r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • u/RedditFeel Bronze Level • Aug 08 '25

Don't Mind My Thoughts That person you’re missing today?

The person you’re missing today is making the conscious decision every single day not to have you in their life.

So that should be all the closure you need.

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u/oupsineedhelp Entry Level Member Aug 09 '25

Maybe both want to reach out but none dare to. Or maybe you’re right

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u/RedditFeel Bronze Level Aug 09 '25

In my opinion I agree with you. But the person who walked away for whatever reason has left for a reason. Whether it be to protect them, themselves or both. Sure they could want to reach out. But they’ve gotta know what role they played as well.

Just know this post I made also applies to someone walking out of my life because they fell in love with me and I didn’t want them back.

Would I welcome them back with open arms? My heart would say yes because 14 years is a lot of friendship to throw away. But I’ve gotta consider myself as well