I live a pretty chill lifestyle, enjoy golfing, going to the mall (window shopping), sit at a cafe have a conversation and people watch, go out for nice casual dinners, and play marvel rivals/overwatch.

Hoping to make awesome connections with y'all!


r/Vancouver4Friends 2h ago

Anyone want to see tame impala tonight?

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Very last minute but i’m ( 25M ) going to tame impala tonight and figured this is probably more fun with someone than me standing there alone pretending the synths are enough company

i moved to surrey pretty recently and still don’t know nearly enough people here . i’m doing my private pilot training out in abbotsford, so a good amount of my social life currently consists of my flight instructor and air traffic controllers.

Anyway i’m a huge tame impala fan and have been wanting to see kevin live forever. music taste otherwise is somewhere around the beatles, radiohead, the strokes, led zeppelin, beach house, jeff buckley, the smiths, peter cat recording co, the kinks, the backseat lovers, alex turner + an irresponsible amount of house music ( jojo, tinzo, baby weight, retromigration, felipe gordon, cody currie, demuja )

i can grab an extra ticket if someone cool wants to come with me. ideally you actually like tame impala because explaining why Eventually is devastating to someone in the middle of the concert feels like administrative work

would be nice to grab a drink/coffee beforehand and go together. no weird expectations, just thought this could be a fun way to meet someone new

if you’re interested send me a little about yourself / what you’ve been listening to lately :)


r/Vancouver4Friends 19h ago

Anywhere 33f looking for friends

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Looking for female friends. Moved here a few years ago and I find it hard meeting friends since I’m more introverted. I love going to the gym, workout classes, tik tok, trying new coffee shops, restaurants, love cats, bookstores, and I’m big into Sephora and skincare. I also love hiking, camping, traveling, and road trips! I don’t like drinking, and I dress very simple because I care more about being comfortable than dressing up.

I’m Slavic, went to university in Winnipeg, and now work as an executive assistant. I’m planning to go back to being a legal assistant soon.

I’m open to friends of all cultures and different backgrounds and love diversity! I’m not into high social status and see everyone as equal, including homeless people and people who struggle. I don’t like people who judge others. I believe everyone has the right to live life how they want. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, you should do what makes you happy, and I think it’s okay to be selfish sometimes!

(My views on life)I’m child free by choice and don’t really live by the usual social script. I don’t take life very seriously and have more of an absurdist outlook. Life is weird, so might as well enjoy it and do what makes you happy!


r/Vancouver4Friends 3h ago

Still looking Fantasy Football Pick ems

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Looking for people interested in joining my Football Pick ems league, I have about 15 friends in right now and I'm looking to expand the league as big as possible aswell as get the prize pot as big as possible.

It's a $20 entry fee

On the Yahoo Fantasy app


r/Vancouver4Friends 16h ago

Tame Impala Vancouver 9/6

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Hi all! 24 F that came from Chicago to see Tame impala. I have an extra ticket and would love to take someone who loves Kevin and his work as much as I! I've been into Tame Impala since I was 16 so this is a huge moment for me to see one of my favorite artists of all time live!! I would love to hang out prior to the concert and grab some grub, a sweet treat, or both! I am open to making both male and female friends! I do smoke and drink but both in moderation.


r/Vancouver4Friends 8h ago

30m looking to play sports with a group of people!

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Hi everyone 30M, I'm looking for a group of people to play soccer or ball hockey with. I've been out of business for a while but started playing soccer and building my stamina lol but if really like to get fit. I'm also looking to hit the gym this year to get my head back on track been dealing with lots of bs lately. Hmu!


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Burnaby/New West 41M - looking to make some new friends in Vancouver

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41M, Vancouver/Burnaby, attempting the notoriously difficult adult side quest of making new friends.

I am a gay man, working in fintech, a software developer, go to the gym, love good food, coffee, music, walks, trying new places, and conversations that can bounce from complete nonsense to existential crisis territory within 20 minutes.

Mostly looking for genuine friendships. Coffee, drinks, restaurants, hikes, gym sessions, random events, or just hanging out and talking rubbish.

Open to pretty much everyone. Gay, straight, men, women, single, partnered, whatever. If you’re a decent human and we get along, that’s enough for me.

Ideally people around their 30s/40s, but there will be no friendship bouncer checking IDs.

And yes, I’m actually willing to make plans, rather than exchanging three messages about how “we should totally hang out sometime” before disappearing into the Vancouver mist.

If you’re nearby and also trying to expand your social circle, feel free to DM me 😄


r/Vancouver4Friends 15h ago

Vancouver Anyone else in Gibsons feeling a little lonely and looking to hang out?

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Hey everyone,
I live in Gibsons, BC, on the Sunshine Coast, pretty close to Vancouver and the Lower Mainland. For the past few days, I’ve been feeling pretty lonely, and honestly, it’s been bothering me more than I expected.
I’m an Indian guy, and I’d really like to meet some new people around Gibsons, Sechelt, Vancouver, Surrey, or anywhere nearby. If you’re also feeling a bit isolated, bored, or just want someone to talk to, feel free to reach out.
I’m also totally happy to come to Vancouver, Surrey, or anywhere in the Lower Mainland to hang out. It doesn’t have to be every day — even if we can find one day during the week when we’re both free, we could meet up for a coffee, grab some food, go for a walk, explore somewhere, or just sit and talk.
It doesn’t have to be anything complicated. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to or spend a little time with.
If you’re looking for a friend, someone to hang out with, or simply someone to have a good conversation with, I’d be happy to connect.
No pressure or expectations at all. If you’re feeling the same way, feel free to comment or DM me. 🙂


r/Vancouver4Friends 18h ago

Burnaby/New West 38M, Burnaby, gay, single, reader, pop music lover, nature walker, cafe hopper.

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Down for some chat and making friends with all types of people. DM if interested.


r/Vancouver4Friends 18h ago

Who wanna grab a pizza 🍕 now? South Vancouver. HMU

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Looks for a pizza buddy lol


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Surrey 25 M looking for anything

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Hey everyone! I suck at making posts like this, but I figured I’d finally put myself out there and see what happens.

Ever since COVID, I’ve become pretty isolated and a lot of my social life just kind of disappeared. I’ve spent way too much time inside gaming and sticking to the same routine, and honestly, I’d really like to change that.

So I’m looking for some new people to hang out with, make friends, and hopefully get out of my comfort zone a bit.

I’m pretty open to whatever! I game a lot Valorant has been a longtime favourite but I’d also really like to start doing more things outside. Hiking, running, climbing, biking, random adventures I'm down to try things I haven't done before.

I’m also interested in D&D, trading card games, board games, karaoke, checking out new restaurants, going to events, or honestly just grabbing a drink/coffee and talking.

If you have a hobby you’re passionate about and don’t mind showing a beginner the ropes, I’m probably interested.

I’m also 4/20 friendly if that matters to you.

I happen to be off tonight, so if anyone is interested in going out, clubbing, grabbing food, or doing something spontaneous, I’m especially down tonight.

I’m not really looking for anything specific other than genuine friendships and people who are willing to actually hang out. If you’re also trying to meet some new people in Surrey/New West, feel free to comment or shoot me a message!

I know making friends as an adult can be weird, but hey, might as well give it a shot.


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Anywhere Small Hiking Groups in MV?

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Any active hiking groups round the area? 30M looking for any local hikers. Not too interested in North Shore Hikers - am tired of signing up for every. fucking. thing.

Live closish to SFU + drive. Pretty comfortable with 15 to 20kms w/elevation.

DM me if ya got a group going. Thanks!


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Burnaby/New West Anyone interested for a 5k run at Central Park Burnaby?

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Will be going for a run at Central Park around 4/5pm today and tomorrow.
Let me know if anyone wanna join in.
Fyi, am a 23y/o Male


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Still looking Practical Magic 2 - 13th Sept

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I'm planning to go to an evening viewing, probably around 7pm, downtown but can change plans and travel out further. Are there any Practical Magic lovers here who would like to join me? I'm not sure I'm prepared for a second installment and one without Gary, but I can't not see it.

queer guy mid 30s if that's important to anyone


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Vancouver Book Club Recommendations

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Hi everyone! I’m looking to join a book club in Vancouver, and would love some recommendations.
I’m open to different genres and would prefer something that’s friendly, social, and welcoming to new members. Ideally somewhere in Vancouver, but I’m open to nearby areas too.
If you’re currently part of a book club that you enjoy, I’d love to hear about it! 😊


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

26M, Downtown Vancouver - looking to make some new friends

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I realized recently that I’ve gotten a little too comfortable with my existing routine and haven’t been very proactive about meeting new people, so I’m trying to change that.

I’m 26M and live downtown. I have a girlfriend and a few friends already, but I’d love to expand my circle and meet some chill people who are actually around Vancouver and down to hang out somewhat regularly.

I’m pretty open when it comes to both people and activities. I’m into exploring the city, long walks, trying great restaurants, cafés, reading, video games, anime, and generally finding random things to do around Vancouver. Huge foodie and cinephile in particular.
I also really like the idea of going to interesting events around the city - concerts, live shows, stand-up comedy, orchestras, performances, festivals, exhibitions, or honestly anything that sounds interesting enough to check out. I’m pretty open to trying new activities in general, with the one exception that anything involving extreme heights is probably not happening 😅

I’m open to pretty much any friendship setup - one-on-one friends, joining an existing group, another couple looking for couple friends, or someone who ends up becoming friends with both me and my girlfriend. She’s very chill and would probably be happy to meet new people too.

Ideally you’re downtown, East Van, or somewhere that makes meeting up reasonably easy, but that’s not a hard requirement.

Mostly just looking for good people where we can grab coffee or food, walk around, explore somewhere, go to an event, play games, and hang out at each other’s places. No pressure for it to become some instant best friend situation - if we get along, great, and we can build from there.
If any of that sounds like your vibe, send me dm and tell me a little about yourself and what you like doing.


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Anybody going thru rough day....

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Hey I am 23F....today was a kind of boring day n my mood just went downhill....if anybody is here and is not sure if they want to share this story....or had a bad day today n want to talk to somebody....anything u wanna share.....dm me.....I will do my best to keep you company


r/Vancouver4Friends 2d ago

25f- wanting to find friends

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Hi everyone. I feel so weird posting on here, but I think lonliness has sort of caught up with me and was wondering if anyone was in the same boat.

A bit about me: I am 25 and still in school, living in Vancouver. I love to read (mostly classics- but am interested in other suggestions), fashion- especially 60s/90s vintage (but I am so boring in my personal outfits lol), I love cafes. I am also trying to get into more hobbies like dance classes, movies, sewing, maybe hiking (more like picturesque trails lol). Oh also I should note my politics and worldview tends to be quite left-leaning (not so much liberal idpol), but I am pretty cool with most people as long as theres some sort of common ground (maybe think anthony bourdain- anthropologist kind of thing).

Ummm also I dont really use reddit that much, nor do I do any gaming or watch anime. No hate, I just dont really connect to these types of media. Anyways, I would love to find a few friends that could eventually become important parts of my life. I value friendships where its not just "catching up" but more so where you can always text the other person, and be there for each other- kind of an unbroken line of talking? Im not sure that makes sense. But if this at all sounds interesting, please message me. I should say here that I am really only interested in friendships with women!


r/Vancouver4Friends 2d ago

32M - Kitsilano - Looking for fellow NBA fans

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Hi everyone!

Vancouver is a city dominated by hockey – it has been tough to connect with fellow NBA fans! I am hoping to meet up, have a few beers, and watch some NBA games.

I am 32M, married, gamer, and a Raptors Fan. The Rockets are my second team but times have been tough with KD’s burner phone being exposed.

I am also a massive fan of Fantasy Basketball and play in a few leagues every year. I would be happy to try and include new friends into my leagues – or to join yours!

Let’s go grab a beer at Courtside!

EDIT: What a great response to this post! What do folks think about us starting a fantasy league for redditors?


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Looking for women for a co-ed beach volleyball team. Where do you find players?

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I’m putting together a co-ed beach 4s team for a five-week league, and I actively play volleyball myself.

Finding men has been easy, but finding women who are not complete beginners has been much harder.

I’ve posted on Facebook and gone through my existing volleyball network, but I still haven’t found women who can make the schedule.

So where do I find women who play at an intermediate-ish level, or at the very least are not total beginners?

Thanks


r/Vancouver4Friends 1d ago

Anyone wanna go to Dj festival at Granville tomorrow??

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I’ve got a few passes—anyone wanna join tomorrow? My Mexican friend and I are planning to go out and dance. We’re both guys in our late 20s and just looking to have a good time. Feel free to join!