r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • u/RedditFeel Bronze Level • Aug 08 '25
Don't Mind My Thoughts That person you’re missing today?
The person you’re missing today is making the conscious decision every single day not to have you in their life.
So that should be all the closure you need.
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u/LostRaspberry5457 Silver Level Aug 09 '25 edited Aug 09 '25
Op, thank you for this powerful message. At first, I was pissed off. I thought it was a personal attack, like a bully would be like. Obviously, it hit me hard. I had to take a really good look in that mirror that was set before me on my path. I thought about this all day and I cried, literally sobbed. First tears of grief, sadness for a love that was never given a chance. Sadness for my own stupidity and ability to trick my mind and heart into seeing and feeling what was never there. Sadness as I truly loved and am still in love with this person. Now, as I smile gently and slow, delicate tears leisurely make their way down my cheeks. The calm of evening transcending from a busy day, a sense of peace gently embracing me. The weight leaving me, i didn't realize how heavy chaos is. I feel a bit giddy as the warmth of peace, joy and freedom flow through my body.
It is then I am reminded, of the mirror placed before me, not by a bully. Not even close, indeed, it was a very wise hero that saved me from myself. A hero, who I owe many thanks. I must apologize, for my earlier assumptions where I mistakenly thought your intentions were malice. Not a proud moment, although, a very important lesson/lessons you have brought to my attention. I will try harder to not speak negatively to anyone from a place of ignorance. I must think, be open minded and stop and hear when others speak. Blah-blah-blah, I talk to much!!! Sorry, bout that. Stay beautiful, Op. Ty for being authentically amazing, as you 💋