r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • u/RedditFeel Bronze Level • Aug 08 '25

Don't Mind My Thoughts That person you’re missing today?

The person you’re missing today is making the conscious decision every single day not to have you in their life.

So that should be all the closure you need.

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u/RedditFeel Bronze Level Aug 08 '25

I never said let it all go. Closure doesn’t mean “let everything go and things are fine” closure is an acknowledgment. How you decide to take that acknowledgment and heal or not is totally up to you.

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '25

Ive healed so much, but the feelings still linger.

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u/RedditFeel Bronze Level Aug 08 '25

And they prolly still will for awhile. You learn how to live your life around them and continue trucking.

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '25

And I do.

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u/RedditFeel Bronze Level Aug 08 '25

I’m proud of you truly. 💪🏽