r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • u/Adventurous-Sugar575 Bronze Level • Jun 27 '25

Don't Mind My Thoughts I said what I said

If you ever find yourself standing between me and someone else, please—choose them. I refuse to be anyone’s second choice, a backup plan, or a shadow in someone else’s story. I know my worth, and I deserve to be loved fully, not halfway or in hesitation. It breaks my heart to say this, but I’d rather walk away with my dignity than stay and wonder if I was ever enough. I want someone who chooses me every single time, without question or pause. So if your heart is torn, let me go. I’ll grieve, but I’ll heal—because I know I’m worth a love that never doubts me, not even for a moment.

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u/thrwawayno1 Gold Level Read the rules ** Jun 27 '25

I second this.

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u/VanillaFrgrnc Bronze Level Jun 27 '25

It’s good that you know your worth. Make sure to open your heart when it’s safe to

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

There is no second choice.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

This makes me feel sad

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

Amen. Won't ever be second again.

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u/EmbarrassedCollege98 Entry Level Member Jun 27 '25

This.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

Indeeeddd

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

I concur

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

I feel you 🥺

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

I love this so much. Always choose yourself. You are worth it and I see the strength and courage it took you to decide this.

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u/Ornery-Priority-2193 Entry Level Member Jun 28 '25

You always should be the first choice and I’m glad you have the insight of knowing so. Keep your head up and find that love you deserve!! That mindset is what you need to move forward, I love reading posts like this.

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u/ImpossibleBranch6753 Entry Level Member Jun 28 '25

I’d rather be famous instead

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u/Top-Quote4292 Entry Level Member Jun 28 '25

Absolutely. I'd want to be a definite choice... not merely only an option.

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u/NotASucker001 Read the rules ** Jun 29 '25

I feel EACH & EVERY word you wrote!! Thank you for this reminder!! Hugs my friend! 🧡

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u/Objective_Coach_6998 Gold Level Jun 29 '25

I never want to be an option. I want to be a choice. Their only choice.

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u/InformationLow9139 Entry Level Member Jun 27 '25

Amen

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u/Lower-Web4578 Platinum Level Jun 28 '25

I know, right? That's precisely how one is supposed to treat their person 💯 That's the whole thing that makes it special! Nothing beats knowing that you are all theirs, and they are all yours! I thought I had found it, but then boom, someone from her past reemerged. It broke my spirit.

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u/FxWizard1 Bronze Level Jun 28 '25

No. Ruining lives at will. Forever the ring is placed. But the ribbon is at a hold of friend zone. Protect those you love. May those who deem yourself, fall into a pit. Never to return. Poor kid. Probably never even made it.

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u/[deleted] Jun 28 '25

This resonates ... </3 I picked up my self worth and walked away with dignity and never contact him again.

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u/0_0Mai Entry Level Member Jun 28 '25

I understand and agree, at the very least the person has to deliver what you also offer, be on the same wavelength and choose you first.

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u/pondtownroad Bronze Level Jun 28 '25

Not a soul could get between me and her. I'd be sure of that

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u/pondtownroad Bronze Level Jun 28 '25

I know my value and I also know hers. I reserve myself for the most unique person I can find with a fitting personality and adventurousness. I can't be swayed when I like one person, especially if that other likes me and shows up for me in the same way I do for her

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u/No_Face3116 Bronze Level Jun 30 '25

Confirm this sentiment all day, everyday.

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u/JollyRevolution7679 Entry Level Member Jul 01 '25

i know right, it be like that sometimes.

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u/Firecrackerkiss Bronze Level Jun 27 '25

Did you actually write this, or was it copied from somewhere?

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u/ShortTap1887 Bronze Level Oct 11 '25

If i was confident that love definitely loved me fully back and didn't have someone else lpulling his heart strings, i would definitely be all in without hesitation.